So I met this hot guy on FB...really sweet person. Told me all of these things that seemed too good to be true. I told him I wanted a CASUAL relationship but he said he really likes me, wants to try dating, he even influenced me to delete my POF profile (I was looking for a booty call) and he said all the right things, we even joked around about living together and getting a new cat, I would say things like "My pussy wants you" and he wold reply "I hope more than you pussy wants me..." he said "Let's date and see how things go.." and because he was so sweet and hot, I say OK fine lets try this...We meet up ONCE, had a few drinks and went home.
The next morning, I spoke to a mutual friend on FB of ours who I am not close to at all, I was interested in her personal training and I told her we met up and she WENT OFF. She told me how much of a liar he is, told me he lied about a furniture company he said he owned, lied about being her diet coach, that he is a player, POS etc etc etc....at first I believed her because HE DID seem WAY too good to be true. Her and I laughed about it and hung up the phone. I never confronted him about it just shrugged it off because I barely knew him anyway- it wasn't a loss and worth drama.
Not long after, he texts me asking why is this mutual friend of ours blowing up his phone. He then sends me screen shots of the texts she sent him cursing him out and insulting him. I told him "You know what? I don't want the drama, lets just keep whatever is going on between us, do not tell anyone, I don't care if you are a player, I don't know who to believe... as long as you give me penis, we are golden" Totally dismissing the idea of us dating because at this point I believe her. But him and I had such an amazing time, great conversations, we connected so well....so it didn't stop me from talking to him. Plus I am no saint myself, I have baggage too and he was EXACTLY what I was looking for in a booty call.
So for like TWO FREAKIN DAYS this drama has been going on..she's sending me screen shots, he's sending me screen shots, she is SO ANGRY. Then she told me "I would feel uncomfortable if you two hooked up" that's when I realized SHE IS JEALOUS. I still think he lied about a few things but SHE IS JEALOUS. They never dated, they never even had sex..So I cut her off because she WOULD NOT STOP talking about it and causing way too much stress. I also cut her off because she is known for her anger and causing drama. She even fought one of my best friends over CHICKEN on a JAMAICA TRIP. smh
And now the guy isn't answering me. We had plans to have like a sex and movie night and I'd ask him if he is still coming and he ignored it. We then start talking about a few things, we joked around about him being here when my ex gets his stuff, we talked about anal sex, we made plans for a party...so I asked him again if he is coming over maybe he missed it the first time he asked- ignored it. So I'm confused because he is showing interest and then suddenly not.
I delete his number. Then the personal trainer girl blew up my phone again, we got into it...the conversation was so funny that I sent him screen shots via FB (because I deleted his number)..he replied to it. So I'm like OK he isn't totally ignoring me. Then I asked him THE THIRD TIME - want to come over? I see that he read the message BUT IGNORES IT. So I tell him "I asked you 3 times and you ignored it guess you dont want to anymore...its cool tho babe no harm." And thought that was the end of us and he wasn't interested.
But he is liking my stuff on social media. I truly don't get it....
My theory is that the drama pushed him away and the fact that this girl aired all of his dirty laundry and he doesn't want to face me because of it....or maybe he feels rejected because I told him I only wanted sex from him when he asked for more? Or both? Because when we first started talking he said things like I was out of his league- self conscious things. He is kinda shy and reserved. Or did he simply lose interest? I want him back and want to start all over because things were going good and I see him as a friend at least....should I leave it alone or tell him I want him back?



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