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    So, I normally gawk at a stripper's body the entire time whenever she gives me a lap dance. Out of curiosity, would it seem creepy if a customer decided to make eye contact occasionally with a stripper while she dances? Or, would you rather have a customer gawk and grope your body the entire time?

    The last girl I tried this with didn't seem to mind. She also asked me for my number (although I think it was just a ruse to try and extract cash from me).

    However, there was another occasion in which a girl clearly felt uncomfortable when I occasionally made eye contact with her.

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    Some girls like it a lot. I found it was really easy to keep selling dances when I got a guy to keep eye contact. O

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    Well it's one thing to make eye contact occasionally but to stare like you're trying to reach the depths of her soul - yeah that's creepy lol.
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    Default Re: Lap Dance Question

    Quote Originally Posted by dardar101 View Post
    So, I normally gawk at a stripper's body the entire time whenever she gives me a lap dance. Out of curiosity, would it seem creepy if a customer decided to make eye contact occasionally with a stripper while she dances? Or, would you rather have a customer gawk and grope your body the entire time?

    The last girl I tried this with didn't seem to mind. She also asked me for my number (although I think it was just a ruse to try and extract cash from me).

    However, there was another occasion in which a girl clearly felt uncomfortable when I occasionally made eye contact with her.
    Yes, she probably wanted to make money - but that's ok, without the money, the dancers wouldn't be there.

    This is a tough one, I think we all ask the same question sometimes. If you just break down and stare at her body, like you sometimes want to, it seems strange, and if you look at her face, she probably knows you'd rather be staring at her body. What I personally have learned from dancers on this site is: if you don't push club boundaries, don't ask her a lot of dumb questions she's heard a million times before, tip well, spend some dough, don't try to push her into otc or worse itc, she doesn't really care where you look. Dancers know they look good. They put a lot of work into it so it is ok to appreciate it. Relax, have fun, be respectful, tip well. That's a recipe for a win-win.
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    Yea you have to be some-what attractive to look the stripper in her eyes while dancing I would think Lol

    When Im getting a lap dance and the stripper and eye lock eyes Ill just start smiling/smirking or just do a Lil flirty laugh to lighten the mood and to let her know Im having fun above anything.

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    Nothing wrong with making eye contact. I do it all the time while I'm giving lap dances. It establishes more of a "connection" and makes the men want more lap dances. It doesn't creep me out at all when the guy makes eye contact with me.

    Edit: Touching is a different thing, obviously. Only touch where the dancer allows you to.
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    Eye contact is great. Some dancers would rather "lie back and think of England" and they can't be bothered with eye contact. To maintain eye contact you have to be 'present' and 'on' for longer and this is more intellectually draining than zoning out and thinking of what you need to get at the shops later

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