Hi all!
I've been interested in stripping for a while now, a while back I practiced got the courage to go to a club, got hired, and did the thing everyone on here tells you not to do, I got drunk my first day and passed out in the club. V embarrassed.
It was a combo of nerves because I've never felt confident dancing. But the reason I'd be a good stripper is because I'm confident in my looks (black girl, brown skin, thin, big tits, small but cute ass, pretty hair, etc.), love showing off my body plus I'm a very sexual/flirtatious person.
I think because I'm too nervous about looking dumb dancing alone I get in my head and want to drink. It has nothing to do with feeling bad about dancing naked. I'm sure I'd feel more confident with lap dances even w/ no experience because it's just grinding, touching, and a bit of sweet talking and whatnot.
Anyway, now that my funds are low and my job shut down due to bankruptcy (I was a server and in the summer it's more difficult to get serving jobs),I really want to give it another go, minus the getting drunk and passing out part. Lmao. The dive I got hired at said I could come back last time I was there just no drinking but I'm not sure I'm up to going back because of how I left.
I wanted to see if I could find a girl in my city who would maybe mentor me? I guess kinda coach me while I dance alone on how I look until I get the gist of it...because just recording myself isn't the same as having someone there watching & critiquing me.I'm sure it would help bring up my confidence.
My question is, how would I find someone willing to help? Would I even be able to find someone or am I just being delusional in thinking I'd be able to find a girl who would just want to help me without anything in return but gratitude?
(I looked on this site and didn't see any post that had anything similar to the q I'm asking- checked craigslist but I'm worried the girls on there that post about looking for a dance buddy or whatever could just be a scam for a pimp or a prostitution ring.)
Or should I just put my big girl panties, man up and go it alone?
Any advice welcome!!!!
I'm in Houston just in case you missed the (HTX) in the title.



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