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    So since last February, this guy has been coming in several times a week to see me. I gave him my number so we could arrange appointments via text.

    Then, the creepiness started.

    He started coming in for almost every one of my shifts. He started rubbing my legs, telling me that he loves me, how much he misses me, that I mean so much to him. Basically, he fell in love and in his mind, he thinks I'm his girlfriend. He is married. I have never seen him outside the club. I did not say that I loved him back, or that I missed him. I reply, "Oh, that's sweet" and change the subject. He tried to hold my hands. I wouldn't let him and held my glass with both hands instead. I have never given him a reason to think that our relationship goes beyond business. He is simply a delusional headcase. The worst is when you dance for him, he looks at you as if he wants to rape you. It's scary as fuck.

    One of the bar regulars pulled me aside and told me that the Psycho was looking inside my car windows. That's when I started to distance myself from him. I told management what was going on, and they have been very supportive. They have been having me park behind the building where cameras are.

    So lately, when he tried to schedule with me, I've been telling him that I'm too busy. He gets jealous and angry if he sees me sitting with other customers.

    So then when I finally did schedule a time slot with him, he decided to play games for attention and canceled on me last minute. I took this as an opportunity to block him on my phone. So both yesterday and today, he shows up, and I ignore him. Rather than take the hint, he sits at my stage, follows me around, tries to put himself in my path, and I ignored him. Management was watching all this. Finally he leaves, but decided to tell the manager that I am a bitch who is ruining his experience. The manager told him that I am under no obligation to speak with him if I don't want to. Then she watched him drive away to make sure he didn't try and mess with my car.

    I can't switch clubs. On certain days, I can go in later in the day. Chances are, if he isn't there by 4, he probably won't be in.

    Wtf is wrong with this idiot? Today he sat with my coworker and whined that I'm ignoring him and he didn't know what he did to deserve it. Being passive aggressive again, and playing the victim. Should I keep ignoring him? I do not want this guy as a customer. Too much drama. He's both creepy and annoying as fuck.
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    Default Re: RANT: F*cking annoying customer!!

    I swear if he shows up tomorrow and bothers me, I'm going to have him thrown out...God I hate him...

    Most of my regs are great. I've some some of them for ten plus years. They are all awesome. Not this loser..

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    Yes, keep ignoring him. He sounds crazy and manic.

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    ^^He is Bipolar and supposedly on meds. Supposedly.

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    Yes, keep ignoring him. He's seeking attention and will most likely get bored eventually. I'd also carry pepper spray and make sure a bouncer always walks you to your car. Don't delete his texts, just in case the behavior continues.

    But honestly I don't think this is uncommon in a strip club... he's probably done it before to someone else, and if you keep ignoring him, he'll have to move on.

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    Keep ignoring him, and if I were you I would make sure management was aware and always up to date on this situation.

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    Thanks, ladies. Management has been aware since I found out about him looking inside my car. They have my back.

    I'm thisclose to having him bounced out if he bothers me again.

    Ugh. Creepy and weird. Like a petulant child. Crying to the manager , "It's her loss!" What a little bitch. Yeah, I'm losing 185 lbs. of crazy. Poor me! *eyeroll*

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    Heading back in today. You'd think after 2 days of being ignored, he'd get the hint. Sadly, this guy is such a loser, he'll probably be back again today to get ignored by me again. I may be back here to vent. Bear with me lol...

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    Default Re: RANT: F*cking annoying customer!!

    Aw.
    Sorry I don't have advice, but what's been said sounds good.
    Good luck, & do update.
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    Sorry he is so crazy, hopefully he moves on.
    xoxo

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    Aaaand he shows up again today. Management saw him approaching the building (my manager, she rocks) and warned me. Took myself off the list and hid in the DR. Problem was, I had to eventually go back out to do business with others instead, as I had a full day booked. So I ignore the bitch and sit with other customers. He got all jealous, bought 2 dances with another girl, who then told me she could see why I cut him off (I warned her ahead of time). During the dance, he talked all kinds of shit about me to her, playing the victim, and told her to tell me how he got dances with her (trying to use her to make me jealous). Well she told him off and said she wasn't getting involved in his drama, and she could see why I was avoiding him lolz!! I love my coworkers.

    10 bucks says he'll be back in today. He must enjoy being ignored. It's becoming a source of entertainment for us at this point.

    I'll probably head in late and dodge the fucker. Sigh. He shows up 3 days in a row, only to be ignored, and continues to talk shit to everyone about me, while we all laugh behind his back. He loves drama. Bitch needs to get a life.

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    Default Re: RANT: F*cking annoying customer!!

    Why isn't this stalker banned from your club ? Peeking in your car or around your car is just too much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaylenn View Post
    Why isn't this stalker banned from your club ? Peeking in your car or around your car is just too much.
    Good question!

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    ^^ I'm going in normal time. Hustlin and doing my thing and ignoring him completely.If he forces the issue I'm getting management involved.They can give him the boot if need be.

    Fuck no I'm not letting this little shit turd get in the way of me making money. He was hovering around yesterday and I made at least 500 under his nose. Fuck him.

    I figured if I change my hours, then he'll turn it into a game where he'll stalk my other shift. Best just to see him head on and ignore the fuck out of him, if that makes any sense.

    Keeping my eye out for my personal safety, just in case.

    Thanks ladies. Sadly this idiot is such a headcase, he'll probably crawl back in here today. Keep ya posted.

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    Glad management is on your side! Jeez.

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    Well Crazy didn't come back to play today. Thank God.

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    Well now since I've blocked his number, the bitch is now calling me from multiple numbers at his work. Whrn I block one line, he'll call from another. He's fucking Cray Cray. I dont say anything to him, I simply dont answer or hang up.Told management at work nd am afraid I might have to call a hotline or the police for help. Management said next time he comes in, they arr asking him to leave since he's been harassing me.This is ridicuous. What a wackjob!! I almost want to call his work and rat him out for harassing me from his work phone, but dont know if that would be a good idea. It might just escalate things.

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    Glad they are asking him to leave.
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    Update: The dude is psycho.Clearly, ignoring him wasn't going to drive home the message, so I texted him in all caps telling him to stop contacting me or else I will call the police and show them his voice mails and my phone records. Also told him I will have him banned from the club and that management is aware of him harassing me. That finally made the calls stop.

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    Wow, that's awful. D: I wouldn't call him at work or do anything else that could escalate the situation. If you need to take action (beyond having him banned), go to the police and provide them with the texts/voicemails/details of how he's harassed you at work. He's got serious issues.

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    ^^ Thanks. I'm not contacting him or anyone involved with him. Don't want to escalate things. Just want this to fizzle out. I am keeping his voice mails and phone records as evidence, just in case.

    He totally has issues, and the scary thing is, he insists that he "doesn't know what he did wrong".

    Um, he's either lying, or he's being an asshole. Either way, I'm not dealing with him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveyDovey View Post
    ^^ Thanks. I'm not contacting him or anyone involved with him. Don't want to escalate things. Just want this to fizzle out. I am keeping his voice mails and phone records as evidence, just in case.

    He totally has issues, and the scary thing is, he insists that he "doesn't know what he did wrong".

    Um, he's either lying, or he's being an asshole. Either way, I'm not dealing with him.
    He may have some kind of mental illness/disability/disorder, in which case, there's no reasoning with him. People with a deep-set problem like that will never understand what they did wrong without serious therapy and/or medication.

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    ^^ He's on prozac and sees a therapist.

    The guy has serious boundary issues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveyDovey View Post
    What a wackjob!! I almost want to call his work and rat him out for harassing me from his work phone, but dont know if that would be a good idea. It might just escalate things.
    I think that might escalate things! I had a crazy hasidic regular who I had to cut off for following me around the club and once screaming "she's a jew" across the club about me to a group of men I was dancing for... The oddness! When I'd dance for people he'd literally glower at them. Not a good look! An old hasidic man staring at my customers resentfully. I started ignoring him a few months ago and after one month the "i don't see you" thing started sinking in and now we mutually ignore each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    I think that might escalate things! I had a crazy hasidic regular who I had to cut off for following me around the club and once screaming "she's a jew" across the club about me to a group of men I was dancing for... The oddness! When I'd dance for people he'd literally glower at them. Not a good look! An old hasidic man staring at my customers resentfully. I started ignoring him a few months ago and after one month the "i don't see you" thing started sinking in and now we mutually ignore each other.
    Yeah, not going to do that. He showed up again today. Management snuck me out and he didnt see. Think it's time to change hours or clubs. At least he hasn't been calling or texting.

    Glad it finally sank in with your stalker! Crackpot gets jealous too, so he gets dances with other girls to get me jealous lmao.

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