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    Default My big camming hurdle!

    hey ladies,

    in need of your help here, so i have been camming sporadically due to personal issues recently and that needing my attention more then camming. Before i set up i started my branding, built my business plan etc and know i really want to ensure this succeeds for a variety of reasons. however this is one big hurdle with this and has been noted a couple of times by clients- i am incredibly bashful and struggle with the dirty talk! i am like this is irl as well btw. Now whilst a lot of you say that this is an act, yes i can act out the dirty talk when at home on my own doing other things i still tense up with others including the bf, i am much better at texting him what i want then saying it haha!

    i am naturally submissive and really want this to be my cam persona as well as i just love it, i also love the idea of being adored and lusted after and just down right spoilt. yes the bf does this already but i get a kick out of it from being lots of men and that is what really gets me going but i cannot be a mute model can i?!?

    thoughts on how to get round this issue ladies? sorry to post such a funny thing but it is not helping my camming at all!
    I deserve the life i want. To be adored by men, treated like a princess and to be indulged. I deserve nothing but a life of luxury.

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    Hey girl I'm new as well but I will give you my thoughts for what it is worth. I would start watching a lot of porn, and trying to mimic the actors. Practice in front of the mirror until you get it down. It might feel weird or awkward but that doesn't mean it doesn't sound good. The more you practice, the better you will get. You can try using a soft breathy voice to convey your shy submissive side WHILE you talk dirty. I think even giggling or blushing is okay.

    Someone please correct me if I'm wrong but I'm not sure if submissive and spoiled go hand in hand. I think more of the bratty doms who do financial domination are the ones who get spoiled with more gifts and large tips but I could totally be wrong. I am submissive but also a switch so I'm hoping I can play up both angles if possible.

    But good luck and practice! Start with small easy phrases and work your way up.

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    Find what you're comfortable doing and market that. There's a crowd for everything and everyone when it comes to Camming.
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    Default Re: My big camming hurdle!

    Aside from practice, if your persona is submissive, just use that to your advantage. Tell them "omg I'm so shy daddy/master/sir/whatever, can you help me learn to talk dirty for you??" It builds a bond that will hopefully keep them coming back to you.

    Also, you can totally get gifts as a submissive as you build clients. Just really depends on the client and how much he likes to spoil. I feel like it requires a bit more connection, as they have to feel like a provider. The book "Ho Tactics" talks about this a little bit. Good luck!

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    I think it will just come with practise. When I started camming I just used to giggle and say "mmmmm" " oh yes" and things like that. Then I started repeating things they said to me etc, and now a few years later the dirty talk is just on auto pilot and it barely registers. Xx

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    Seriously go on Tumblr and look at porn captions (yes they are cheesy but men love lame and cheesy). Watch porn! Read smut! Just keep exposing yourself to dirty language and stuff and it will come like autopilot.

    Do what you are comfortable with, eventually you will become more comfortable with more things and it will grow to where you are a hustlin ass internet hoe in no time.
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    thanks for the replies ladies. porn watching and tumblr captions it is! you have also given me so ideas for marketing etc so thanks so much! x
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