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    Angry Manipulative Management, ranting

    Aghh. STORYTIME.

    So I have danced before, but I started working as a shotgirl at a new club. Last night I had a terrible experience with one of the "managers," and I need to rant because well..I do lol.
    So this woman is technically part of the management team, but she also can sell rooms and bartend. Last night she waved me over to the couch area. We talked for a little while, and her custy gave her money to buy the rest of the shots on my tray (shots she drank! btw). So of course, I'm like sweet, we'll team up and kill it together. Like I said, I have danced before so I already planned on giving her a tip out for the help. So after that, I wait on her for an hour to remake me a set of shots because she "knew how to make them better" than the other bartender. So fast forward to the end of the night, I'm at the bar paying for my last tray and talking with a custy. She comes up and tells me "I need all my money back." And I'm like, whoa what, I'm not giving you "all" your money back for shots YOU and your custy drank. And she is like, I didn't give you money so you could "not work." Um excuse me ma, I am not the one, no ma'am. Keep in mind, the custy I'm with is witnessing all of this. So, I gave her an extremely generous tip out to avoid any further drama. I am talking wayyyy upwards of the average 15%. So I go back to the dressing room to change, and she comes storming back there telling me I need to give her money. I'm like, girlllllllll I just gave you money at the bar. So I start to head out and she yells at the bouncer to not let me leave. Long story short, I walked back to the bar and there the money is sitting next to the tip jar, and I'm like this biiiiiiiiitch. The custy came up to me and actually went and vouched for me that I gave her the money. But she's still there talking mad shit, acting some type of way. Like, "if I wasn't a manager...blah blah blah."
    And I'm like, she literally has the money in her hand. I'm not paying her back in full because the shots are gone AND the club takes around 70% of my shot money anyways! It was AMAZING how quick her personality shifted. I have seen some pissed off dancers, but I have never seen this, like someone flipped a switch. Needless to say, I'm not going back.


    Sorry for the long post. I didn't have any trouble like this as a dancer, so I'm just frustrated. Lesson learned. I can't even trust management to be decent. Has anyone been a shot girl and had a worse time than dancing? Any of you guys ever dealt with crazy, manipulative management??

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    Sounds like a scam ran often on newbies.
    Cause otherwise management or the owner who saw this would fire her. Have to assume they are in on it too.

    Next time, call the cops. If someone accuses me of stealing, lets have the police investigate the situation.

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    Thankfully the management here was sane and rational. Only time I had a problem was when the "substitute manager" kept siding with ratchet extras dancer trying to cut throat. I always stood up against their ratchetry and they quit fucking with me but you know that extras money manipulates/pays shady managers to look the other way. So I eventually quit working day shift with ratchets and scary ass substitute manager because I didn't have time to waste with low intelligence people.
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    You're probably right. I should have followed my gut feeling about the club, but I wanted to give it a chance first.
    I figured cops would just make everything worse. Plus, with any kind of management on her side, I'm sure they'd lie for her. He said-she said I guess.

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    I woulda quit on spot & left without giving her jack shit. Calling the cops would have been a waste bc all they would've said is well there's no "proof" that anyone took anything that wasn't theirs anyways. It's good you quit, but it's too bad you gave her anything at all ugh what a cunt, and if she tried to keep me from leaving?! Oh hell no, I'd been throwing punches & calling self defense. Ain't nobody gonna trap me nowhere.
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    Sorry you went thru this, I used to dance but now waitress and hate dealing with club management as much as I do now. she sounds like a jealous greedy bitch. I find the drama with club staff way worse than with the dancers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chanzep View Post
    Sorry you went thru this, I used to dance but now waitress and hate dealing with club management as much as I do now. she sounds like a jealous greedy bitch. I find the drama with club staff way worse than with the dancers.
    ^ Yup! This is why i don't miss the clubs OR dancing yuck
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    It's unfortunate that stuff like this happens. Tf is a substitute manager anyways? lol Like, are they gone now?
    Good for you for switching shifts, no bs!

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    Yeah, I'm really pissed about giving her anything, but I can't do anything about it now *shrugs* I was going to walk straight out, but the bouncer was standing in the door frame. I carry a taser to work...I shoulda pulled it outta my bag before walking out of the dressing room, lmao.

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