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    Hello! I've recently decided to get back into escorting full time and because backpage no longer has an escorting section (where I used to get ALL of my clients), I've decided to start posting in the massage section. My ads aren't regular escort ads, they're massage/'energy work' ads (I don't use the word 'massage' in my ad and I have a disclaimer that says my services are not for medical use) so that I can't get busted for working without a massage license (in my state, the law specifically states that 'energy work' does not require a certification or license). Additionally, the pic I use in my ad is just of the massage table and a casual, non-sexual shot of my torso in a nice long sleeve shirt (my lips and chin are the only part of my face in the photo).

    My screening process is as follows: (for incall)
    1) On my kitchen table I'll have my driver's license and or high school ID with a transparency sheet over both with expo marker blocking my name/address/phone/ etc. The only thing they can see is the year that I was born. As soon as the client comes in, I say hello and everything then I tell them to empty out all of the pockets so I can ensure they don't have weapons or aren't a "particular kind of person," and then I show them my IDs with the blocked info and ask that they do the same with all the IDs in their wallet (I watch) with a transparency sheet and expo marker that I give them. At this point, I'll know if they're a cop or not because if they were a cop, they'd have an ID or badge hidden somewhere. (I did some research, and apparently in some states cops are allowed to work without their badge...soo...! I'm kind of scared, and I didn't know where to find what the rule on that was in my state, so I'm hoping it's not true where I live!)

    2) After I see that they're a normal person with normal IDs, I present them with a 'menu' on a whiteboard of the things I offer They're things like normal massage, massage with bj, sex only, anal, and 'combo deals'. I also have a referral program where if they refer a friend my way, I'll give them 50% off.

    What do you think of this? It's been working okay and sounds pretty solid, but I'm afraid there's something I might be forgetting...?

    Thank you!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jesslyndawe View Post
    Hello! I've recently decided to get back into escorting full time and because backpage no longer has an escorting section (where I used to get ALL of my clients), I've decided to start posting in the massage section. My ads aren't regular escort ads, they're massage/'energy work' ads (I don't use the word 'massage' in my ad and I have a disclaimer that says my services are not for medical use) so that I can't get busted for working without a massage license (in my state, the law specifically states that 'energy work' does not require a certification or license). Additionally, the pic I use in my ad is just of the massage table and a casual, non-sexual shot of my torso in a nice long sleeve shirt (my lips and chin are the only part of my face in the photo).

    My screening process is as follows: (for incall)
    1) On my kitchen table I'll have my driver's license and or high school ID with a transparency sheet over both with expo marker blocking my name/address/phone/ etc. The only thing they can see is the year that I was born. As soon as the client comes in, I say hello and everything then I tell them to empty out all of the pockets so I can ensure they don't have weapons or aren't a "particular kind of person," and then I show them my IDs with the blocked info and ask that they do the same with all the IDs in their wallet (I watch) with a transparency sheet and expo marker that I give them. At this point, I'll know if they're a cop or not because if they were a cop, they'd have an ID or badge hidden somewhere. (I did some research, and apparently in some states cops are allowed to work without their badge...soo...! I'm kind of scared, and I didn't know where to find what the rule on that was in my state, so I'm hoping it's not true where I live!)

    2) After I see that they're a normal person with normal IDs, I present them with a 'menu' on a whiteboard of the things I offer They're things like normal massage, massage with bj, sex only, anal, and 'combo deals'. I also have a referral program where if they refer a friend my way, I'll give them 50% off.

    What do you think of this? It's been working okay and sounds pretty solid, but I'm afraid there's something I might be forgetting...?

    Thank you!!
    Good luck getting clients to empty their pockets. I would never do this for any provider.

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    Quick question? If you're an escort why not post on w4m section like the other escorts?

    And I wouldn't provide that as screening method, have you really thought things through? You don't know who's going to show up: Serial killer, rapist, aggressive client,etc. But after they already have your location & arrive, you'll just ask them to pull out their Id's? That's not screening......

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    Default Re: Creative New Way of Screening?

    That sounds dangerous and just because someone shows you a driver's license isn't going to guarantee that they are not a cop, rapist, or other scary individual.

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    I don't understand your method of screening. The person is already in your incall location. What's going to stop him from raping/killing/stealing from you once he already has you in a private place? Seeing his covered ID will not change a thing.

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    ^^^ What they said.
    If it's a cop, you're busted when they show up. Having your 'menu' on a whiteboard makes the cop's job easier.
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    Yup, I agree with everyone else. Not smart at all. There are waaay better screening methods that you can find on this forum BEFORE they even get your address. Be safe.
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    Default Re: Creative New Way of Screening?

    can i ask what you did for screening before they took down the escort section?

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    Most of this seems wholly unnecessary. I've been assisting ladies and screening for years, and my number one rule is do all their screening before they come in the door. You might find guys are going to be spooked by this method, and never show you high school ID to anyone in this line of work, at minimum he'll run, at worst he'll try to stalk you or use it to track you down. And you're right that they don't have to have their badge on them, or they might have a buddy outside with the stuff, theres so many ways this can go wrong. Also you're assuming law enforcement officers actually follow the law.

    Screen you clients using real world information, and you won't have many issues. Also backpage has a escorting section, its in w4m. Hope this helps!

    Hope that helps!

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