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    Default Dominant BDSM image in club...getting back into dancing

    Hello to the most beautiful and intelligent women I have ever met and miss. I used to post here so much but personal matters have kept me away. I was an exotic dancer over 10 years ago. I was really young at the time, had no hustle but still managed.
    I got into Camming shortly after and haven't looked back. For a while I was making such great money and had a large fan base. I was constantly working and I was all over the internet. It became very draining and for the past few years I have scaled back quite a bit and also began cocktail serving. Since I have returned to cam full time, I am making decent money, however I know it will never be the same unless I put myself out there and promote. I am by no means lazy, but I do not want to be constantly plugged in and all over social media again. I do not want "the fame" I still make really good money without being constantly connected, but cam has become mundane after all of these years. Ok I will stop yammering about back story but it does have a point: my hustle.
    For a majority of my Camming career, I have played a Domme. A majority of my fans are submissive men. I play a great villain, am naturally sarcastic and cynical. The role suits me, but preserves the real actually nice and non dominant real me.
    I would like to get back into dancing very soon. I have my insecurities being 35 now, of course but what I am most curious and concerned about is keeping my dominant hustle. I am curious if any of you play up a dominant role in the club?
    I would like to portray the gorgeous dominant woman, not an alternative kinky look. I live in Las Vegas and working as a server in recent years have not seen many girls playing this role, but I know subs exist in clubs. It is definitely not the best environment to play the Dom role but will definitely set me apart.
    Dungeons are not legal in las Vegas, if a custy is a sub he has options but a dungeon is not one of them. I would love to hear everyone's opinions on this...all are welcome!

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    Default Re: Dominant BDSM image in club...getting back into dancing

    I see more domme style strippers in the club now.

    I'll add more later. Welcome back!!!!

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    Default Re: Dominant BDSM image in club...getting back into dancing

    Thanks. It will be fun experimenting with my look and hustle. At the very least having a dominant aggressive additude will help even if I do not wear Dominatrix outfits.

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    Default Re: Dominant BDSM image in club...getting back into dancing

    Bumping this as I'd like to know as well if anyone has had success with this.
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    Default Re: Dominant BDSM image in club...getting back into dancing

    There are a quite a few guys who absolutely love a dominant stripper and if you hit the right submissive guy you can milk their finances pretty hard, and a lot of sub guys go to strip clubs.

    BDSM is only an outgrowth of domination, not the other way around, you don't need to go kinky, whips, leather and chains you can just as well go in lingerie and stockings and do a hot sultry look or just what you normally would when stripping, it's all in the attitude.

    I wouldn't be concerned about your age at 35 especially if you intend to play the dominant role, you may find your target demographic changes somewhat to much younger guys and older guys, there are a lot of younger guys 18-25 who go gaga for an older confident & dominant lady, use that to your advantage, prey on them and take away their candy - they will thank you for it. The caveat is you must have a super tight body, don't overexercise and watch your diet.

    A lot of dominant strippers do well, but it's important to draw the line between slightly bitchy, slightly pushy and assertive - and aggressive and naggy and the latter is not being dominant since you are seeking their approval, rather than expecting their submission. The other thing is that most of the strippers that do well as dominants are either naturally dominant in themselves or thoroughly enjoy it, most subs can tell if you are acting. A lot of being a dominant stripper involves non-verbal communication, so for example flash your target a mean piercing stare and then look over to where you want him to sit down then look back, if he is slow you can subtly point there while staring him down, as he complies you can give him a smirk while thinking "good bitch", you're never going to have to ask them for a dance & soon he'll be asking you for a dance, expect him to sooner or later be eating out of your hand - then milk ruthlessly! If you can tell he's a sub just telling him what is going to become of him i.e. "sooner or later you'll be eating out of my hand" also works wonders

    Manipulate, seduce and then milk. Rinse repeat.

    Don't ask me how I know this
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    Default Re: Dominant BDSM image in club...getting back into dancing

    Scorpio, I get it and I am not here to judge you or your hustle or how you know this. This is very similar to webcam domming. There is a fine line between asking and telling, and even telling can come off as too aggressive and "scare away" I never did any type of pro domme but have always been the Alpha Female. I did not truly become aware of this until my mid-20's. Now I am fully aware of the power I have over men and I really do get off on controlling men, I have come to realize...but not in a sexual manner. It is more mental for me. I do not know how to splain it lucy lol. I have considered traveling to Los Angeles to explore the Dungeon environment but eh. Travel and all that not knowing if I will be successful is not a risk I am willing to take just yet. Maybe one day!

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    Default Re: Dominant BDSM image in club...getting back into dancing

    Now I am fully aware of the power I have over men and I really do get off on controlling men, I have come to realize...but not in a sexual manner. It is more mental for me.
    This is quite common and makes an excellent recipe for dominating men..

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