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    So I've been getting more requests in rooms or when selling rooms or double dances, to kiss.
    Maybe because I'm old, or because of past clubs I've worked at; kissing is a no go, and it never even occurred to me to do otherwise.

    Do you ladies find this request common? Is this 'extras' territory? Am I prude and need to get over it (OMG breath spray for everyone, ew)?

    Thoughts?

    Ps boyfriend #1 is in the "ew' camp, boyfriend #2 thought kissing was already happened in the club

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    Naw don't. You can nuzzle during dances BUT if the guy goes in for a kiss you have a right to calm him down.

    A LOT of VIP customers are emotionally needy & treat dancers like surrogate girlfriends. It's draining.

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    Ew.

    I would consider kissing in the "extras" territory. God only knows where his mouth has been.

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    Oh yes kissing and making out with customers is definitely becoming mainstream. I don't get it, I'm sure I'd throw up right on someone's face, gross.

    The problem seems to be its not actually in anyway illegal so clubs don't care, girls can't get arrested so they don't care... these are most likely the same idiots that get drunk in night clubs and make out with the first guy they can just because it's something to do...

    Someone's going to have to invent face condoms...

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    Exactly my thought!
    It's up there with "take this dollar with your mouth...wait no your ass cheeks" and that's why I won't do either. Yuck!

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    Fucking nasty. I don't even kiss most of my lovers. Only if I really truly am in love with the person. I find it a bit too intimate.
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    NO! No kissing. Ew ew ew no kissing. I very rarely get requests for kisses. We are not "surrogate girlfriends " (as mentioned above), we are not prostitutes. We are dancers. Dancers =fantasy. Fantasy = no kissing. They don't like it? Then tough shit.

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    One word
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    Noo way. I have only seen kissing maybe 3 times in the last 4 years I've been dancing. It's definitely not something that's becoming normal, you'e just attracting entitled ass men for whatever reason lately. I never get guys who request kissing, I've had guys try, but I'm always able to dodge and they're usually just clueless newbies or socially awkward.

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    Kissing is NASTY. DO not kiss customers in the Vip no matter how much they want you to, deflect. I straight up tell them I don't like kissing ANYONE (not even in real life) because I find it too intimate and the swapping of spit grosses me out (whether its true or not). Fact of the matter is you can and will get herpes (cold sores) and those things hurt, itch, and are highly contagious and if you are a good person, you will have to take off work to let it heal so HELL NO, NO KISSING.

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    Not gonna lie, I already get cold sores....so there is my out.
    I told the dancer that was with me "oh I have lipstick on I can't kiss" she said "oh you can just take it off"
    Then I felt like a prude and that I was letting major cash walk away (he has 3 day regulars he drops $600 to $800 on)
    Manager even pulled me aside later to tell me what a good client he is and how he said he liked me. Ahhh! Its like a 7th grade dance. I'm not kissing the guy!

    So how to keep that regular?

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    Quote Originally Posted by gelsey View Post
    Not gonna lie, I already get cold sores....so there is my out.
    I told the dancer that was with me "oh I have lipstick on I can't kiss" she said "oh you can just take it off"
    Then I felt like a prude and that I was letting major cash walk away (he has 3 day regulars he drops $600 to $800 on)
    Manager even pulled me aside later to tell me what a good client he is and how he said he liked me. Ahhh! Its like a 7th grade dance. I'm not kissing the guy!

    So how to keep that regular?
    Tricky. You don't want to lose him, yet you can't kiss him either. Nor do you want to say that you get cold sores.

    You can work this to your advantage. Guys love chasing the one they can't get. I had a customer once who'd try to kiss me (he'd kiss other girls too) and I'd always tell him no, sorry, I dont kiss on the lips.That made him want me even more. I suddenly became a challenge. I'd give him a kiss on the cheek, but that was it. But he kept after me, like I was some sort of conquest, and I never gave in.

    You could tease him. "Maybe if you're a good boy I will..." "We'll see! Tee hee!"

    That's my suggestion, anyway...

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    For now, just lead him on. I'd try to maximize your time with him the next time you see him, and take his money before he realizes he's not going to get what he's asking for. And be your awesome self. Who knows, the lack of kissing might not be a dealbreaker.

    But yeah, don't let your boundaries be pushed. That's bad news. Kissing is not normal at the SC.

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    If a guy's hot and the girl is drunk and horny I don't like it but whatever. But honestly I find it really gross and could never do it and I just flat out say no when guys try. Makes me want to vomit. And when girls do it in the club just for money pretty much everyone from staff to other dancers talk mad shit and the kisser tends to get fired. But that's just where I am. If you don't want to don't do it. No amount of money is worth your dignity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babb View Post
    Noo way. I have only seen kissing maybe 3 times in the last 4 years I've been dancing. It's definitely not something that's becoming normal, you'e just attracting entitled ass men for whatever reason lately. I never get guys who request kissing, I've had guys try, but I'm always able to dodge and they're usually just clueless newbies or socially awkward.
    Maybe in some areas but I've noticed several girls around me, my club and some around Dayton I've visited as a customer, strippers really are doing this more and more regularly. Of course no where around cincinnati/dayton is high-class.

    There was a girl working with me last Sunday that was telling me if I just kiss them then they have to get vip and bam I'd be making money, I was having a completely horrible night and had only like 40$ after 6 hours >: I didn't really respond to her just kinda like, "yeah sure" while thinking wtf ew back away slowly...

    The clubs just don't seem to care since it's not an actual legality issue...

    I don't understand how they just aren't sick constantly...

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    Quote Originally Posted by questella View Post
    Maybe in some areas but I've noticed several girls around me, my club and some around Dayton I've visited as a customer, strippers really are doing this more and more regularly. Of course no where around cincinnati/dayton is high-class.

    There was a girl working with me last Sunday that was telling me if I just kiss them then they have to get vip and bam I'd be making money, I was having a completely horrible night and had only like 40$ after 6 hours >: I didn't really respond to her just kinda like, "yeah sure" while thinking wtf ew back away slowly...

    The clubs just don't seem to care since it's not an actual legality issue...

    I don't understand how they just aren't sick constantly...
    Eep... that's unfortunate. I know my club allows some things now, that used to be forbidden (boob touching, in private dance/champagne rooms), and it freaking sucks to feel obligated to give up more of yourself for the same money.

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    Julia Roberts rule.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    I never do anything I don't wanna do! If you feel that feeling like "ughhh he might not pay me if I don't comply" know that's a WARNING! And at that point you let him know you're only here to dance! Remember a man only goes as far as you let him...most of the time.
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    GROSS! These girls don't realize you can make money without compromising yourself. Stupid! Ok, if he's giving you a downpayment he can extort a kiss from you... not a champagne room, Jesus Christ.

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    I've seen this happening a bit more regularly. Like kissing/making out happening while giving dances. I was just floored. I'm not necessarily one to judge, but no way I'm kissing anyone in a strip club that I just met. Maybe, a girl is drunk, maybe the girl is a newbie and really is into a guy, but I just don't understand it. Don't get it.

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    Herpes. No-no!

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    I'll usually bite their ears and kiss their necks/breathe heavily
    But I never kiss on the lips or cheek area.

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    Omg, I'd consider fucking a customer (protected) before I'd consider kissing them. And I'd walk off a cliff before I'd consider fucking them. Ick. Ick ick.

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    I always use my thumb and for finger to mimicking kissing/licking their ears. I've never had someone notice that this is what I was doing rather than actually using my mouth (ew) and they get really into it and tell me how much they love it when I bite and lick their ears lol, that was my nails and finger dude. ;p

    If I tasted their salty skin in my mouth I'm sure I'd gag, I have a oral complex when it comes to human skin. Tastes gross, feels weird.

    On the other side it absolutely irks me when the other girls lick my ears neck and leave my skin wet, I want to run away so fast. Please don't put your nasty saliva on me.

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    Ugh a dancer licked my nipple in vip; I couldn't very well tell her no in front of the customer. In my head I was like "bitch what are you doing!? We already got the money, wait till we try to pitch the 2nd hour before you up the sexy"
    Everyone keep your spit and hands to yourself #imaprude

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