Hi fellow ladies of the Independent Escort World. This thread is for you all.
I have a couple questions that have straight baffled the shit out of me, since I started this! I have been online escorting for only 5 months, however, I am not new to escorting. I was with an Agency, briefly, about 10 years ago, and then I danced for 9 years and then for 5 years of that, I created a companion business where I gained VIP clients and then took them out of the club for very pricy companionship. It worked wonderfully, and I cleared around $75k, the last 2 years that I was really giving it my all. Well, my son, suddenly needed to be homeschooled and so, I can no longer do long nights or 3 -4 day stints at a club, completely tired, the next day. So, I always said, I was going to do it, and finally got pushed into creating my own Independent Escort Business.
I'm learning and finding my way around. Its been quite a journey. I am having fun and have met some of the COOLEST Couples and Men. I mean, No joke, just absolute blasts, I have truly had................ BUT..........
Here comes the questions:
1) The term, "GFE," is supposedly Illegal to use. I see Escorts and especially porn stars who escort on the side, using the term, "GFE," All of the time! I get requests for gfe, constantly and I have no idea how to respond. I just don't respond to them. :/ HELP..... Please...... I need to stay legal, but I don't understand why so many freely use the term. I even tried to use it, the first couple weeks that I was feeling this thing out, and one of the sites that I advertise on flagged my post, but then the porn starts advertising on their pages, use the term..... That made no sense to me. What is that about?
2) The term, "Fetish," and "Kinky," - There are options to list this on well known escort sites and I have seen many advertise this on their personal Companion pages. I understand that not all fetishes or kink, are inclusive of actual sex acts. I am a Fetish Whore..... I say that in the most loving way to myself.. honestly, truthfully, I embrace that side of me. Please, do not take that as an insult to women. I never call any of us, actual whore's and Id kick someone's ass if they said it derogatively. I am actually, a woman who promotes female empowerment and teach embracing our sexuality, with FULL ARMS AND A BIG HUG, no matter how taboo, it may be.... So when I say it to myself, It's a part of my own fetish world..... It means I LOVE IT..... I'm also a book and a library whore.. give them to me and give me lots of it..... lol. So, with that said, I really WANT to be able to list that criteria on my ad's and my website, in which I am in the process of creating. --------> HOW DO I KEEP THIS LEGAL??? PLEASE? IF ANYONE KNOWS.
3.) Thank you to those who posted the links with lawyers and retainers -- throwing this in here, just as a thankyou. If you have a wonderful lawyer, that helped you find your way through this business, I would be most gratuitous if you could point me in their direction. <3
4.) I have always placed a disclaimer on my pages that I am paid only for my time and companionship. Some Independent Escorts say that is not a good thing to do and on legal pages, that I've come across, (I don't have the refs handy at the moment), they say that it is a MUST.
5.) Is this the only place that Escorts can come together with questions or are there other resources?
6.) Has anyone heard or thought of a way to bring Escorts in your local area together, for meet n greets? I have contemplated doing this by contacting the women and skyping with them, so that they know that it is really me.
7.) To get licensed as an Escort, do I need to contact the Lawyer first, or the City?
8.) Do I have to be licensed before I go live with my own, personal, website?
THANK YOU, IN ADVANCE.



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