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  • Making Clips will be ok

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  • YouTube Channel will be ok

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  • Make Clips but no penis/dildo stuff

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Thread: How will modeling affect my friends future?

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    Default How will modeling affect my friends future?

    Hi, I'm new to Stripper Web. I tried searching for a similar question but didn't find anything. If threads already exist maybe reading them is better than a new thread. So please recommend them. Assuming this is a common question.

    My friend wants to shoot clips. She's not in it for the money, she's a very sexual exhibitionist. She's also smart enough to understand that there's money to be made. She has good ideas and I already sell clips which she's interested in making with me. I don't put much on ph or any free sites and if I were going to I'd clear it with the model before the shoot. I don't go any further than bj's and the majority of my stuff is panties on, no dicks, more on the fun side of the clips categories.

    She's got an idea for a series of videos she wants to do. It could debatably be posted on a YouTube channel instead of sold as clips, it'd get streams and she just wants cleavage. There's a possibility that she'd do better with ads than selling clips. So my question is for either scenario. I believe that a model with makeup on in a Cips4sale store for a not mainstream category is probably going to remain largely anonymous if they aren't promoting their face on Twitter or wherever. But that doesn't mean I'm right.

    With the YouTube channel since the goal is to be watched it'd be difficult to not be seen by people you know. If you're not doing anything society deems degrading, though, would it really matter? Let's say you start a channel and you wash cars in your bikini. it catches on and people know who you are. Is there stigma to that?

    Ultimately my question is - if someone is making clips but not being promoted or becoming mainstream, could their job prospects in the future be affected? She could become a teacher or librarian.

    Similarly, if she had a YouTube channel that was semi-popular (she has great cleavage) would those same career prospects be affected? Plenty of girls cam to get thru college, right?

    Please help me help her, if you think that ultimately it's a bad move for someone with those ambitions I'm going to advise her against doing them.

    I'm having her read this thread, too:
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    Default Re: How will modeling affect my friends future?

    Why don't you advise her to join the site on her own? This way she can get assistance first hand.

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    Default Re: How will modeling affect my friends future?

    She doesn't even use Facebook. That's why I didn't bring up camming. She'll read it, though, and she'll respond.

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    Default Re: How will modeling affect my friends future?

    Ooooo I missed the poll the first time around. VOTED!

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    Default Re: How will modeling affect my friends future?

    Many of us (myself included) have cammed/done sex work and still managed to work vanilla jobs by keeping a low profile.

    However, there's always a risk. Many employers, especially in fields like education, will fire you for much less than being in a suggestive video on youtube. And many of us have been found out by people we know, despite geoblocking/disguises/avoiding social media. So, there's no telling what can happen. I will say that I was outed once and now have occasional worries about my vanilla job finding out about my sex work past... but I've also made a great living from sex work, and can't imagine what my life would be like without it.

    She really would be much better off accessing SW on her own, rather than relying on one thread. There is a LOT of information here regarding this subject.

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    In short even with tame stuff she is taking a risk. It depends on the level of background check/ scandal tolerance relative to the field she wants to work in in the future. People have been fired from jobs for having pasts in porn.

    The other problem is people on the Internet are GROSS (don't go there but places like 4 chan & the youtube comments section will show you how nuts people are)....even somewhat innocent things can get twisted.

    She needs to have a plan/ be prepared. Not everyone can land on their feet after a sexual scandal like Kim Kardashian. That's the "Hollywood" story. Real life is different.

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    Default Re: How will modeling affect my friends future?

    Yeah, I'm going to get her on a computer, gonna try and find some decent threads ahead of time and then get her to search around. There's already a future careers tag, so that's cool.

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    Look, in the adult industry/sex work there's always a risk. Anything that is posted online can come back to haunt you. I've worked vanilla jobs off and on throughout my time in sex work. Only once has anybody at a vanilla job ever found anything and let me tell you, people tend to not keep that stuff a secret. At a former vanilla job, I worked a boring warehouse job during the day and was a webcam model at night. One night my boss just so happened to see me on cam(I was camming for multiple sites and stupidly forgot to block my home state on that one). That was it. The next day at work he walked right over to me and called me by my stage name, Wendi Starr instead of my real name. He must've told other people because pretty soon other supervisors and co-workers were talking about it and asking me about it, wanting to know how they could watch me on cam. Suddenly I was the porn girl, the slut, skank, etc. 6 months ago I had a former high school friend somehow find an adult clip of me on the internet (that I'd never posted online, mind you) and try to blackmail me into giving him sex. I almost ended up with legal trouble because of him. I've never had anything come up in background checks, thank gosh but the other crap was bad enough.

    Education is one field that looks down on people who have worked in the adult field. True story, my "aunt" worked as a webcam model while finishing up her teaching degree. When she went to apply for a job after graduating, they had somehow found out about her webcam model past and refused to hire her. Your friend might want to reconsider her career path or working in anything adult-related.
    While there is money to be made, there's risks. There's always risks.

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    Default Re: How will modeling affect my friends future?

    If you're planning on working w kids/being a teacher, just don't risk it..especially if its just some "sexual exhibition" hobby. Nope, not worth it. They are strict af about that sort of thing,
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