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    So I'm an esthetician and about 2 months ago this guy came in with his girlfriend or wife I don't know. I did the facial in a couples session. He never says much honestly he sleeps through most of it. Anyway they have been coming in every week since. Today he came alone. I was so happy but he fell asleep again and when he woke up and started talking to me my dumb ass ended the session and ran out the room. I have a crush like a school girl. The thing is I don't want to be a side chick or mess up their thing. I believe I have a chance because I remember him from somewhere and I think he tried to get with me when I was online dating. Anyway I would be more than happy to join them in the occasional threesum lol but I don't think they are into that. Plus messing with a client can be messy but I really want him!

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    I wouldn't do anything shady. Just asking for trouble.

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    Yeah, asking for trouble. Honestly, if he's sleeping through it, it sounds like he is there for facial purposes only. I wouldn't risk losing a regular client. Money > men

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    Quote Originally Posted by seashell View Post
    I wouldn't risk losing a regular client. Money > men
    Facts.

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    I find that messing with married men or couples requires money and personally would not go through the potential headache for free.

    Probably not wise to mix business and pleasure anyway. Some people do and it's rare that it end well.
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    Yeah y'all are right. I know better. I think I'm just turned on by him and he's a great client. I won't mess that up. It's just been so long since I've had sex.

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    dont mess with married dudes. good men arent a limited supply, theres other guys out there hotter than him.


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    Very true. BUT I checked and he's not married. There was no ring on her finger. I called and asked her massage therapist.

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    If they're good clients, then don't mess around and mess that up. Having a crush is innocent and fun...crossing the line isn't and could put your job in jeopardy. Not worth it.

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    Yeah. Even when they are just dating or engaged but not a legal commitment - some of those women they deal with are batshit crazy and could cause you problems. Or the dude could turn out to be crazy. Or they could report you to your employer and cause you to lose your job.

    If you take that risk though it would need to be him initiating so if/when shit hits the fan - blame everything on him lol

    And never take these kinds of risks for free. If things go south you'll need that money as severance pay should you lose your job fraternizing with clients/customers.
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    Again y'all are right. I like my career more than I like him. I'm going to leave this alone.

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