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    Tomorrow will be my first time to ever dance. Im so nervous about the stage, but I know that's where I need to be to make myself known... I don't mind dancing with the customers. but what about the other dancers? That makes me nervous. My boyfriend keeps telling me they aren't worried about me or anyone on stage for that matter. Or who gives a shit if they do watch you. But I feel like they watch other girls to see their competition?

    do you notice the other dancers staring at you while you're on stage?

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    Only in podunk crap little dives where none of the girls are making money and they sit around bored. But they aren't giving you money so fuck what thy think
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    OH God I had this stupid drunk dancer confront me about my "vacant stare" at work that was making other girls "uncomfortable." (In reality I had just been through a bunch of stress & was keeping to myself at this club.) I didn't allow her to annoy me.

    Ignore it, & if someone makes an issue of you being there, don't say anything. Most of these girls shut up if they can't provoke a reaction out of you.

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    Yeah, we all would watch new girls audition. But if you're hired, and you know you aren't dancing like a baby giraffe, then anyone staring at you is either admiring you or hating because they're jealous.
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    It doesn't matter why they stare. What matters is that the customers stare.

    Girls could be evaluating you as far as whether or not you'll be competition. Some girls stare because they may actually like to watch you dance. There's one girl at work and she and I watch each other because we inspire each other, as hokey as it sounds. She and I sort of feed off each other in a non-competitive way. She's really fun to watch because there's energy behind her performance and she makes it all look so easy and I know it isnt so I give her props. Keep in mind this is kind of rare.

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Yeah, we all would watch new girls audition. But if you're hired, and you know you aren't dancing like a baby giraffe, then anyone staring at you is either admiring you or hating because they're jealous.
    Selina summed it all up lol.

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    We all watch each other,whether they're new or veterans...just watching. IDC who watches
    Last edited by chocolatebombshell; 09-07-2017 at 11:36 AM.

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    If I'm not talking to anyone...just waiting around for new customers or whatever I watch the stage. I'm never thinking anything though. It's just entertaining.

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    I like to watch for the entertainment. And partially because I like getting ideas from other girls' dance moves. But I'm not hating or judging. There's just not much else to look at. Put some half-naked dancing girls in front of me, and I can't help but watch. lol

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    I sometimes watch other girls but its mostly out of admiration or seeing their technique, Im definitely not doing it out of spite

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    WE WATCH BECAUSE THE STRIP CLUB IS A CLUB WITH SEATING ORGANIZED AROUND A STAGE THE PATRONS ARE THERE TO WATCH! We're all in the same room, watching the same show, unless we're in VIP or doing a table dance. Honestly, sometimes I watch the stage even while I'm doing a table dance. It's relaxing to me. It's not a negative or a positive thing it is literally what being a stripper in a strip club is.

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    Why wouldn't they be staring at me onstage?
    The only time I've ever been upstaged is by a black transgender escort fighting the cops like a wildcat in the parking lot.
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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    At my club girls often watched other girls on stage for several reasons. Some just enjoy watching girls dance, some watch to get ideas for new moves and some watch to get the customer they are sitting with watching too. I'd often sit with a customer and compliment whatever dancer was on stage because 1, this gets him looking at something sexy 2, this makes him think about me with another girl and 3, this shows I'm not catty and don't consider other girls competition. Sometimes this even sets me up for selling a 2 girl show, or at least taking her a tip so that he can see us having fun together. I understand it can feel intimidating when other dancers watch you, especially when you're the new girl and you feel like you don't know what you're doing as much as girls who have been dancing for years. Try not to think the worst and let it work to your advantage. Sometimes if I'm on stage and no one is tipping and I see girls staring I'll blow kisses at them and smile so that any guys watching can see I'm having fun even if I'm all by myself.

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    LOL I never even thought about other girls watching me. It's just what strippers do when we aren't in the back. I think it's natural to watch other girls on stage.

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    Default Re: Other dancers staring at you..

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Why wouldn't they be staring at me onstage?
    The only time I've ever been upstaged is by a black transgender escort fighting the cops like a wildcat in the parking lot.
    Omg...this is a Hall Of Fame Strip Club drama story.

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    I only watch when I put lotion on poles
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