View Poll Results: Have you ever been a victim of stealthing (act of partner removing condom)

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  • No, I have never experienced "stealthing"

    11 50.00%
  • Yes, I have experienced "stealthing" in my PRIVATE sex life

    7 31.82%
  • Yes, I have experienced "stealthing" while engaging in SEX WORK

    2 9.09%
  • Yes, I have experienced "strealthing" during BOTH my private sex life and during sex work

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    Default Victims of "stealthing"

    Ladies, have you ever been a victim of "stealthing"? Stealthing is the act of a partner taking off the condom before or during consensual sex without your knowledge.

    I'm in the middle of a FB discussion where guys don't really think this is a "thing" or commonplace. I have read many sex worker posts and women in general who have experienced this.

    Please answer the poll regardless of this has happened to you or not to help provide a rough idea of how common of an occurrence it is. Feel free to share your thoughts, support, or experiences (these would not be shared, nor would anything about Stripperweb's existence! Just poll results)

    THANKS!

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    No. I haven't, read about it on Tumblr tho.
    Poll doesn't work (@ least for me, tried twice)


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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    I don't partake in sex work, so maybe there should be an option for private sex and sex work doesn't apply, so things don't look skewed.

    Had it happen twice, partially because I'm blind as a bat without my glasses. I agreed to try having sex with an ex because I remembered how good it used to feel. Thought he put on a condom. Didn't know that he hadn't until he asked if he could cum in me. I said no and he did anyhow. I wasn't as into him as back in the day, but now I don't think I could get moist even if I started by stimulating myself. Apparently lack of trust is a huge turn off. Who knew?

    Second time the first condom broke. Dude has had a vasectomy and we were doing anal, so for round two he assumed it was okay to bareback. I thought I saw him putting on a condom, but apparently he was lubing up. This one was more understandable and if asked I might have said fuck it, but I was upset that I wasn't asked and it was just assumed. I talked to him about it after and we're still good.

    For me those are the only two times.

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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    No. I haven't, read about it on Tumblr tho.
    Poll doesn't work (@ least for me, tried twice)
    Idk, hopefully it's just a glitch. First time I've set up a polll. ��♀️

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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    Oops i answered incorrectly. I mistook ghosting for stealthing. So no this has never happened to me

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    I have twice because I never knew sheisty fuckers would do some shit like this. Main reason I'm paranoid now and have sex with lights on and I check periodically to make sure the condom is still on.

    If it's halfway dark and you're in the moment there's no way you'll know of a guy has done this until after the fact if he tells you or he's stopping/pausing for long period of time but it only takes a second to slip the condom off.

    One guy I was dating a few months in was like oh I like how you let me have sex with you with no condom on the first time. I'm like no asshole you had a condom on - why would anyone fuck a dude raw right off the bat? I don't know if he was just messing with my head or he really pulled a stealth condomless move. But it was dark and if he really did I would never have known had he not made that comment. This was the same guy who tried to throw my birth control in the toilet. Fucking weirdo.

    Men who intentionally do this are pathetic losers and should have their dicks roasted over an open fire.

    I guess wearing a female condom would still protect both parties but prevent any idiot from trying to pull a stealth condomless mode
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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    Cnn talked​ about it too


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    That's disgusting and sexual assault. Plus why would these morons wanna put themselves at risk as well?? I know they have no problems violating someone else but you'd think they'd care about themselves grr
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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    They care more about self pleasure and busting raw than anyone's sexual health.

    It's some savages out there so guard your pussy. So sad that weak men and sexual deviants resort to this sort of thing.

    I'm actually surprised to see the poll results. I don't think This topic is something that young women have been warned enough about. I sure didn't know such a thing occurred until it unfortunately happened to me.
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    I didn't know about it until I read some of the posts by escorts. And now it's been brought into the mainstream light by media. It totally is sexual assault.

    I would be curious to see the poll results w/ more women reporting. Would it be appropriate if I posted a link in "Stripping General" to try to get more ladies to weigh in?

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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    what the fuck what the fuck


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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I guess wearing a female condom would still protect both parties but prevent any idiot from trying to pull a stealth condomless mode
    Supposedly you can't wear a female condom AND a male condom because they'd pull each other off? Something along those lines.

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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    Happened to me. Same dude who gave me HPV. My gynecologist had the nerve to slut-shame me about getting HPV from having sex without a condom, and said I "should've known better" than to keep having sex with him when he ripped it off and kept fucking me. I honestly consider it a form of rape.

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    ^^^it is. It's almost worst than rape cause it's like you don't even know it's happened or happening so you probably won't have a chance to fight back that moment.

    And same with rape, only demon losers would do that
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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    Quote Originally Posted by absolutelyadorable View Post
    Supposedly you can't wear a female condom AND a male condom because they'd pull each other off? Something along those lines.
    Yes. I know that but thanks for the disclaimer for the women reading who don't know.

    I meant you most likely would feel a guy trying to remove a female condom out of your pussy (making this a preferred contraceptive for partners whose health status is unknown and unsure of his level of sexual deviance) unlike with a male condom whether he has the condom on or stealthily pulls it off - most likely you wouldn't feel a difference.

    Maybe we can start another poll but I bet these stealth condom removals happened with male condoms.
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    Default Re: Victims of "stealthing"

    It's just lack of respect/another form of rape in my opinion. I bet the impregnation fantasy weirdos got ideas if they didn't already have them, by it going on cnn ect.

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