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    Default A ball gag on stage?!!!

    I work in a larger, upscale(ish) gentlemen's club and last night I saw a new dancer (new to dancing too) wearing a ball gag on stage. She came from a burlesque background and usually dances very dramatically, but has now decided to add a ball gag to her "act"!

    I was a little shocked and a little offended. Our club does not do any fetish shows or even has any dancers use props (I guess we don't have any written rules about this though).

    Here is why I was offended: It seemed she was overly sexualizing the image of a stripper. This affects me, I don't want young twenty somethings thinking that it's my job to get them off or entertain their sexual fetishes. She seems very nice and respectful otherwise.

    Am I just being an old prude here or is this ball gag thing strange?

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    i think its kinda odd...i wouldnt worry about the crowd judging all of you but i think itll be directed at her

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    It's not my thing but an interesting performance doesn't ever hurt the club. Also the image of strippers is inherently sexual.

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    It's pretty hilariously over the top but that's her mistake to make I think.

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    That's hilarious! I used to work in an upscale club where a group of dancers would hump a giant stuffed animal on stage. It was weird, but it certainly got attention.
    And I think it's literally impossible to look sexy while wearing a ball gag.. What was she thinking?!

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    Sexually over the top for a strip club, hahahahahaha

    Being a stripper puts you in control more dominate where as a ball gag is pure submissive and feels wrong to me too. Strippers own the stage, own being in control of our sexuality & in control over men when performing.

    She was sending out a message of do what ever you want to me, no money needed. You are the one in control. Do what you want to me the punishment & degradation is the reward. Getting men to tip or spend money requires a smile & lots of talking a good game. So WTF is she thinking.

    If she had used it on a male customer, that puts her back in control. It would have been a different story.

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    Huh, not something I would do but at least she's having fun on stage - lol.

    I've seen a girl use burlesque fans in her sets.

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    I've seen a girl with a dominatrix whip. I agree that seeing a dominant girl makes me more comfortable than a submissive with a ball gag. Blech. But whatever, it probably won't last, and it reflects on her, not you. Strip clubs are already oversexualized, jerky customers already treat us like their playthings, I mean I don't think one girl's performance is going to make or break the club culture. If this became the norm, I'd switch clubs to a more upscale/corporate one that had tighter regulations.

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    I know my wording was not adequately describing what I meant by "overly sexualizing". I agree, we r dancers who perform and r seen in a sexual light (obviously). I guess I was trying to say that our club is upscale to the point where super overtly sexual performances r kinda looked down by most the girls (like rubbing your genitals or pretending to masterbate, accidentally or not-so-accidentally showing your genitals on stage). And yes, I think it was described correctly about the submission part of the performance. That's much less acceptable and less ordinary than doing a dominating act on stage (like spanking a bachelor on stage).

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    If I worked there every time she got on stage I'd be using my phone to record it. Hoping & praying that she'd sneeze with it in her mouth. Cause that would be hilarious.

    Yes, I am evil.

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    Default Re: A ball gag on stage?!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by seashell View Post
    I've seen a girl with a dominatrix whip. I agree that seeing a dominant girl makes me more comfortable than a submissive with a ball gag.
    Yeah plus with a whip you can actually put on a show, it's a very usable prop. I see them a lot around here (one girl has a set that glow in blacklight, looks awesome).

    With a ball gag all you can do is crawl around on stage drooling basically? Not seeing the sexy in that. Putting it on a bachelor on stage or a fetish custie in VIP for sure, but having a dancer wear one seems odd.

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