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    As an escort, what do you guys think of a meet and greet price?

    Let's say $200 for quick drinks?

    Good idea or nah?

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    I don't like the idea of meet and great. They either want a session with you or they don't. I've only done that once and he didn't come back for a session. I also don't like the idea that they are "unsure enough" about me that they don't want to have a regular session... what's not to like, buddy??

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    Why not just do paid dates? Breakfast, lunch, dinner. I remember I think kortneykay mentioning something about that.
    Last edited by Blovely; 04-04-2017 at 10:41 PM. Reason: meant why instead of what

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    I also think this could be kind of dicey - if he is asking for "just a meet and greet session", I'd be paranoid about him being LE. As if somehow trying to prove that meet and greets don't involve sex in exchange for money, but your regular sessions do. Luckily I don't live and the states though.

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    I turned these down. A LOT of guys who would even float this idea are either trying to run a long con on you, or really think they have a chance to date you.

    Boundaries are very valuable for the escort.

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    if he specifically asks for a meet & greet, he's bullshitting you & wasting your time. if he wants to meet at bar, restaurant or anything along those lines, then he needs to pay you your hourly rate. I wouldn't compromise on that at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shannon. View Post
    I also think this could be kind of dicey - if he is asking for "just a meet and greet session", I'd be paranoid about him being LE. .
    I cant see LE wasting additional time and resources doing a meet and greet. Not saying it can't happen but unlikely. Too many variables involved. Stings require equipment, arresting officers in another room, etc

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    Quote Originally Posted by OHITSRIRI View Post
    if he specifically asks for a meet & greet, he's bullshitting you & wasting your time.
    Perhaps, but if ya get $200 or so out of eating lunch/ grabbing a drink and then he decides not to go through with a date then cool by me. I'd be like bye! Just watch the time

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    I'd charge my normal rate. I'd tell him my rates are for my *time*, and that what we do with that time is up to him. I'd tell him we can start with drinks, and then transition to an incall/outcall after the drinks if he wants to, or not. Just make sure you still get payment up front, of course! For example, you could schedule 2 hours - meet at the bar and get payment for the 1st hour up front; at the end of that hour, you either part ways, or you move on to the incall/outcall and he pays for the second hour. If he doesn't agree to that, then he was never serious to begin with. There are a lot of weird, lonely, broke guys out there who will make any excuse they can think of to get us to spend time with them at a discount, even if it's non-sexual!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Exxotica View Post
    Perhaps, but if ya get $200 or so out of eating lunch/ grabbing a drink and then he decides not to go through with a date then cool by me. I'd be like bye! Just watch the time
    eh, i'm not interested in being test driven lol. why do that when you have clients willing to pay your full rate? it's just another trap some guys use to get your company at a lower price. I don't negotiate rates under any circumstance. the whole point of escorting is getting paid for your company. my rates don't change because it's dinner instead of a night tap lol. it's all time to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Exxotica View Post
    I cant see LE wasting additional time and resources doing a meet and greet. Not saying it can't happen but unlikely. Too many variables involved. Stings require equipment, arresting officers in another room, etc
    Good to know

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    This is about sd/sb stuff, but I spent about 24 mins. on the phone with some guy from a sugar daddy site, and then I got the impression that he wanted our first in-person meeting to be a NO MONEY GIVEN quick date to talk more. Nope, nope, nope. I need to be paid per visit. As soon as I told him that the phone conversation IS the "free getting to know each other" conversation, his phone demeanor changed quickly, and I could tell I won't be hearing back from him. LOL. I am not meeting any of these guys in person for free, even if it is for a so-called quick cup of coffee or whatever. Seriously, don't sign up as a "sugar daddy" on a sugar daddy site if you're gonna act like a cheapskate or act offended when the woman mentions money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    This is about sd/sb stuff, but I spent about 24 mins. on the phone with some guy from a sugar daddy site, and then I got the impression that he wanted our first in-person meeting to be a NO MONEY GIVEN quick date to talk more. Nope, nope, nope. I need to be paid per visit. As soon as I told him that the phone conversation IS the "free getting to know each other" conversation, his phone demeanor changed quickly, and I could tell I won't be hearing back from him. LOL. I am not meeting any of these guys in person for free, even if it is for a so-called quick cup of coffee or whatever. Seriously, don't sign up as a "sugar daddy" on a sugar daddy site if you're gonna act like a cheapskate or act offended when the woman mentions money.
    Can you maybe charge him for a Skype meet and greet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    Can you maybe charge him for a Skype meet and greet?
    Thanks, but I can't even get into my Skype anymore. I made a couple of rant posts about it over in the Camming Connection section a little while ago. I can't even cam on SkyPrivate or CamModelDirectory because of the Skype issue. I think it has something to do with some sort of merging shit they do now, and even when I tried making a new account it was asking me to put in a phone number. It absolutely will not let me log into my Skype account, so I don't even bother trying anymore.

    I think I've found a sugar daddy who happens to be a really cool photographer I've worked with twice recently (I'm about to talk with him over the phone), but I will most likely need 2 or 3 sugar daddies, though, because I need to be able to pay my rent.
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    Yes, girl, it is always helpful to have 2 or 3 sugar daddies at once. You know, just in case someone gets sick or other problems that can arise with them

    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Thanks, but I can't even get into my Skype anymore. I made a couple of rant posts about it over in the Camming Connection section a little while ago. I can't even cam on SkyPrivate or CamModelDirectory because of the Skype issue. I think it has something to do with some sort of merging shit they do now, and even when I tried making a new account it was asking me to put in a phone number. It absolutely will not let me log into my Skype account, so I don't even bother trying anymore.

    I think I've found a sugar daddy who happens to be a really cool photographer I've worked with twice recently (I'm about to talk with him over the phone), but I will most likely need 2 or 3 sugar daddies, though, because I need to be able to pay my rent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OHITSRIRI View Post
    eh, i'm not interested in being test driven lol. why do that when you have clients willing to pay your full rate? it's just another trap some guys use to get your company at a lower price. I don't negotiate rates under any circumstance. the whole point of escorting is getting paid for your company. my rates don't change because it's dinner instead of a night tap lol. it's all time to me.
    I'm not saying you have to change your rates. And I'm not saying cancel a would be full paying client to go on a date with a potential. What I'm saying is in this business, get in where you can fit in. I rather have 200+ dollars in my pocket after a free lunch then twiddling my thumbs at home waiting for an appointment.

    If you want to charge your normal rate then by all means, do that. I was just putting it out there. If a would be client wants to "meet" to "get to know me/ test me out" whatever the word play is, so be it. I'll treat it like a WhatsYourPrice date. Same difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Thanks, but I can't even get into my Skype anymore. I made a couple of rant posts about it over in the Camming Connection section a little while ago. I can't even cam on SkyPrivate or CamModelDirectory because of the Skype issue. I think it has something to do with some sort of merging shit they do now, and even when I tried making a new account it was asking me to put in a phone number. It absolutely will not let me log into my Skype account, so I don't even bother trying anymore.

    I think I've found a sugar daddy who happens to be a really cool photographer I've worked with twice recently (I'm about to talk with him over the phone), but I will most likely need 2 or 3 sugar daddies, though, because I need to be able to pay my rent.
    I don't know if this will work but maybe make a new email address and get a google voice number to use as your phone number to register? I use google voice for so many things.


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    I've made some good experiences with "meet and greet". I offered it for lunch and dinner and had two or three every week. Wasn't that bad and some extra money. As long as you are "wearing your watch" and they're paying for your time - why not?
    I think it depends a lot an the way you're working at all and which kind of males you want to attract.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    I don't know if this will work but maybe make a new email address and get a google voice number to use as your phone number to register? I use google voice for so many things.

    Thank you. I just did this (Signed up with a new Google Voice number), but now I don't actually have a Skype username. This is what I forgot to mention in my earlier post. The way they have you sign up for Skype now, it doesn't even give me an option to create a username. I just put 'Shelly Love' as my first and last name. So how do I give myself an actual screen name to add to CMD/SkyPrivate profiles? I'm so confused.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Thank you. I just did this (Signed up with a new Google Voice number), but now I don't actually have a Skype username. This is what I forgot to mention in my earlier post. The way they have you sign up for Skype now, it doesn't even give me an option to create a username. I just put 'Shelly Love' as my first and last name. So how do I give myself an actual screen name to add to CMD/SkyPrivate profiles? I'm so confused.
    I just went through this like a month ago. Since Microsoft bought Skype they've change quite a bit with Skype. Unless they've change things within the last month you can no longer create a screen name. The email you sign up with becomes your screen name. It so dam invasive its not even funny.

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