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    Dizzy "Focus on a man"

    I went to a local club yesterday to scope it out and talk to some of the dancers/bouncers. Right away I felt out of place because it's more of an urban club and I'm a skinny white girl who can't twerk worth shit. I legit tried and they laughed at me (in a good way)

    The main bouncer seemed to like me though, he said he could "manage" me and make sure I got hired. He said they don't have many white girls and I'd make a killing because of my race.

    But he also weirdly said I "shouldn't" do it. I told him I wanted to dance to fill up my spare time and he said that I should have "better things to do" and to focus my spare time "on a man."

    Huh? Anybody else run into these situations?

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    Ew ignore him. "Manage" is usually code for "pimp out" and fuck anyone who thinks it's better to waste time on a man than to be getting your own money. Just do your thing you don't need anyone's help. If they wanna hire you they will its not up to him. I'm a petite white girl with no ass and can't really pole dance/twerk but I worked at an urban club before and did OK, you'll get the hang of it, or you can try another club. Did they actually hire you??

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    Default Re: "Focus on a man"

    I'm supposed to go in on Wednesday to audition but I'm thinking about looking at some of the other less-urban clubs in the area first.

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    I feel like he is trying to pimp you out and has already started the grooming process. Go elsewhere.

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    This is definitely grooming. If you decide to stay with this club, don't ever have an actual conversation with that dude, just nod and smile. If he asks if you need help in the future just say you've got it, no thanks.

    Ick, so much ick just from reading that.

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    Default Re: "Focus on a man"

    Are you new to stripping? It sounds like he knew you were inexperienced and is trying to take advantage of that. I wouldn't trust him. I'd avoid him and get hired on your own. This has nothing to do with a club being urban or not.

    Ugh, people telling us we "need a man"... *eyeroll*

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    Default Re: "Focus on a man"

    Thanks ladies, I really appreciate your advice. I'm definitely a baby stripper, I've never danced before and so he could probably sense that. He called me today to see if I was going to come in to audition, but I decided I want to a visit a couple of other clubs first.

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    Avoid that dude if you wind up working there. Just be pleasant but avoid. There are many predators that prey on the new and naive.

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    He CALLED you? I'msorry but bouncers/floor hosts don't call potential auditions. This solidifies to me that he is a pimp wannabe. Stay Away.

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    Yes he called me!!! I'm so glad I posted this on here. Ugh, ew.

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