I'm a very attractive woman. I am a top earner at every club I have ever worked at, and I know that my looks help a lot with that. I have found, however, that many men in the club are especially rude to me, and I feel that it is the way that I look. I do not encounter this behavior in "real life", so I can only imagine that it is a phenomenon of the environment I'm working in and the fact that I am willfully interacting with more people than I would if I were out at a regular bar, for example. My experience in the strip club is that men either love me immediately or they seem to absolutely *hate* me even before I say anything to them.
Does anyone else encounter this at work??
Keep in mind that I'm not trying to start a debate about hot people being treated worse than unattractive people, I have no illusions about that, pretty privilege is real (I was an ugly duckling for a long time, so I have first hand experience with both sides) but I do think that attractive women tend to bring out more polarizing behaviors in men, which I know through experience both first and second-hand, how the hotter girls in the club are treated and how attractive women in general are treated by society. Whereas an ugly girl might be straight up ignored, I feel like men either worship me or absolutely hate me just because of the way that I look. I've been noticing this especially more lately as I've been investing more into my appearance and working more, hustling harder, etc.



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