I was living with my ex's family when I started camming. When I admitted that I was camming in order to make money my ex's mother told everyone we knew that I was a whore and a prostitute. Anyone have to deal with this? I am sure I am not alone..
I was living with my ex's family when I started camming. When I admitted that I was camming in order to make money my ex's mother told everyone we knew that I was a whore and a prostitute. Anyone have to deal with this? I am sure I am not alone..





You are right you are not alone but if being called a whore/prostitute is the worst she can come up with then consider yourself blessed.
Your ex's mother must be bored because people who are happy, secure with a lot going for them don't go around bathmouthing others. They don't have the time or reason to.
Bitches that talk trash about others are doing it for the attention because if they were talking about themselves no one would give a fuck, LOL!
I have dealt with being called a whore and a prostitute before, usually by angry clients who get pissed off when I dont bend the way they want me too.
“Your heart is my piñata.” - Chuck Palaniuk.
Those slurs are what vanilla people love to call us sex workers even though they consume porn and some are out here "hoeing" it up yet they have the gull to slam sex workers. Even though I'm not embarrassed or shameful of being a camgirl I personally wouldn't tell anyone that doesn't really need to know. I know many ladies say you shouldn't care what others think and if people judge you they weren't true friends anyway and all that stuff but imo telling any ol body just brings unnecessary(imo) drama and judgement.
Last edited by Blovely; 05-31-2017 at 04:12 PM.





You could probably sue her for slander if you wanted to.





I mean... you could technically sue her for slander because what you are doing is not illegal, however you would have to be able to quantify the damages caused by her spreading lies about you and also convince the jury or judge at the hearing that you are not a whore (which is a bit more subjective) or a prostitute (which is a bit literal).
I think almost every woman has been called a whore or a slut in their lifetime. Honestly, saying shit like that to or about other females in this day and age is so stupid, and passe. I would let it roll off your back. Who gives a fuck what she thinks.
XoXo Gia
Danielle Fishell (the Dish): "If the Super-Star thing doesn't work out, Gia makes a great stripper name"
My brother and sister make sure to talk shit about me being in the sex industry all the time. So I feel you.





I've been called that, but only once by someone who knew I was a stripper. I keep it super secret, and luckily most of the people who know are not close family and they're not even in my life anymore. I refuse to tell anyone now. It's just not worth it.
Yes my family thinks anyone in adult related careers are all really prostitutes and whores.
And as you can see from my recent thread even Hooters to some is adult related career so even they're whores too lol.
Everyone is technically a whore unless they are a virgin who has never seen, discussed, or have knowledge of sex. Even married women are whores fucking their husbands for privileges and allowance.
I'd ask her how many times she bust her pussy open in her lifetime and if she tells the truth she's the Grande Whore. A lot of these old ass women are slick hating when in reality they have been around the block (and back - multiple times) and are the OG Whores.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





She wouldn't have to show any damages. Only that her ex's mother lied about her. Carol Burnett successfully sued the National Enquirer for libel, when the National Enquirer reported that she was drunk and boisterous at a nightclub encounter with Henry Kissinger, even though there were no quantifiable damages.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burnet..._Enquirer,_Inc.





Yes but libel is written and easier to prove. I do not believe that is the only case of a celebrity suing a tabloid for libel and winning; however she is not a celebrity whose public image is worth a certain dollar amount to her; whereby the damage to it could cause her future lost earnings. If the mother in law posted something on facebook, that would be one thing. If she is just gossiping and spreading rumors it is difficult to prove as it can be considered hearsay and she would certainly have to be able to quantify damages in a tort case.
Again though, I think- who gives a shit what the in law thinks or says.
XoXo Gia
Danielle Fishell (the Dish): "If the Super-Star thing doesn't work out, Gia makes a great stripper name"





This may be true depending on the law of the OP's jurisdiction due to the nature of the untrue statement. In a 'defamation per se' case, the untrue statement is so vile that damages are presumed to have occurred. Defamation relating to criminal acts and/or sex acts may fall into 'defamation per se' category.
Is the OP going to pay $15,000 to retain a lawyer to file a defamation case? Probably not. However, she could go to small claims court or justice of the peace court and file a pro se case there (i.e., representing herself). If nothing else, it would be fun to inflict on her ex's mother the intimidation of a lawsuit and court. I don't know about the OP's jurisdiction, but, for example, in Texas, you can get up to a $10,000 award in small claims court. I would go with a trial by judge due to potential jury bias against the adult entertainment business.
http://injury.findlaw.com/torts-and-...n-per-se-.html
One caveat though - The OP would need to research the legal definition of prostitution in her jurisdiction. If prostitution is define very broadly (e.g., any sexual act in exchange for money, any penetration or insertion of something in exchange for money, etc.), then, she may technically fall within its broad definition. Some jurisdictions define prostitution so broadly that even selling lap dances could be categorized as prostitution.
Also, what does "whore" really mean? This may depend on the local custom and usage of the word. The OP would have to call witnesses (the people who heard this from the ex's mother) and ask them what the word "whore" means in their community and what impressions they formed when they heard the ex's mother call the OP a "whore".
The OP should also assert a claim for: Invasion of Privary - Public Disclosure of Private Facts. Public disclosure of private facts arises where one person reveals information which is not of public concern, and the release of which would offend a reasonable person. Unlike libel or slander, truth is not a defense for invasion of privacy. Disclosure of private facts includes publishing or widespread dissemination of little-known, private facts that are non-newsworthy, not part of public records, public proceedings, not of public interest, and would be offensive to a reasonable person if made public.
http://injury.findlaw.com/torts-and-...f-privacy.html
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Privac..._United_States
Last edited by jack0177057; 06-02-2017 at 07:38 PM.
Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.
- Oscar Wilde
You are definitely not alone in this. My own mother reacted/still reacts the same way. There are always going to be someone who has something negative to say or has some holier than thou complex who thinks that their beliefs and way of life is somehow superior. If they do the very thing that they accused you of it's somehow "better" in their eyes or they'll find some way to justify it. The funny thing is that the people who are quick to judge harshly are often the ones who are not so innocent themselves. I had an ex who told me that I was a whore because I stripped and I found out that he had put himself through college by being a stripper himself.
Last edited by WendiStarr; 06-09-2017 at 06:53 PM.
My whole family... especially my misogynistic father and womanizing uncle
I had an ex boyfriend say that.





Idk. Suing for defamtion no doubt sounds good in theory, but keep in mind that you have to: (1) prove that the allegations are false; and (2) the theory of "presumed damages" is no guarantee of any real economic reward.
With respect to proving that the allegations are false, the ex's mother will no doubt argue that her allegation was based upon the fact that you got naked and performed sex acts on yourself for money. While in the view of folks on this board, that is a far cry from having sex in person for money, more vanilla types may not see the distinction as clearly as we do. Imagine a lawyer probing you for hours on every detail or what you did on cam and maybe even showing the court clips of some of your cam sessions. This could go very badly very fast and be far more humiliating than whatever that harpy is saying about you now to a small group of people.
But even if you got through all of that, the term "presumed damages" does not automatically mean a real monetary award in some jurisdictions. Even in presumed damages situations, in some jurisdictions there is still some level of proof of actual economic harm needed to justify material economic awards. Imagine going through all of that just to be awarded a few hundred bucks.
Again, idk. As much as this sucks, it might make more sense to take a less litigious approach, unless of course she is posting her comments on social media sites or other places available to large groups of people. If you have relationships in common, you can always tell your side and let them be the judge.





Rick, I thought you were on this thread cause someone called you that
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt










Me?
Not likely.
Ive been told to shut my dirty whore mouth.



That cunt is just insecure and scared! YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH!
I know for sure my parents, and possibly my uncles/aunts, would think negatively.
My mom once claimed that any model in Playboy is a prostitute. One day in high school I put together a punk inspired outfit (I'm into the punk, psychobilly/rockabilly scene) that consisted of a bomber jacket, t-shirt, shorts, ripped thigh high stockings, and combat boots, my mom said angrily said that my outfit was slutty. It was silly. I've also heard my dad criticize women for being "slutty", yet I remember once stumbling across a small collection of 80s/90s porn that was his in the TV cabinet drawer.
As the saying goes, people point with one hand while jacking off with the other hand. The guy who just insulted you watches porn and pressure girls sexually, and the female who insulted you is jealous of your looks/success and her favorite movie is Magic Mike.
I've sold pictures/video clips, recently started camming, and would like to dance soon. I keep my work and personal profiles separate as do most sex workers, plus I live 3 hours away from my hometown now. So it's unlikely I'll be outed, but if I was I wouldn't feel any shame. I'd just think the drama would be annoying.
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