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    dude.. I don't know how many of you remember my post a few months back about my toxic relationship.. well.. things got better, i moved with my friend. we've known each other and been close for years and theres always been signs of her being jealous of me but i have never been a toxic friend to her, i've always tried to support her on every level and never judge her, like shes one of my best fucking friends and i just cant believe what happened today happened... I normally never have guests and i have had guests over recently, a guy ive been seeing and he spent the night and passed out while i went out to dinner with my girl friends last night. i get home and hes still passed out. When i wake up this morning she randomly freaks out on me when i was going to just go smoke a bowl and take like a 10 minute morning toke session with my best friend but long story short tells me she doesnt want to live with me anymore.

    i am barely ever home but i pay my rent on time and i leave the place clean.. and she and her boyfriend live with me and they both have had numerous guests that have slept in our living room and i never complain and ive made so many compromises with our living situtation for my friend just so that she can save her money and it costs me more and more money to even try to help my friend out.

    but i got lucky and the guy im seeing had been trying to rent out a room so i just completely packed my stuff up and moved into the spare room today. but i paid my rent for there yesterday and told them id post a room for rent on craigslist.. my name isnt even on the lease, the entire reason i moved across the country was to help my friend out and I just cant believe she treated me like this today. I just needed to vent to my ladies on here. today has been one hell of a day and its not even 7pm... jeez

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    Good riddens to frienemy

    Sometimes you don't discover someone's true colors until you are with them all the time and living with them.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Default Re: when you find out your best friend is your fr-enemy..

    It's hard for me to admit this but my bff has personality issues like this. Not as bad but it hurt me, sincerely. I don't dwell on it because "karma" has punished her for a lot of her issues.

    All I can add is, better to know sooner than later. I have sunk years into friendships & a couple relationships to find out the person was not "as advertised." It sucks but you have to roll with the punches. People are gonna "people."

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    You're better off without her. Being roommates is often a death sentence for friendships... I've had two roommate situations with close friends where our friendship changed in a bad way. Now I'll only room with boyfriends or I'll just live by myself.

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