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    Sorry I know this is my first post (I've been lurking since last year) but I was wondering if anyone else have had someone come into your pms and go 'what the heck? What're u doing here cuz?' Because that happened to me today and about scared the shit out of me before I realized it was probably just an asshole messing with me. Honestly none of the cousins I know would ever go on a cam site, let alone a porn site, so I'm pretty sure this is a trick. But still... has this ever happened to anyone? Does it worry you when it does? Thanks for any replies!

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    I've had everyone from my 'dad' to old classmates come to my room. If they want details as to what you're doing/ why you're there ask them to take you private to get all the details, they typically will gthfo, or they might actually get a show! 99.75% of the time people are messing with you. That could also be someone hinting an incest fetish.

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    Sorry I know this is my first post (I've been lurking since last year) but I was wondering if anyone else have had someone come into your pms and go 'what the heck? What're u doing here cuz?' Because that happened to me today and about scared the shit out of me before I realized it was probably just an asshole messing with me. Honestly none of the cousins I know would ever go on a cam site, let alone a porn site, so I'm pretty sure this is a trick. But still... has this ever happened to anyone? Does it worry you when it does? Thanks for any replies!
    Hi, hiraetha! Welcome to the forum. A couple things. This is gonna sound weird, but there used to be this trend (Not sure if some folks still do it) where a lot of Black folks would call each other 'cuz' as a term of endearment (for a person they like/friend who isn't really their cousin...lol). I'll never forget the time a friend and I sat down at a diner, and when she spoke to the server she introduced me as her "cousin." I thought to myself "Um...what? Oh, this must be something people do now. Alrighty then." LOL. But I just went with it. The only people I call 'cuz' though are my actual cousins. Lol.

    Also, you're right that it was probably just some asshole messin' with you. You're gonna come across a lot of people on these sites who are full of shit. Such as the guys who, after they see my tattoos and learn that I like to sing, claim that they have an uncle who works in the music industry, and that they can "hook me up" with their uncle's phone number if I want. Lmfao.

    I wouldn't worry. You could always just ban time-wasting idiots like that who are just trying to spook you. Guys like that contribute absolutely nothing to the chat. I also block my state on cam sites (I know geo-blocking isn't guaranteed 100% foolproof) for peace of mind, so I don't have to worry about anymore bozos coming in my room blurting out my personal info.


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    I find that most guys doing that want you to play along for the fantasy. Just make sure to charge for it and know it's pretend.

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    As others have said here, if they're idiots, ban. If you can get them to pay, play along.
    I get the "I'm jerking off to my sister, she's a cam model" quite a bit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hiraetha View Post
    Sorry I know this is my first post (I've been lurking since last year) but I was wondering if anyone else have had someone come into your pms and go 'what the heck? What're u doing here cuz?' Because that happened to me today and about scared the shit out of me before I realized it was probably just an asshole messing with me. Honestly none of the cousins I know would ever go on a cam site, let alone a porn site, so I'm pretty sure this is a trick. But still... has this ever happened to anyone? Does it worry you when it does? Thanks for any replies!
    Girl please! If your cousins have the internet or a 4G LTE connection they've been on a porn site. It's just not the type of thing you'd discuss with a female relative. Pornhub has 64 million hits per day and that's the same as 44,000 people per minute Also they have their own Streamate Whitelable that links directly from the top of the page ww.pornhublive.com That's how my husband found me when we just started dating. I hadn't told him what I did for a living yet. He texted me "Whatcha doin" and then watched me roll my eyes at his text. Oops Being found out does happen.

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    I'm pretty sure most cousins wouldn't say a word and pretend they have never seen you. Guess it would turn the whole family situation into an awkward thing, also for them.
    I started camming only 3 weeks ago and had a guy who came in saying he was my classmate in school.
    Well, I think the point was he wanted me to open his profile / cam to check who it is. So kind of only a way to make see them stroking their dicks. It was the first time that happened to me, but my mother language isn't English and anyone who would have been my classmate would't have asked in English if they actually know me I think. So I just said no and kicked him but later I came to the conclusion it could have been about opening their cam.

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    Instant ban! I have zero patience for any of this shit.

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    I'd say, "great, can you call your Mom & tell her to bring a Ham to Thanksgiving dinner rather than turkey. Cause that last bird was dry as fuck"


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    These idiots get off on freaking you out. Your best move is to do and say nothing (unless it's going to be a reply like Sam suggested up there, lol!).

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    Guys who do this are so fucking stupid. If they knew you and you actually knew them don't they realize that you have all the information you need to out them to their families, work, future employment prospects, rental referrals etc. Not to mention all the pranks, blackmail opportunities, it could go on and on. If they really want to go there, just call their bluff. It's amazing how gullible so many men are.
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    i decided to ban this type of guys long time ago. evan if it is real or not, cousin or friend (whatever). you mean nothing to me if you come into my room and say something like this. if you are my freaking cousin it means you want to hurt me (because who the fuck would say it in your room and hurt you - emotionally only evan???!!!). People can find you, but keep it to your fucking self bitch. I know a girl that used to be a cam girl for awhile and she let every person that said something like that to keep going (she said that she needed to know more or smth like that). Guess what ? It hurt her over and over again, letting those stupid fucks talk crap. So now she does not cam anymore. The moment a member or guest says something evan close to : i am your cousin, i am your colleague, do you live in the town of X ? I ban their ass off. Cause i know it messes up with my brain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    Oops Being found out does happen.
    I get a lot of fakers but one day this guy comes in and says "I think I know you" Im all sure sure and he tells me "seriously! I think your my cousins cousin" I get my hustle going thinking its a role play thing so Im saying Exclusive only for this and he leaves. I dont even think of it again until a couple month later Im back in Canada staying with my Aunt and she tells me that her son (my cousin) knows Im a porn star. He found out cause his cousin found me on the internet and told him. Said I tried to get him to buy a show but he got weirded out and left (I used to babysit this kid!)

    At that moment I was like oh fuck. It WAS true! LOL. We laughed and laughed!
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    Quote Originally Posted by hiraetha View Post
    Sorry I know this is my first post (I've been lurking since last year) but I was wondering if anyone else have had someone come into your pms and go 'what the heck? What're u doing here cuz?' Because that happened to me today and about scared the shit out of me before I realized it was probably just an asshole messing with me. Honestly none of the cousins I know would ever go on a cam site, let alone a porn site, so I'm pretty sure this is a trick. But still... has this ever happened to anyone? Does it worry you when it does? Thanks for any replies!
    For me it depends on the situation. I had someone like this pull something like this on me on an unsolicited pm. Told them it costs tokens for me to answer their pm and they kept insisting and bothering me even when I ignored them.

    BANNED. Nope sorry, even if they were supposed family, they have to tip like everyone else has to.

    People will do anything for a freebie these days. Don't be afraid to second guess and worse comes to worst, ignore them until they tip (or better yet, focus on the people who will tip)

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    Thank you guys so much for the replies! You all made me feel a lot better. I'm kind of new to the camming thing, so I guess I was just a bit on edge anyways. My cousins are all heavily monitored by their SUPER religious families so that's the reason I was skeptical that they'd be on a cam site. But hey, it's always possible I guess! In any case, it's really not like my parents would kick me out if they found out sooooo I guess it doesn't matter too much honestly. But next time I'm definitely using Sam38g's response because it cracked me up so much! I'm definitely not quitting camming. It's super fun and makes me feel confident. Thanks again to you all!!

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    This EXACT thing happened to me when I signed up for MFC yearsss ago! I logged off and never got back on there again LOL. Yes it did scare me at first but then I thought if it were actually one of my cousins they would have called me lol

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    Yes, once I've had a "brother" (I don't have a brother) and "dad" come to my room. My dad doesn't even know how I look like now, also I doubt very much that he has internet connection. I also don't have a cousin. So I'm pretty much safe ha ha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hiraetha View Post
    Sorry I know this is my first post (I've been lurking since last year) but I was wondering if anyone else have had someone come into your pms and go 'what the heck? What're u doing here cuz?' Because that happened to me today and about scared the shit out of me before I realized it was probably just an asshole messing with me. Honestly none of the cousins I know would ever go on a cam site, let alone a porn site, so I'm pretty sure this is a trick. But still... has this ever happened to anyone? Does it worry you when it does? Thanks for any replies!
    Happens to me at least a few times a week.

    I don't have any living cousins so unless they are messaging me from beyond the grave, it's not them, lol.

    Have also had idiots saying they are my son. Don't have one!

    They are all trolls. I don't even answer. I just block and move along.



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