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    Default Sugaring in a small town

    This industry works best if you work in a town OPPOSITE of the ONE you live in. But what if that isn't an option? I would like to dip my toes into the bowl for real this time but I'm...anxious. I wouldn't persay scared because I've been in the industry long enough to know what it entails and what I will/may face because of it. The only problem for me is because my demographics are so small I'm scared I may end up dating somebody who may know somebody and get blacklisted out of square jobs.

    Normally, I wouldn't care but because where I live is so old fashioned and backwards I could potentially be exiled/blacklisted out of businesses and places (not like the biblical days but in the "your $ no good here" way). I don't really have anyone I can ask for help on the subject matter and the people around me (mainly elders and on rarer occasion my square friend) would definately NOT agree. If you've read any of my posts you know I've done tried looking for industry friends via CL and FAILED.

    Should I go back to the bowl or wait until I move somewhere bigger?
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    Default Re: Sugaring in a small town

    How many legit SD targets could there be in such a small town anyway? IMHO a real SD is one who is sophisticated enough to know the score and can pamper you without cutting into the bone with his finances. I can't imagine that there's a vast pool of guys who meet that profile in a small backwards town like you describe.

    The alternative, which is to treat a guy like a sugardaddy when he thinks that it is something else and/or when he cannot really afford it, is called a hustle.

    If it's the first thing, with a true SD, then IMHO you could just ask him to be discreet. If it's the latter, then IMHO you might want to tread carefully if you like where you live.

    In any event, good luck!

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    Default Re: Sugaring in a small town

    I would suggest that you sugar in at least a mid size city. You will have to travel outside of your town to find a proper sugar daddy. Frankly, small towns do not offer too much in the way of sugar daddies unless you live in some cowpoke town and love messing with ranchers. But I would avoid sugaring in your town and just visit a mid size city at least. Good luck!
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    Okay I should have been more specific. I live on an old fashioned island and the locals still operate like the 90s. However, because we get a lot of tourists I would try to talk to one of them. Worse case scenario--a well off local; someone that wouldn't have time to out me because between businesses, spoiling me, and possibly a family they'd have too much to lose
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    Okay, Msjoiparker, then Caribbean rules need to apply. As you live on old fashioned Caribbean island, then I would suggest three different things that you could. You could save up enough money and island hop. I know that some people may disagree but island hopping can be the best way to sugar daddy away from the madding crowds. If you could save up enough money for Aruba or St. Barts and you could meet some sugar daddies there. Try to see if you could meet one of those upper class guys. Number two is go to the largest city on the Island and go to sporting match. Make sure you go to the polo matches instead of the cricket matches because it will more well-to-do people there. You know to dress to impress at the polo matches and have your business cards ready. Polo matches start from May to November in the Caribbean. Number 3 you could possibly talk to one of those discreet well-to-do guys and see if he could become your secret benefactor. Good luck!

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    Okay I should have been more specific. I live on an old fashioned island and the locals still operate like the 90s. However, because we get a lot of tourists I would try to talk to one of them. Worse case scenario--a well off local; someone that wouldn't have time to out me because between businesses, spoiling me, and possibly a family they'd have too much to lose
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Okay, Msjoiparker, then Caribbean rules need to apply. As you live on old fashioned Caribbean island, then I would suggest three different things that you could. You could save up enough money and island hop. I know that some people may disagree but island hopping can be the best way to sugar daddy away from the madding crowds. If you could save up enough money for Aruba or St. Barts and you could meet some sugar daddies there. Try to see if you could meet one of those upper class guys. Number two is go to the largest city on the Island and go to sporting match. Make sure you go to the polo matches instead of the cricket matches because it will more well-to-do people there. You know to dress to impress at the polo matches and have your business cards ready. Polo matches start from May to November in the Caribbean. Number 3 you could possibly talk to one of those discreet well-to-do guys and see if he could become your secret benefactor. Good luck!
    She may not live on an old fashioned Caribbean island. I live on an island in the states. The island I live on is close to a major city so I sugar out of that city.

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    Yes, you are right I was just trying to give different scenarios.

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    She may not live on an old fashioned Caribbean island. I live on an island in the states. The island I live on is close to a major city so I sugar out of that city.
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    Default Re: Sugaring in a small town

    I do some work on a few islands and my experience is they know *every damn thing* that goes on. Like, they're thirsty for the tiniest tidbit of information. You're probably correct to wait or just get the dude to fly you to him.
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