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    Been Dating a girl who was a dancer when we met.
    She is going back to dancing after a long break. She was burned out on it. We are planning on getting married.
    Trust is not the issue, but would like helpful incite on how to be a good partner / Husband.
    Does it effect sex life? What to look for on day to day and how to be supportive..

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    To be completely honest you are probably not going to get a lot of responses due to the fact your account is so new but... it is difficult to say without more background. I know for me, when I was dancing and dating or had a serious BF, my sex drive was a rollercoaster. With some guys I would come home and want to F*** and some I didn't want to touch me at all. It depends a lot on where she is dancing and the rules of contact, also how many shifts per week she is planning to work.

    As far as being supportive... understand if she drinks at work, sometimes she will come home drunk. It is a part of the game. As long as it is not an everyday occurrence, don't beat her up (verbally or otherwise) about this. Sometimes she will come home sad or aggravated, sometimes she will come home happy and flush with cash. There is no way of knowing, when she walks in the front door of the club to start her shift how she will leave.

    Also, have an exit plan. If you want a stable family life dancing is a band aid for some quick cash, sit down and talk about how much money she needs to have in savings to walk away. I am not saying dancers can not have successful relationships, I am saying if you want a successful relationship with a dancer you need a 2, 3 , 5 year plan.
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    Thank you for the incite. I understand I know a lot of it will be mental. I want to let her make her choices, let her understand the pros and cons and decide what to her is the solution. Otherwise it would be me telling her what to do. I know she has been trying to work a 9-5 and the pay sucks, that treat her like crap and she is away from family so much it bothers her and us. Even I think hell at least you would work the hours you want and have more time off if you want. This is more about me and what I can do to help and not be the issue.

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    Default Re: Relationship / Marry a Dancer

    There's a lot of info about this in Customer Conversation, just saying.


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    Default Re: Relationship / Marry a Dancer

    Best thing to do is ask her.

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