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    Mind Blowing WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    I've been dancing for 2 months now but never got VIPs, I just switched to a more upscale club and now im getting them like every night I work. One problem tho... I have no idea what I'm doing in there!!! I usually just get naked and roll around on the couch with the custy, have some conversation going and whatever. But that doesnt seem to be enough since there always comes a point of total wtf where he either wants to take things further by trying to kiss me or touch at my nipples/breasts/kitty and I am nOOOTTT having that shit. I dont know how to react when this happens and I just play the "shy innocent girl" persona to try to get out of it. So Im wondering what the heck you guys do in there that will help the time run by quickly and avoid the whole "let me cross the line by trying to actually get intimate with you" part i've been experiencing.

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    Always tell them the rules up front. Tell them you'll get fired if they kiss or touch you, and that mgmt is cracking down on the rules lately. Always blame mgmt.


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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    Do things as slowly as possible, including removing your clothing. Do all your moves fully clothed, then take off one item and do all your moves again. Repeat until naked. Before your time is up, pull out all your best moves for the end to give the idea that if he buys another dance it'll be 'naughtier'

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    Quote Originally Posted by babb View Post
    Always tell them the rules up front. Tell them you'll get fired if they kiss or touch you, and that mgmt is cracking down on the rules lately. Always blame mgmt.
    OMG this!!!!! ^ I used to sell it easier by lying & saying how I'm on their shit list for being such a dirty girl & how they've caught me a few times and I can't lose my job so I gotta behave now. Worked like a charm.
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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    If your club allows touching, then you have to set and enforce your own rules. I tell people up front at the beginning of each dance "You can't touch my pussy or asshole and if you decide to touch elsewhere you need to tip" If they try and touch the places I told them not to I remove their hands and remind them that they can't touch there and usually I'll say something like "Ohhh you're a naughty boy, don't break the rules or you'll get us both in trouble!" then if they keep trying I just sit on their lap gyrating while I hold their hands above their head. If they can't follow your rules then they don't deserve your best moves.

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    I love your tips!! I once had a very aggressive customer who would keep touching me in places I would tell him not too, he was a complete asshole and said shit like "the other girls let me do it" barf. I gave him two dances and then when they were over he threw a fit because I didnt let him violate me! I had to get the bouncer on him because he was refusing to pay! I try to enforce my rules but then I get shit customers like that and IDK how to put them in their place.

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    Quote Originally Posted by bootybrie View Post
    I try to enforce my rules but then I get shit customers like that and IDK how to put them in their place.
    Get the money up front for the first dance at the very least. That way you can walk away if anything goes on that makes you uncomfortable and there won't be any drama over money. Just say "it's $XX" before we start " and then tell him the rules after he pays you. Guys who are cheap/ broke/ potential rapists with wandering hands do not like this and will not buy another dance from you, but guys who are good customers will not mind at all and will likely do repeat dances/ rooms. If a guy gives you shit about paying before ("girls who make me pay up front usually rip me off", etc), that's a huge red flag that they do not respect you and are the most likely type that will get in an argument about paying you ("she didn't let me grab her entire pussy for $20, so I'm not paying"), so make sure you are firm with your rules and getting the money.

    Men who respect strippers do NOT get upset about having to pay up front, they just don't. They never have and they never will and any customer who says differently is hustling you.

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    I used to scare the fuck out of them. Slide down their body.

    Then aggressively bite a bunch of material in the crotch area & pull back hard. Never accidentally bite their dick, but scared them when I did it.

    After that they kept their hands to themselves, afraid I'd bite their dick off.

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    I always try to feel the guy out on the floor before doing vip. If I sense he's gonna be trouble and I have no other options to go to, I'll bring another chic with me.

    Flip the script on him, and be the aggressive one. Don't be afraid to be boss and take charge. Try to get that tip first.

    I try to avoid dudes like this and rather not deal with them, especially alone. Fuck that. My mental/spiritual health come first.

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    I used to HATE doing VIP because custies would get so touchy. But I finally found a solution- I always start by sitting with them and engaging them in conversation- that eats up some time. Then I FIRMLY explain my rules (and of course use the "management is cracking down " line) . Then I dance fult clothed, remove items ever so slowly, and crank up the sensuality towards the end.
    If custies persist in trying to touch, I will literally get as far away from them as I can while still being in the room, and continue to dance while out of their reach. I'm also a fan of taking their hands and pinning them down, and saying "naughy boy, now I'll have to punish you!"
    Gets em every time.

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    I just move their hands & ask them to please only keep their hands in places I have put them. If I've put your hands on my thighs, you can keep them there. If I've put them on my hips, feel free to move me around a little. But if I haven't put your hands anywhere, leave them by your sides

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    Quote Originally Posted by babb View Post
    Men who respect strippers do NOT get upset about having to pay up front, they just don't. They never have and they never will and any customer who says differently is hustling you.
    I feel this needs to go in a sticky somewhere.

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    Default Re: WTF do I do when this happens in the VIP???

    I agree to always blame it on management. Once we are already in the back, I get my money upfront then tell them my rules. If they break them, I use a 3-strike then you're out rule (unless it's REALLY bad and I just leave immediately). First offense: "Baby, what was rule #1? Don't get me in trouble!" Second offense: "Am I gonna have to make you sit on your hands?" (some guys love that one), Third offense: "I'm having so much fun with you, don't make them take me away!"...After that...I'm not as patient. I already got your money and gave you three chances so it's pretty much "Look, I told you the rules, have a good night"

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