I work in a larger, upscale(ish) gentlemen's club and last night I saw a new dancer (new to dancing too) wearing a ball gag on stage. She came from a burlesque background and usually dances very dramatically, but has now decided to add a ball gag to her "act"!
I was a little shocked and a little offended. Our club does not do any fetish shows or even has any dancers use props (I guess we don't have any written rules about this though).
Here is why I was offended: It seemed she was overly sexualizing the image of a stripper. This affects me, I don't want young twenty somethings thinking that it's my job to get them off or entertain their sexual fetishes. She seems very nice and respectful otherwise.
Am I just being an old prude here or is this ball gag thing strange?



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