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    Technology not even a friend. There's this girl I talk to on the phone from time to time from another forum I frequent. Anyway this girl talks about nothing for hours but sometimes she's entertaining. I've met girls from this same forum before so I figured we'll meet one day. My thing is she lies so hard sometimes. Like she'll tell me she's dating a ball player (several) or that she's 27 and a virgin. Now I'm not sure if she's making fun of me or looking for attention sometimes. She'll tell me she's almost 30 and has a government job but lives with her mother who's abusive toward her. She says her mom is disabled but can't get a check from the government for some reason so she has no income to support herself so she can't leave. I feel sorry for her but I also have a feeling she's lying. Talking to her sometimes frustrates me. What do y'all think?

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    Default Re: Does this make me a bad friend

    Sounds like an exercise in frustration to me..& I personally don't like people who have to lie all the time, why the need for that?
    Sounds like someone I'd prefer to avoid, but that's me..

    Edit: If I need/want entertaining, there's always youtube..
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    I don't know why I've entertained her this long. I just reread what I wrote and was like WTF.

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    Default Re: Does this make me a bad friend

    I guess she's entertaining herself too if she thinks you believed all her lies. She's just bored and possibly unable to afford a therapist. Why don't you tell her you think she's lying and see what she says? But that might anger her and end your friendship with her. You obviously like talking to her or value her friendship if you don't care about what she's doing.

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    Default Re: Does this make me a bad friend

    Quote Originally Posted by wish View Post
    I don't know why I've entertained her this long. I just reread what I wrote and was like WTF.

    doesn't sound like you are finding her that entertaining....

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