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    Obviously guys go to strip clubs for one reason... but do you think they ever get annoying with so many girls asking for dances? I feel like this is going to hold me back, a lot. If I see multiple girls going up to the customers, I feel like I'm bugging them.. BUT then again, I may be the one they want a dance from...

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    Default Re: Bugging the customers..?

    If you see multiple girls go up to the guy, watch them! what are they doing wrong? what are they doing right? what can you do that may be different from what theyre doing?

    i agree though, i notice when a guy gets multiple requests from girls to sit/dance/chat i would wait a couple minutes give him some time alone then i would go up to him.

    but then again if hes rejecting multipe girls....hes probably broke lol

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    lol don't feel bad, they come in there to look at girls and get dances and to spend money that's the only reason you should be entering a stripclub as a customer. Give them some breathing room at first to get a drunk but then dive in. That's like a waitress being afraid to come up to a customer to,take,their order. Think of it as "helping them to have a great time tonight"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dot View Post

    but then again if hes rejecting multipe girls....hes probably broke lol
    not nesessarily,

    a lot of guys who go to clubs are shy,

    he might be waiting for the girl he wants a dance from to come over, but is too shy to go ask her, and you could be that one

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    Default Re: Bugging the customers..?

    Consider the opposite scenario. If men came into the strip club and all the strippers ignored them, it would be a huge problem. In fact on SCL & other online forums customers will more frequently complain about dancers ignoring them & "staring at their phones" than any other offense.

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    Default Re: Bugging the customers..?

    The majority of customers aren't going to feel "bugged" by dancers, even multiple dancers, coming up to them throughout the night. They'll only get annoyed if they turn a girl down and she gets a bad attitude about it and/or won't leave him alone after he's made it clear he's not interested. As long as you have a decent approach where you can read the cues to know when to push a sale and when to leave it alone, you're just doing what you're there to do and what they knew you were there to do when they chose to walk through the door.

    The small minority of guys who are going to get pissy just because strippers approached them in a strip club, are miserable, cheap timewasters anyway, so their opinion matters very little.
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    Default Re: Bugging the customers..?

    If I see alot of girls approaching a customer and he keeps turning them down I'll go up to him and say something like "Are you getting attacked? There's so many girls tonight!" I feel like acknowledging the fact he's just turned down 5 girls will separate me from them because most of the time those 5 girls all just said 'wanna dance?'. After a little introduction and convo he'll usually start spending some money.

    Also, I think some customers just like to pretend they're annoyed but come on.. they came to the strip club for a reason and are getting hounded by hot girls in lingerie. It's not that bad lol. Plus if they really felt SO annoyed by us they wouldn't be there.

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    Default Re: Bugging the customers..?

    Quote Originally Posted by 22lligm View Post
    If I see alot of girls approaching a customer and he keeps turning them down I'll go up to him and say something like "Are you getting attacked? There's so many girls tonight!" I feel like acknowledging the fact he's just turned down 5 girls will separate me from them because most of the time those 5 girls all just said 'wanna dance?'. After a little introduction and convo he'll usually start spending some money.

    Also, I think some customers just like to pretend they're annoyed but come on.. they came to the strip club for a reason and are getting hounded by hot girls in lingerie. It's not that bad lol. Plus if they really felt SO annoyed by us they wouldn't be there.

    That's a good ice breaker!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 22lligm View Post
    If I see alot of girls approaching a customer and he keeps turning them down I'll go up to him and say something like "Are you getting attacked? There's so many girls tonight!" I feel like acknowledging the fact he's just turned down 5 girls will separate me from them because most of the time those 5 girls all just said 'wanna dance?'. After a little introduction and convo he'll usually start spending some money.

    Also, I think some customers just like to pretend they're annoyed but come on.. they came to the strip club for a reason and are getting hounded by hot girls in lingerie. It's not that bad lol. Plus if they really felt SO annoyed by us they wouldn't be there.
    I was actually coming here to say the same thing. I've had luck sitting down and talking to guys for at least a couple of songs in clubs where a lot of girls do the "You want a dance" thing because they're appreciative of the fact that I'm actually talking to them. In my personal experience "You want a dance" and nothing else only really works if the guy has REALLY had his eye on you and you're his type to a T.

    Now I'm not saying sit there for an hour or anything.....that was a common mistake I made as a newbie and I ended up getting my time wasted a lot and discouraged when I see another girl barely putting in the effort after me and taking them for a dance, but at perhaps a couple of songs and/or one drink before pushing.

    Also......one thing I never understood was in clubs where it's common and/or required for girls to walk around and ask if the guys want to tip after their sets, why some guys get annoyed....like, you know it's going to happen in that particular club so why act personally offended or like someone killed your baby because a girl holds out a G-string and asks if you'd like to tip? lol

    But yeah, you are right about the fact that they should come prepared to be asked for dances if they go into a strip club but sometimes guys don't make sense. lol

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    Default Re: Bugging the customers..?

    My approach when I see this is to act like I'm not there to get dances from them immediately, I'm there to chat (only if they seem interested though). I ask them how they are doing, etc. And then I tell them I would LOVE to dance for them! If guys are feeling bugged by dancer approaching them, either the dancers aren't approaching right, or the customer is in the wrong place!

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