hi! Im new to dancing. I worked at two clubs in the stl area.(Hollywood for about 2weeks, & I just switched to penthouse)
anyways I was wondering how to get guys attention. & how to build corgage to talk to guys and ask for dances. It feels like whenever I get on stage everyone leaves. Then comes back when im off. I dont know if its coincidence or what? What am i doing wrong? Im 5'0, pretty petite, dark brown hair. Id say I have a nice body. I have a Nice butt. but i have pretty small boobs..(im a 32B cup) I smile when im on stage and i try to make it look like i am having fun. I make eye contact.. I still dont know how to do pole work. Ut I've been told by multiple guys you dont NEED to know pole to be a successful dancer(now i do plan on taking classes soon) Im starting to get discouraged. Its been kind of hard for me to tak to guys and ask for dances too.. how do you spot out if a guy likes you? Ill make a lap and it seems like no one even checks me out? Or they seem occupied so i dont approche. I dont really know how to go about this but it kind of sucks lol. I hear about all these girls making 1000$+ on weekends and im making about 200-300$. This last Saturday i only made about 60.. im starting to wonder if this club im working at is just to hard and maybe i need to switch clubs? Dances are 40$ a song 3 for 100$. Maybe guys dont want to take me for dances cuz they are so expensive? I dont know? There is not a lot of clubs to work at in my area that are clean. I want to be a entertainer. I always wanted to be a entertainer since i was a younger. And i really love dressing up and being on stage! But when no one watches me or wants to see me dance Ive been getting really discouraged... i just feel like ive been being ignored by everyone?
Also.. ive been getting there at 3:30 on the floor at 4, club is dead til 1AM.. by the time the club picks up im exhausted.. but rentis cheaper this way. Should i show up later and py more in rent?
any tips or advice would be wonderful!!


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