Maybe because, in their experience, it keeps guys on the hook and
spending more during the same visit.
As far as this notion of being a "regular customer", it never ceases to amaze me how many guys try to project their beliefs about "customer service" onto strippers. How can she ever know if you will ever be in the club again? Or if you won't find another girl to spend on, such as one who offers to do more than she will ITC? Or if your money is going to run out? Or etc.,etc. Many of these girls have learned the hard way that most guys are only "reliable" for as long as it takes for another shiny object to grab their interest or for their money to run out. Net-net, it is expecting a lot for these girls to show restraint today in the very uncertain hope of collecting more tomorrow.
So with all of that said, it should be no surprise that many dancers treat this as a cash and carry business. IME what also doesn't help is that some percentage of these girls live hand to mouth and are under pressure to earn as much as possible immediately, even if they would ideally like to foster these relationships. Also, some girls just have no interest in managing regulars and the drama that often accompanies them in any case, especially in places with high tourist or other traffic.
Anyway, just my

fwiw and any dancer on this board can certainly feel free to disagree with my descriptions of the state of affairs as I see them.
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