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    Long story short is i got super drunk in the course 4 hours. I drank ALOT but it was a big party, and i was in a party mood and i had one to many (that grey goose really pushed me over the edge). At the end, i was in the locker room getting dressed i forgot my locker comb and i disrespected one of the managers. Being drunk makes my humor a little rough. I said this in a joking matter, and i laughed right after, "....but your not a real manager". I remember a girl hurrying up and said "no, she didnt mean that shes super drunk". He said "well im gonna b a real manager and suspend her tomorrow". He called me a ride and wouldnt let me drive home.

    Because of me drinking to much and saying something crazy i KNOW im in the hotseat tomorrow, and im embarressed because i NEVER GET DRUNK. I may have 2-3 max drinks and get buzzed but i have never acted this way. I understand wat he did bcuz id feel disrespected to. He said over the phone when i called nd asked about a missing shoe that "drunk ppl tell the truth and hell see me saturday". I honestlt said the first thing that came to my head and i didnt mean it the way he took it. It still is not ann excuse but i dont know how to explaib other than i was drunk dn a little to excited.
    Plus, this makes me want to stop drinking all together because even though this is not habitual for me i dont want it to become.

    HELP ME!!
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    Im upset with myself bcuz this has messed with my money to.
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    Yea, drinking/work don't mix as you found out, & does mess up your $. It's good he didn't let you drive either..
    I'd just go in, apologize, promise not to get buzzed again & go from there, it's all you can do really.
    Don't dwell/overthink on it, it's done, but try not to do it again.
    & you lost a shoe on top of it?
    Good luck.


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    First and foremost, probably 99.9% of the girls on this site got drunk one time at work. The manager has probably seen a lot worse. Where you really fucked up is not so much with the drinking but the personal attack.The best thing you can do is go talk to him one on one, when no one else is there. Apologize. Tell him it won't happen again and don't repeat the behavior. In time he will get over it.

    Hope your shoe turns up.
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    All you can do is go in and offer a sincere apology. Then do not get shitfaced at work again. Don't beat yourself up. Everyone makes mistakes. All we can do is learn from it and not do it again.
    Good luck! Let us know how it goes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fallyn_love View Post
    Im upset with myself bcuz this has messed with my money to.
    & This is always the real reason to be mad you got too wasted at work.

    I've yelled at managers before so I guess I can't say much about upsetting the manager who suspended you.

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    Agree with ladies above. Apologize - you're going to seem sincere because you are sincere, you def regret what was done/said.

    But have to agree, managers have seen a LOT worse and you prob bumped his ego a little soooooo let him do what he needs to as far as reading you the riot act but so long as you're not a habitual retard at work, I'm sure it'll all be fine.

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    I would NOT feel bad about this minor incident! I guess I work at a party club, but I have seen way way worse things from drunk girls (and probably myself) that the managers and house moms/dads let role off their shoulders. If he is going to be that butthurt about a PG drunk one-liner, maybe he really isn't a real manager! Lol. Hell my ex-boyfriend owned a club and he had drunk girls attacking him at times, if they were normally good (or made a ton of money) he let it just lie w/ maybe drink restrictions.

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    Dude, my friend was once so wasted she called the manager at 4am hen she realized she left her keys at work and was like, I can't stand and I can't get inside my place and I need to pee and he arranged a locksmith for her! Over the phone! These things happen the waitresses ply you with drinks! To make money! They don't care about you you're just money to them- they over served you didn't they? DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR HIM. He will get over it if you apologize, say you are a crazy drunk which is why you normally don't drink a lot. But keep your mouth shut if there's a next time you drink at work.

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    Idk if this issue is resolved already but at least he said he'll see you Saturday instead of just telling you not to come back for two weeks or something. He probably knows this is out of character for you but is still butthurt cause he really isn't a real manager lol. I'm sure it'll all blow over as long as you don't get sloppy drunk again.

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    Wow, that's a really nice mgr, Vanessa


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    He was truly the nicest I have ever met, he was cool too, he wrote for VICE when it was a newsletter in MTL, he gave the girls who had kids picture books for them at christmas, he one made a bartender APOLOGIZE for saying something homophobic about people deserving to be beaten at the Polish gay pride events (it was on the news at the bar that's why), a dancer who was a lesbian was there and the club had a half a dozen lesbian dancers so he took it seriously. BUT then we found out he was stealing when he got fired like the week before christmas one year.

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    So, OP whatever happened?


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