
Originally Posted by
DezMancy
It seems like you figured this out already, as he's still calling you back (yay!) but I'll toss out my 2 cents anyway.
Being a romantic accessible GFE type has accidentally become my *thing* (and it's so much more emotional labor than it's worth imo) and for me what sort of makes this type of private (or snapchat video call, which has pulled me off camming) is eye contact with the camera. Do not break it to make sure you look good! It makes this type of guy get all blushy, and sets the experience apart from most of the ladies who are still fixating on how hot they are instead of making it seems like they're looking ~deep into his soul~. Like thatgingercamgirl there's a lot of "method acting" that goes into it, convince yourself YOU want to go slow because you're nervous or really want to get to know him/ try this **new dirty thing** with him etc etc. I'm not sweet or mushy or romantic IRL, it's taking over my life right now though.
I do something I think I learned from more socially adept teenagers when I was younger (so most of yall probably already know/do it), a sort of fake flirty blush eyelash bat situation, and I really only break eye contact with my lens to do it--like a look down, as authentic as you can muster it smile then bat your eyelashes back up at it. It gives the impression that I'm trying to hide what an AMAZING time i'm having, but they can see through it, they know I'm falling in love, I'm so deliciously transparent.. Worked great for sugar dads too.
A few other things I've been taking note of since having my boyfriend in the room during some long calls, and his comments--Maybe it's obvious, but if they ask you DEFINITELY want kids. Like your whole life is totally leading up to the three kids you want to have with the right man. Doesn't matter what they're like, if you're domming them, whatever, they want to imagine you getting pregnant (even if they're the cuckold in the situation or whatever). I said I didn't a few times, to prove my BF wrong, but all those guys ended up dropping off the radar after a few calls.
Also...ugh I can't believe I'm writing it but talk about your daddy or big brother/ uncle whatever. It's gross, but we all knew men were gross, yeah? Especially with my religious guys, this A. takes up a lot of time (recently had 4 hour no nudity call, I was making up camping trips like you wouldn't believe) B. makes them feel like you trust them C. highlights your family values which mean A LOT to more religious or older people.
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