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    Do any customer's remember their first time attending a strip club? I had nervous anxiety when I first entered a club. I was tense and shy too. It was attributed to the fact that I had never been with a girl (in the bedroom) before so I had anxiety being with a girl in a sexual environment.

    The strippers noticed I was nervous when they approached me and they automatically assumed I was an undercover cop. A bouncer approached me and asked to see my badge. It was amusing because all the strippers were scared and frightened by me. Do any other customer's have similar stories regarding their first experience at a strip club?

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    I've never scared a dancer, but I'm scared of my fav sometimes. I'm afraid when I get a private dance, her boobs will cast a spell on me and I'll keep buying more dances
    That happened the last 15 times I saw her, and it will probably happen the next time too.

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    Wow, that was horrible.

    I don't think it was all about you.

    Try a different place, I hope you have more fun next time

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    Yep could have been they were scared too - of undercover popos which look like any customer.

    If it was something you were doing perhaps be aware of your body language and your mindset going into the club.

    Maybe do some yoga or something to relax before you go to the club. Why so much anxiety? Dancers / women are human just like you?

    And make sure you bring some cash too. If you were sitting there for a long time just staring and observing then yes you look out of place. Undercover popos most likely will not participate the same way a real customer would.
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    If you are nervous, just try to picture the dancers naked. Er, wait...

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    This transpired 8 years ago. Strippers don't assume I'm an undercover cop anymore because I'm more comfortable with the strip club environment. Although, picturing the girls naked doesn't actually help me.

    It definitely was attributed to my behavior I think. For example, I was in the back room with one girl. (I hate the back room at this place. It makes me feel like I'm some creeper in a dark alley or something.) I was hesitant to touch her boobs and ass at first because I was trying to be respectful. Plus, this is my first time in the back room and this back room made me feel incredibly uncomfortable.

    My hesitancy somehow triggered a red flag because dudes at a strip club are supposed to be assholes who grope a lot. And girls complain when a rare dude decides to show respect. She immediately blurts out "Don't arrest me. I'm not doing anything and I've never done anything before. I have a kid......" I'm like... "What?"

    It did freak me out when a bouncer asked to see my badge.

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    Glad it worked out for you in the end
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    At first I was a little worried considering that I'm a girl and I've heard about dancers not liking female customers due to cases of annoying/drunk/grabby ones and the jealous girlfriends that make a scene. Everything was cool. I was treated the same as any other customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SugarCookies View Post
    At first I was a little worried considering that I'm a girl and I've heard about dancers not liking female customers due to cases of annoying/drunk/grabby ones and the jealous girlfriends that make a scene. Everything was cool. I was treated the same as any other customer.
    Great - you're correct many of the posts on here are critical of female customers, but if you're neither of the above there are plenty of dancers who will treat you well.
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    I got the cop thing too for similar reasons plus I am kinda muscular and shave my head. My Dad also always got me to stand and sit very upright so that adds to a cop feel as well. That was 25 years ago but I still get asked if I am ex military/cop occasionally. Most dancers seem to enjoy rubbing the shaved head still.

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    I remember my first time. I just turned 16. My dad decided to "make a man out of me", and drag me away from my computer and snuck me in. My dad bought me a $5 dollar snapple, raspberry tea if I remember right. I downed the whole thing in the first moments of the first show. I was so nervous and shy I looked at the stage floor or the dancers faces. The third dancer was a girl I knew from art class who had graduated the year before. My dad didn't know and bought me a lapdance from her. I of course decided to talk about art class with her. She ended up taking a brake. It was a slow night I guess. We talked some more then the DJ's sound board went out. Long story short. I fixed the board, the manager offered me a lapdance in the back room. I said no, but I''ll take another snapple, and my dad banged his head on the table. First and last time I went to a stripclub. Don't get me wrong, I'd go again, but I am pretty sure I wouldn't be welcomed.

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    I went with my brother and best friend. I just blended in like everybody else. I was curious about what went on. My brother bought me a couple of dances from two girls. When I sat down for my first ever lap dance, I had a full erection from the anticipation. It was a nice night. My best friend called me the next morning wanting to go again that night. I think he had a bit too much excitement.

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    Yes, I was very anxious. Actually, my ex-husband and I both were very apprehensive as to what to expect. Now, it's where we hang-out every other week or so. Each night has a vibe all unto itself.

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