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    This kid I gave one lap dance to is a student at my school! I saw him two times total. The second time I approach him and he made a lame excuse of why he couldn't because he wanted to wait for his friend ****LIES****. He used the same excuse as the first time. I think he's just a broke community college student.

    I opened the door on him while he was in the unisex bathroom last semester. He didn't see me but I saw him through the mirror. I thought to myself that this kid looks familiar and I finally realized where I knew him.

    Last week, while I was walking to campus, he snuck up behind me letting me know that he thinks I looked familiar and was being super creepy. He also added that I was real pretty and that we should hangout sometime! Not sure what's his deal was. I am worried if he would be stalking me at school or telling everyone I dance? What to do about this?

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    He doesn't really sound like a stalker yet but I would just deny deny. Act like you've never seen him before and he must have you confused with someone else. If he tries to ask you out again tell him you have a boyfriend and show him a picture of a big muscular dude lol. Hopefully he leaves you alone.

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    I cancelled my weekends at the club because of him. I really hope he leaves me alone. Also the boyfriend/husband thing probably won't work! Do you think campus security would do anything about this? What if he came back to my club and took pics of me?

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    Idk if they could do anything if he's a student there too. Unless he's not a student and then yeah I would tell them to watch out for him cause he has no reason to be on campus. If you see him at the club again maybe ask your manager and bouncers to not let him in? If he wasn't spending money anyway.

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    Default Re: Stalker from school

    Are you a teacher or other employee of the school. There are laws regarding fraternization.

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    No im a student.

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    As someone who has had a legitimate stalker- it does not sound like this is the case. It seems to me like he is a student at the same school as you. I am not trying to downplay your radar because he is likely acting creepy as fuck so trust your intuition. You can't really call Campus Security and say you are a dancer and someone from the club is making you feel awkward; they will not take you seriously. If he is getting too creepy you can try to file an order of protection
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    Doesn't sound like a stalker .... I think you are taking his words/actions out of proportion because you're sensitive due to your job/nature of your job, not wanting it to spill into your school life etc ... pretty sure he is just one of those young guys who doesn't know how to idk talk to women and/or is making stuff unintentionally weird.

    But as Gia says ... not trying to throw your feelings away on this, just giving my perspective.

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    I just want to be left alone in peace while I'm out & about. Even if I worked a regular job, I don't want to be bothered. I really hope I don't see him again. Not sure what to expect from this. I'm still creeped out. I wear big sunglasses to hide my face.

    Also, how do I file an order of protection? I don't even know his name.

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    I don't want to invalidate you because I've been stalked. I wish guys had to take a feminist class the explains this, but most guys aren't aware that the number one threat historically and globally is MEN! I had a neighbor who waited for me to get home after I got off work. I don't think he was harmful, but he it was creepy. we don't owe guys our time or attention! It's perfectly acceptable to say, "Leave me alone". I had a similar incident at my gym. The guy wasn't a psycho, but he was unsafe enough that it triggered me and I had to take a break and it really got under my skin. From what you typed, he sounds like an eager guy more than an immediate threat. I could be wrong, go with your gut. I do believe in order to get a restraining order. You have have to explicitly say, "I don't want any further contact from you." i understand. He's a Cheap ass at the club! Why would you give him the time of day (eye roll). Also. Deny, Deny, Deny. If he knows it's you and you know he knows it you-DENY! Just deny it till he thinks he's nuts! I would have a safety plan just in case. I don't know you, if you are anything like me I'm avoidant and anxious. Sometimes even though a guy is being a fucking dick, I just have to push through it and most the time it turns out okay. Go with your gut and have a safety plan. This guy is an asshole and women should have to figure out a thousand ways to try to be safe!
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