So since last February, this guy has been coming in several times a week to see me. I gave him my number so we could arrange appointments via text.
Then, the creepiness started.
He started coming in for almost every one of my shifts. He started rubbing my legs, telling me that he loves me, how much he misses me, that I mean so much to him. Basically, he fell in love and in his mind, he thinks I'm his girlfriend. He is married. I have never seen him outside the club. I did not say that I loved him back, or that I missed him. I reply, "Oh, that's sweet" and change the subject. He tried to hold my hands. I wouldn't let him and held my glass with both hands instead. I have never given him a reason to think that our relationship goes beyond business. He is simply a delusional headcase. The worst is when you dance for him, he looks at you as if he wants to rape you. It's scary as fuck.
One of the bar regulars pulled me aside and told me that the Psycho was looking inside my car windows. That's when I started to distance myself from him. I told management what was going on, and they have been very supportive. They have been having me park behind the building where cameras are.
So lately, when he tried to schedule with me, I've been telling him that I'm too busy. He gets jealous and angry if he sees me sitting with other customers.
So then when I finally did schedule a time slot with him, he decided to play games for attention and canceled on me last minute. I took this as an opportunity to block him on my phone. So both yesterday and today, he shows up, and I ignore him. Rather than take the hint, he sits at my stage, follows me around, tries to put himself in my path, and I ignored him. Management was watching all this. Finally he leaves, but decided to tell the manager that I am a bitch who is ruining his experience. The manager told him that I am under no obligation to speak with him if I don't want to. Then she watched him drive away to make sure he didn't try and mess with my car.
I can't switch clubs. On certain days, I can go in later in the day. Chances are, if he isn't there by 4, he probably won't be in.
Wtf is wrong with this idiot? Today he sat with my coworker and whined that I'm ignoring him and he didn't know what he did to deserve it. Being passive aggressive again, and playing the victim. Should I keep ignoring him? I do not want this guy as a customer. Too much drama. He's both creepy and annoying as fuck.



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