Maybe long... And maybe wrong place to post?
Maybe long... And maybe wrong place to post?
Last edited by Djoser; 04-08-2017 at 02:58 AM. Reason: At OP's request
Well if it's a nude club yeah they get nude on stage. Some dancers are more open shall we say than others but that doesn't mean you have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Go to another club and see if it's any different.
Try a pole dance class in you area.
Stripping is not for everyone. Some women prefer topless or bikini clubs which show a bit less.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”
or if you like the theatrics too there is always looking to see if there is a burlesque group as well
Hatred does not cease by hatred but only by love; this is the eternal rule.
" What is Reality? An icicle forming in fire."
-Dogen Zenji
Firstly, just because they allow boobs in face DOES not mean you have to. You're going to have to make boundaries and stick to them.
Secondly, I'm always wary when the husband or boyfriend is super gun-ho about their wives/gfs stripping. Is it a passing phase? Or a fantasy? Is it gonna be an issue if you actually do it? I could understand if you met him and you were already a stripper and he kind of had to deal with it but why would a man WANT his wife to be a stripper? It's just always suspect to me.
Next club you go to, go alone. I doubt the manager will charge you cover or force you to buy drinks if you are just checking out the club because you are thinking about working there. AND Then your husband can watch the kids.
Good luck !





I didn't see anything wrong with your post, but at your request, deleted it--but saved it in case you want it back.
Every club is different, you should probably try another one or two & see if you like the vibes better. Even the time of night you go can change EVERYTHING. I've worked several clubs that were horrible (maybe to a brand newbie) at 8-9 PM, but slamming and fantastic at midnight. Getting to know the staff will help, but even then you might have the misfortune of getting to know the House 'problem girl' who does nothing but complain and/or scam people. They are almost everywhere, along with the cool dancers who will be up front and friendly.
Your husband wanting you to strip is slightly weird, but I've seen it before. He might feel differently if he knew the Survival Rate for relationships of the new dancers, which is absurdly low. Like maybe 5% or less, from what I've seen in 16-17 years and 11 clubs.![]()
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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There are a couple places this thread might belong better--Stripping General, Industry Insight (where industry guys can also post), or Newbie Board. I will leave it here for now. Probably ought to go in the NB, but there are some reasons it could stay right here, even, if you prefer.
I can also delete the entire thread if you want--but like I said before, I saw nothing wrong with what you wrote at all.
Last edited by Djoser; 04-08-2017 at 04:52 AM.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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