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    I was wondering what your experiences have been with reducing the things you offer - for example going non-nude, no longer doing anal, or no longer using toys. Did you phase them out over time? Did you get a lot of complaints? Did you have old custies that didn't read your updated profile, went private, and were disappointed?

    I'm thinking about significantly reducing the amount of anal I do. While I really love it, I'm seeing someone lately who is extremely talented in that arena. Since I can't do infinite amounts of anal, I want to limit the amount I do on cam and increase the amount I do in my personal life. Also, it's a little harder for me to enjoy anal on cam these days because it really pales in comparison to the real thing. It would also be nice to do a bit less "hygienic preparation" for cam.

    I was considering offering anal only for Skype shows and only some days of the week. As a side bonus, I feel that if I put my "anal days" on days of the week that are less busy for me, it may increase traffic for those days. On the other hand, it might just be more confusing, and I can see guys saying, "But bb, I want anal NOW. If you can do anal on Wednesday, why not NOW?" (My answer for this could be "I see my lover on Xday and Yday, and he fucks me hard in the ass, so I'm not up for any more anal afterward. But I'll tell you all the sexy details during our show!")

    Thoughts? If you've reduced your menu, what worked for you? What would you do differently if you could?
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    Default Re: Tips for stopping/reducing certain services you currently offer

    I used to do anal, then I quit for a long time because it got to be too much. Now I do it again but only occasionally. I will only do it for my regulars who I know are not going to do short shows. I don't use big toys either. I really don't notice any difference in how busy I am whether I do it or not. I took all of last week off from it.

    I think that if you are specifying a certain day of the week, maybe just say that doing it every day is too much for you. I think that a lot of men appreciate that kind of honesty.
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    I reserve anal for private shows (that's 1-2-1 on Adultwork) so it comes at a premium and only if I feel like it. If I don't want to do it, I tell them I have already done anal that day and can't do it any more times. I don't get asked for it very much.

    I used to use a large, realistic vibrator but switched to using a wand as it was so much easier and much more pleasurable, and sometimes a glass g-spot toy that is much easier to use. Guys didn't have a problem with that and I will use other toys in private. Higher prices avoids the "harder, faster" guys, I find. I only had one guy say that he couldn't see enough when I used the wand.
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    I get asked for it A LOT. I used to do it but it's not something I find massively enjoyable so tend not to do it now. I will play fingers but thats it. I have to say I have found higher prices have stopped the guys that want you naked and fucking ass with your fist in 20sec guys.

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    I also say that if you like doing it but want to do less then jack up the price! Make them pay a flat rate plus your per min rate to see it. Like $100 tip and then the show.

    If you just want to offer it certain days then just tell them what days its available and who give a flying fuck if they whine. The trick with whiners is not to answer just to repeat what days you do it. Its the "why" trap! Never answer the question why just say NO.

    Some days I cant be bothered to get all ready for anal (I also love doing it in shows but I feel you there) or I just know its not gonna be a good day for it and I just say no. I havent lost anyone that Im aware of but it doesnt matter anyways because clients are like cells in your body. Constantly being renewed!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    "But bb, I want anal NOW. If you can do anal on Wednesday, why not NOW?"
    I offered anal, amongst many other things (deepthroating, squirting) that I barely (have to) do anymore
    Like Carmen I only offer it to the regs who are worthy or it (by staying in long, and are polite) or when thye do bloc sessions (or stay a long ass time)

    I brought it all down by not actively advertising it anymore (removed all the tags, took everything out of my profile that i did not want to offer anymore). I upped the intensety of my roleplaying/acting/rappotrtbuilding skills and focus more on the intimate teasing and mindfucking instead of focussing on toys. I keep having more days where i rarely have to do a toyshow- and the normal bj shows are growing - which I do love to give (without gagging and hardcore shit).
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    Default Re: Tips for stopping/reducing certain services you currently offer

    I feel like anal is a pretty easy one to reduce, because real life is a real excuse. I used to offer it all the time, but now I keep it to block sessions only. However, for a while I was just saying "today is really not a good day for anal," and if they asked why, I'd say "because some days just aren't, anyone who does anal knows that" or something like that. It was never an issue, really.
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    I only offer anal in shows over a certain length (known only to me I never disclose it to clients it just naturally happens in longer shows if requested) or full goal gold shows. Same with toys, I bought a new toy last week and have only used it 3 times (thank god because it's big) simply because I state I will only use it in block sessions or again full goal gold shows if I want to. If you state your boundaries and stick to them no matter what then I find I get less whiners as my terms are laid out bare for them so they have no reason to bitch later on.

    I've also been drawing out shows (not in a rip-off way just a natural flow) more and very rarely do full on hard core pussy play/fucking shows now. I'm lucky I guess that guys get enthralled and don't realise they are only getting to worship my body and not much else lol. Also I don't do anything unless they either ask or affirm it's what they are after nowadays and I am so much happier, not to mention richer!

    Be transparent and they are less likely to complain and rate poorly (I've only had one 3* rating in over a year every single other one has been 5* - hope I don't jinx it) because they are aware of everything going into the show.

    If I don't fancy a certain service on any particular day then I just simply say that's not on offer today, if they complain I say next time you'll jump in quicker when it is available - 9/10 they learn their lesson and do exactly that. For example my full beaver gets sheared every now and again and guys have learnt that if I say my bush is present it's time to go exclusive lol.

    My life got a lot easier when I realised that charging high rates does NOT mean the customer is in control it just means I get fairly compensated for my killer performance. Don't be afraid to say no.
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    Thanks for the responses, ladies. I'm glad that some of you had reasonably easy transitions into "working smarter, not harder."

    I don't know why I've been a bit nervous about this idea. I'm usually pretty good about putting my foot down with the guys. I just tend to feel like I ought to have a rational, easily understood reason for my "rules," instead of just "because I said so." Also, I get a little nervous that if I say "Oh, it's not really a good day for me to do anal," some dude will be like, "I know what that means! How about dirty anal/shitting on cam instead?" And then I would facepalm myself into oblivion.
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    Charge Extra for ANAL!.. do block sessions if you are on SM.. or ask for $20 tips or something.. the extra money deters some of them so you won't be doing it as much.

    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    I was wondering what your experiences have been with reducing the things you offer - for example going non-nude, no longer doing anal, or no longer using toys. Did you phase them out over time? Did you get a lot of complaints? Did you have old custies that didn't read your updated profile, went private, and were disappointed?

    I'm thinking about significantly reducing the amount of anal I do. While I really love it, I'm seeing someone lately who is extremely talented in that arena. Since I can't do infinite amounts of anal, I want to limit the amount I do on cam and increase the amount I do in my personal life. Also, it's a little harder for me to enjoy anal on cam these days because it really pales in comparison to the real thing. It would also be nice to do a bit less "hygienic preparation" for cam.

    I was considering offering anal only for Skype shows and only some days of the week. As a side bonus, I feel that if I put my "anal days" on days of the week that are less busy for me, it may increase traffic for those days. On the other hand, it might just be more confusing, and I can see guys saying, "But bb, I want anal NOW. If you can do anal on Wednesday, why not NOW?" (My answer for this could be "I see my lover on Xday and Yday, and he fucks me hard in the ass, so I'm not up for any more anal afterward. But I'll tell you all the sexy details during our show!")

    Thoughts? If you've reduced your menu, what worked for you? What would you do differently if you could?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    Thanks for the responses, ladies. I'm glad that some of you had reasonably easy transitions into "working smarter, not harder."

    I don't know why I've been a bit nervous about this idea. I'm usually pretty good about putting my foot down with the guys. I just tend to feel like I ought to have a rational, easily understood reason for my "rules," instead of just "because I said so." Also, I get a little nervous that if I say "Oh, it's not really a good day for me to do anal," some dude will be like, "I know what that means! How about dirty anal/shitting on cam instead?" And then I would facepalm myself into oblivion.
    LMAO - I get that A LOT!!! Now I just say No! No reasoning, it's my body and I decide No!

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    I have special offers on AW for things I prefer not to do so that I get fairly compensated for doing something that I may not be fancying too much, the guys NEVER take them up! 'You want squirt bb? In 2 mins? Buy my special then!' (at 25 creds for 5mins - it will take 10mins for it to happen but if they bail at 2mins and Ive gone to the trouble of getting my waterproof sheet out and warming myself up I am compensated)

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    Do you guys find you make more doing anal shows?

    Personally I love anal. I could do anal everyday. Lmao. My partner loves it too but playing with toys is a totally different and awesome sensation for me. I haven't started camming yet but I wanted to be an anal centric cam girl, and also do more hardcore stuff like deepthroat / gagging, playing with big anal toys, etc. After reading this thread tho, it seems like y'all have opted out. Is it just too hard on the body?

    I've never done any anal preparation and I haven't had any problems with "accidents" Maybe that's why I'm so eager. But I also don't think doing anal in shows everyday is worth it unless I'm banking because of it.

    My platform would be chaturbate, I had intended on making anal shows 5 or 6k tokens, which is $250 or $300 US.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    Thanks for the responses, ladies. I'm glad that some of you had reasonably easy transitions into "working smarter, not harder."

    I don't know why I've been a bit nervous about this idea. I'm usually pretty good about putting my foot down with the guys. I just tend to feel like I ought to have a rational, easily understood reason for my "rules," instead of just "because I said so." Also, I get a little nervous that if I say "Oh, it's not really a good day for me to do anal," some dude will be like, "I know what that means! How about dirty anal/shitting on cam instead?" And then I would facepalm myself into oblivion.
    If someone asks for scat, I say "I don't do that" and/or "I'm not allowed to do that on this site." The last thing I want to do is make them feel bad about their scat fetish, but if they are not the type to take no for an answer, why waste a facepalm on em? Just block!
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    I just don't do things I don't like or don't feel like. Even if I did them before or may do them tomorrow, if I don't feel like it today I just won't do it. Most men are extremely easy to lead and it takes very little to turn them on/keep them turned on. Even the most hardcore anal guy can be seduced into a 10/15 minute show or even longer just using yoir voice, moving your body, eye contact, instructions on how to touch himself, asking him questions then building a fantasy around his answers. He'll be ready to burst before you even bare your ass if you indeed choose to, and even then faking is easy. There's absolutely no need to feel you HAVE to do everything guys want, or do it all the time, or even do it for real. Do only what YOU like to do, DON'T do what you don't like, and fake the maybes unless they hit my one hard limit (animals) I try never to use the word 'no' or the phrase 'I can't/dont', I avoid negative language and try to ensure it never gets to that point in a show. Always guide them and stay in control. It's hard to explain exactly but that's how I always stay in control without seeming like I am x
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