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    Default Somewhat regulars trying to hang outside of the club

    I don't want to come across as a bitch and I want to continue the money coming in from these guys, but when they want to go to dinner or do an activity with me that's outside the club I don't know how to respond to those texts. I know I can charge them for me going but I honestly don't want to deal with a customer in a public setting. Strip club and that's the only place they get to see me. How should I approach these requests politely to get the message across and not ruin the money flow?

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    Default Re: Somewhat regulars trying to hang outside of the club

    They know what they're doing. They want to get you for free, and/or get the thrill of taking a dancer outside of the club. Just politely say "only in the club," and repeat yourself like a broken record. They'll eventually learn that it's not going to work with you. Just don't cross your own boundaries... it's not worth it.

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    Default Re: Somewhat regulars trying to hang outside of the club

    I just say I HAVE to work, I cannot go out or I have school it would be easier to see each other at the club later that night. Once you see them outside, it is almost impossible to get them back in. Don't do it.

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    Default Re: Somewhat regulars trying to hang outside of the club

    I ruined a great regular by going for sushi one time and then expecting him to still just be a strip club customer. He instead asked me to marry him. You can sometimes do that shit (get a set rate to have dinner where he buys out your night at work- whatever its worth to you) but usually only with types who "get" the whole stripper/customer dynamic. This customer I had sushi with ended up buying another dancer a car! You bet that made me feel stupid. I then found out she fucked him and felt less stupid. But still- he might still be buying 1-2 hours with me if I hadn't fucked it up....

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    Default Re: Somewhat regulars trying to hang outside of the club

    Ohhhh so they are trying to see me for free. I assumed they were asking and paying me for showing up. That's not happening! LOL. I have ignored the texts so far but I'll send them that I only stay in the club.

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