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    If a customer tips well($10-30 per show). Would it matter if they were a transgender woman? I've read on here that most performers do not prefer female customers for one reason or another. Believe it or not I have a large amount of respect or Adult performance artists. A lot are very talented, even the amateur ones. I guess what I am getting at is I don't want to go where I'm not welcome. I just wanted to find out how the majority of the dancer felt about it.

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    idk about anyone else but if you tip well and are respectful during lap dances i don't care what gender, race or age you are. i tend to dislike/avoid young people and women because they usually don't spend money and act stupid.. not because of their actual age or gender. i'm sure if you act appropriately you wont have too much of a problem. you just might have to be more proactive about asking dancers to come sit with you. and eh, tbh there might be a few dancers who would be weirded out but i personally would not be phased. depends on your area too. like it makes a big difference if you're clubbing in LA vs some rural town in the midwest ya know?
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    For me, I have rules for myself.
    1. If you choose to go to a SC, be prepared to pay $10 per performance minimum). Its a business not charity
    2. Stay for a minimum of 3 performances and a maximum of 1 hour 30 minutes.
    3. If I'm lucky enough to get a lapdance I am to set on my hands.
    4. Saying hello, please and thank you is required when interacting with performers.
    5. clapping for an excellent performance is ok.
    6. Small talk is alright, but asking for interaction of any kind outside of the SC is forbidden. (Performers do not want to be your friend, or any other kind of social interaction)

    At least those are my rules for just me. If I was a performer thats kinda how I'd want to be treated, I guess. The nearest SC I know of are in Portland, Oregon.

    I'd like to hear opinions from more performers.

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    In all honesty, cisgender female customers are mostly entitled little cunts that I'd love to use their bones to build Trump's wall.
    That being said, I've had limited but always pleasant interaction with transgender customers. They've always been pleasant, respectful and generous. I dunno, maybe because they know what it feels like to be a stigmatized member of society and get treated like shit for it.
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    In all honesty, cisgender female customers are mostly entitled little cunts that I'd love to use their bones to build Trump's wall.
    That being said, I've had limited but always pleasant interaction with transgender customers. They've always been pleasant, respectful and generous. I dunno, maybe because they know what it feels like to be a stigmatized member of society and get treated like shit for it.
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    Never encountered any transgender customers in the strip clubs I've worked in. I've danced for a guy in a wheelchair, a deaf guy, lesbians, a little person and mentally disabled people. When I was a customer I got a table dance with some gay friends. I'm not keen on anyone who is disrespectful and/or doesn't think they need to spend money on strippers in a strip club. I've seen a lot of female customers like this over the years. Some are jealous, some want to feel better by gawking and laughing at the dirty immoral strippers, and others don't understand why they should give strippers money.

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    I highly doubt most dancers would care. There is just a stigma against cis female customers because they ARE more entitled. They want everything for free or cheap (I'm not a dancer, but know how females are because I cam.) Just approach a dancer and ask her outright for a dance and remember to tip her generously and keep your hands to your sides. I doubt being transgender plays a role in whether they dance for you or not.

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    In one stripper group that I'm a member of on Facebook one poster quipped that "BYOB" means "Bring Your Own Beer" not "Bring Your Own Bitch".
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    BYOB could stand for, "Bring Your own Beauty," or "Boy You're Optimistically Blissful,"but if you are going to a bbq it's "Bring Your Own Beef." I don't really like to use bitch to describe any women. Anyway thank you for your input. I feel alot easier about going to enjoy a SC now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyshadowguard View Post
    BYOB could stand for, "Bring Your own Beauty," or "Boy You're Optimistically Blissful,"but if you are going to a bbq it's "Bring Your Own Beef." I don't really like to use bitch to describe any women. Anyway thank you for your input. I feel alot easier about going to enjoy a SC now.
    Observe the behavior of cis female customers. If they aren't grabby, drunk, pathetic, bitchy, jealous, smelly or annoying twits, odds are they are off duty strippers or pod people from outer space.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nadia_ View Post
    I have a better question cuz strippers are last people to be judgemental or give a flying fuck what gender you decide to choose....we only turn down people who's money isn't green lol...( i.e. female Custies money is usually not good enough for the drama/trauma of having to deal with their disgusting alcohol barf breath and repeated sexual assault and then thinking everything is "free" cuz their girls too lol...)

    But anyway I have a better question who do YOU as a customer feel about transgender dancers?

    Cuz on the east coast I met some dope ass dancers that were born male but decided to become the baddest most ill females with their lives instead and I seen some customers get weirded out when a bitchy dancer was in a bad mood/jealous of them and started spilling their secret to every custy that walked in , in an attempt to sabotage smh

    Also I kinda look like a transgender dancer cuz I have a large face/head lol(androgynous type)...and Custies have asked me before if I was born a man lol....in fact that is the most common "insult" I get ....also as I said before I've worked at really small clubs where the beef gets real sometimes and same scenario other dancers told customers I was indeed born a man smh....


    So yea as a customer how do YAL feel about trans dancers?
    Just curious honestly ... if they look fully feminine do y'all have an issue or would you still buy a dance from a gorgeous girl who maybe wasn't a girl her whole life?
    I'm sorry but you had me at "barf breath".
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    One of my best VIP customers was a transgender woman. She would get back to back vips and I was so sad when she had to go back to Europe for work. Generous and respectful and an ideal customer. I'm not going to lie, some dancers who did a VIP with her before she started coming to me told me they were weirded out by her, but they were definitely sitting in the corner looking bitchy when she would take me back for multiple VIPs. Their attitudes were shocking but these were not American women they were foreigners so maybe in their culture being transgender is even more stigmatized.

    Definitely tip above average and feel the dancer's reaction. She only ever got a one time VIP with each of those girls and mentioned they didn't seem comfortable. I made her feel comfortable which is why she stuck with me while she was in ny. And joke was on them because she had a very lucrative gig in europe

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    I have a few questions. I am a pre-op transwoman and I have never been to a strip club. I would like to have the experience at least once before I die. I pass 100% and have never been called sir before. My question is is there a bouncer outside the club? If so, and they were some how able to tell I am trans would they give me a hard time? If the bartenders are male would they bother me? What about the male customers? Would they give me trouble? I'm not a violent person and I am kind of shy so I don't like violence. I shake when I just witness violence and can't even stand up.

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    To be honest, if your just yourself, and out? it really shouldn't be an issue. I'm a t-girl myself, a Cam girl , model, artist etc etc and in the public eye a ton, my " situation" never really came up ever outside of my sexwork. Some people may be able to tell if someone transitioned based on voice ( goes for both trans women AND men- unless you've done a ton of training on that - that includes how to breaths different and HOW to talk since dialect and sounds differ a TON between genders and are shockingly little tells that carry a ton of weight. ) posture, body language etc, alot of small things, so unless you have all those down pat and completely natural and ingrained into habit someone MAY pick up on things... but ive been at signings at comic conventions talking to fans and signing things, or other things and generally those who may have a hunch don't say anything unless they tend to want advice or are hitting o you.... same goes with being in public anywhere, clubs are no different really. at the end of the day its about money- if your going to spend they wont give a shit ( UNLESS that is you give reason to suspect you could be a potential problem. On of my fav clubs to go to when i was in NM had a group of regulars who were hetero-drag queens, and they were loud flamboyant and fun as hell and the girls LOVED them in because they were big spenders and really played up the girls and got them more attention and customers as a result so.... yeah i the end its money that talks not your clothes .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Morrigan View Post
    To be honest, if your just yourself, and out? it really shouldn't be an issue. I'm a t-girl myself, a Cam girl , model artist etc etc and in the public eye a ton, my " situation" never really came up ever outside of my sexwork. Some people may be able to tell based on voice ( unless you've done a ton of training on that - that includes how to breaths different and HOW to talk since dialect and sounds differ a TON between genders and are shockingly little tells that carry a ton of weight. ) posture, body language etc, alot of small things, so unless you have all those down pat and completely natural and ingrained into habit someone MAY pick up on things... but ive been at signings at comic conventions talking to fans and signing things, or other things and generally those who may have a hunch don't say anything unless they tend to want advice or are hitting o you.... same goes with being in public anywhere, clubs are no different really. at the end of the day its about money- if your going to spend they wont give a shit ( UNLESS that is you give reason to suspect you could be a potential problem. On of my fav clubs to go to when i was in NM had a group of regulars who were hetero-drag queens, and they were loud flamboyant and fun as hell and the girls LOVED them in because they were big spenders and really played up the girls and got them more attention and customers as a result so.... yeah i the end its money that talks not your clothes .
    Hello! Nice to meet you! Oh yeah I'm good with the voice and all that. Like I said, no matter where I go everyone treats me as nothing but a female. I have all my documents changed too. It's just I was worried that IF a male customer somehow would clock me for some reason would there be trouble? I never heard of a hetero drag queen. Thanks for the info hun!

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    well again some may some may not but most dont say anything if they do, more so if your a customer. patrons? might but most that ive had issues got nasty and such because I refused to sleep with them and my wife gets nasty when she shoots them down too but way more aggressively. then its more of them muttering " fucking dykes" than anything else XD
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    Quote Originally Posted by LoriQ View Post
    I have a few questions. I am a pre-op transwoman and I have never been to a strip club. I would like to have the experience at least once before I die. I pass 100% and have never been called sir before. My question is is there a bouncer outside the club? If so, and they were some how able to tell I am trans would they give me a hard time? If the bartenders are male would they bother me? What about the male customers? Would they give me trouble? I'm not a violent person and I am kind of shy so I don't like violence. I shake when I just witness violence and can't even stand up.
    I can't speak for all areas of the country but around Boston strip clubs are really hassle free. the bouncers are there to solve problems, none of them will bother you and a little tip to them 5-10 dollars always breaks the ice. before i danced i worked at a regular bar as a waitress and saw way more issues there than i have ever seen in a strip club. if you're shy a strip club is a great place to go.

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    To me women are woman, whether they are Trans or Cis, and should be treat as a human being. All strippers/performers, should be treated with respect. As they are allowing others to see their "private things". Customers should be grateful for that. Granted its been 20 years and a long journey for me, since I've been to a SC, so things might have changed. Also, I don't drink, so that's not a problem from me. I guess I'm just one of a kind, maybe.

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    I always found it dumb that guys would ask "is she a man?" about strippers in nude clubs. Some women are tall or naturally muscular (or were fitness competitors). But someone would have noticed if she had a dick tucked away when she got naked. Got nothing against T strippers/ sex workers but I hate that guys are so worried about being "tricked". T sex workers/ adult entertainers will not try to "trick" people, there are a lot of customers who find them very attractive and seek them out over cis women (or men).

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    I think some dancers are very selective and only spend time with certain types of customers. Me personally I don't turn down money based on race, religion, sexual identity, sexual orientation, physical disability, etc but on spend worthiness and generosity and sexual perversion.

    I turn down extreme pervs and cheap fuckers.
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