Currently I'm almost 6 months pregnant. My ex has been asking me since we split if I trust him to take care of our daughter without going to court for child support which makes me suspicious right off the bat. He has two kids with his ex wife but I don't think he pays her child support that's court ordered. He's also living with her currently.
I would have been fine if we came to an agreement outside the system but I really don't think he intends to help fincnacilly now. I've mentioned helping with the crib and change table I want several times and he completely ignores me each time. He hasn't asked once about his daughter since we split and doesn't seem interested one bit. I think the only way I'm getting help from this man is court.
I'm anxious because I don't know what all info they need from me and how I will be affected. I don't dance at the moment just cam which he doesn't know about although he does know I was dancing. He just knows I have a day job. So my questions are....
1) when can I file for child support...as soon as the baby is born?
2) will he find out that I cam if I have to report that?
3) if I go back to dance after the baby is born I don't want to report it because I'm afraid of all the repercussions like custody, etc. but also worried that if I just report the camming money that could effect my custody since it's not nearly as much as my dancing income and prob even less if I'm caming only part time again.
i have more concerns but if anyone can address these I'd appreciate it very much! Thanks




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