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    Last night was my very first time dancing. And my dudes, I don't even dance just like, by myself. I'm not a good dancer. But I was lookin good, feelin good, decided not to get on the stage bc i'm still not great in heels and they had 0 grip on them, I ended up selling two dances, but they were awful and I felt bad for the guy. I know its definitely me but also we were on couches and theyre old af and they sink in, so you end up sinking in it too. So it was just even harder. I left shortly after that, I felt sick and needed to gooooo. I woke up still feeling sick and upset this morning. I need to watch tutorials ASAP.

    I don't even want to go in tonight. I can hardly walk in the shoes I have bc they're too big and I don't have the money to order any at the moment. I feel like it's so pointless and I'm so fucking ashamed of myself rn.

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    The only way to get rid of the awkwardness is to keep working. You can practice as much as you want at home but its not the same as giving an actual lap dance to a customer. Plus another night and you should be able to afford a pair of heels that fit you.

    I remember a few years ago I started at this nude club where dances were done on some couches too and I didn't have any experience with that. I wasn't even brand new to dancing this was probably like a year or two in. But my very first lap dance at that club was SO incredibly awkward. The customer wanted me to turn around but I didn't really understand what he was asking me to do.. so I ended up in this really ugly position like on my hands and knees over him with one leg on the floor completely naked. I know I had to look so stupid and uncomfortable lol. He just ended it early and left.. I was so embarrassed lol.

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    Default Re: First Night, Worst Night

    Totally play up the newbie thing, guys love it! Makes you seem innocent and they love man-splaining how to give lap dances. Just don't let them convince you that extras are normal (they will try).

    But anyways try and joke about how you don't know what you're doing yet and try to have fun and not feel too self conscious (easier said than done I know). Fake it til you make it. Take a night off if you need to before trying again (unless you're on a schedule or something)

    Also, I've been dancing for years and I still hate dancing on couches that sink in like that, it really is hard.

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    Oh yeah I'm sure. I'm gonna keep trying I think, it's just gonna suck a little bit because I suck with rhythm. But Imma try to get there. Lol atleast you've come a way I'm sure!! No more awkward lap dances for you

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    I tried to a little bit! This guy I danced for was pretty awkward and it was really hard to keep a conversation going, I'm surprised he even wanted a dance from me lol. Bleh it'll get easier. I'm not gonna go in tonight tho, I acquired some moneyyy so I'll be ordering some shoes that fit me (hopefully)

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    It's ok you will get better if it's something you really want to do! It took me about a year to really get the hang of it and to get a solid hustle going, I had my ups and downs that year, but I didn't give up because I knew I had potential. If you want to do it, you 100% can!! The more you work, the faster you will get it. We all start somewhere, every girl started at the bottom and didn't know anything at first!

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    Honey listen, I've been dancing for ten years and randomly had the awkward night from hell the other night. My stage sets were fucking terrible (seriously, it was like all the moves i knew went straight outta my head and on top of it I screwed up a relatively easy pole trick and fell on my back). Talking to custies was like pulling teeth. I was frantically pulling up SW and watching old videos of my most bangin stage sets trying to psych myself back into stripper mode and just nothing worked.
    So it happens to even veterans babe- that weird off night where nothing works. Keep at it, stay on these forums. Look up Voodoo Pole Dance by Luscious Maven (a great routine with some easy floor work- don;t try the pole tricks just yet tho lol) Look up beginner pole routines on YouTube and take your phone on a side stage or something so you can watch and practice the moves while you're watching. You'll get there.

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