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    Tonight is my first night and I'm a nevrous wreck. I have dancing experience from when I was little and I've done a year and half of pole class a few years ago. I'm definitely shyer but I know how to dance. I spend my weekends going out dancing and people will ask if I'm a stripper. However my confidence I low and I know I need to work on it. A few of my concerns are I don't know how to give lap dances.. idk if there are any threads that link tips. But I'm starting in a no contact club. And I'm also dancing in my hometown. So that's a big anxiety of someone I know coming in. Also I work 9-5 as of now and I will be dancing weeknights after work 2-3 nights a week to see what money I can bring in. How can I manage this for a while? I have weekends off.

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    Do you mean "no contact" as in air dances or simply that the guys can't touch you but you can still make contact with them? If it's the former, most "how to lap dance" videos on youtube aren't going to be helpful because air dancing is basically just slowly removing your clothes and posing in front of the guy. You just pick different body parts to showcase and pay attention to anything he says he'd like to see more of.
    One-way contact is basically the same except you can add in things like sliding down his body, sitting in his lap (and a little grinding if your rules allow), motorboating him, etc.

    Make sure stripper you wears different makeup, styles their hair differently, etc than civilian you. If somebody claims to have seen you, deny deny deny. Laugh it off like "I guess I have a twin, could you imagine ME stripping?" or something of the sort. It helps if civilian you doesn't seem like the kind of person who would ever do something as "wild" or whatever as dancing naked.

    Is there a reason you've chosen to dance weeknights or is that a schedule the club has given you? I've had day jobs briefly throughout my stripping career and I would literally never dance on a night if I had to work the next morning. When I worked Tues-Sat I just danced Saturday nights (and sometimes Sundays if it was a holiday weekend or game night etc) and that was fine as supplemental income. I'm not a pleasant person when I've underslept and I feel like I wouldn't be able to hide the fact that I've been up all night. There are girls who have done it though so hopefully they can chime in.

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    Yeah no contact air dances. It seems odd to me but I guess it's something I will have to learn?

    Problem is I have tattoos so it's like pretty much undeniable lol. But I guess at that point it's "mutually assured destruction" like if they have a problem with me there, why are they there kind of thing.
    I figured I can try it during the week and I make enough money, I can quit my 9-5 and work a few more days and possibly a weekend day.My boyfriend is off weekends so I wanted to have a nice block of time to spend with him.

    Do you know of any good videos to watch to get some dance moves until I can fix up my pole skills? Or even videos for the dance? Il

    Also how Istop myself from freezing up on stage tonight

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    Yeah you'll pick it up as you go. Watch the other girls when you can. Air dancing can actually be awesome because if you have customers with bad hygiene etc you don't have to come into contact with them at all... Air dances are more about being sensual but also just generally entertaining- if you can keep a conversation going it's easy to get stacks of dances/vip time. There's only so many ways you can pose before it's repeats, keeping them engaged verbally means you can keep the time going forever.

    There's a ton of pole dancing stuff on youtube but the best way to pick things up is really just watching the other girls. If you're at a no contact club you might not see much pole work at all but it depends on if this is the local rules or just the club trying to be classy. For stage don't worry about moves so much and just look like you are enjoying getting naked. The guys are there to see tits and ass, moves give you something to do up there to kill time but aren't necessary in most clubs. Just keep smiling and try to make eye contact with as many guys as possible

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