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Did you tell her that you are not looking for anything serious?
Did she tell you whether or not that she wanted something serious?
You will never know until you call & actually take her on a "REAL DATE" you know dinner at a nice place & talk.
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What are you risking?
Risk assessment if for stock portfolios, not a dinner date with a hot chick. What is the worse thing to happen? you call up & it's the wrong number? She doesn't want to go to dinner? you end up married & 5 kids.......... it's just dinner not a family picnic where you ask to marry her in front of everyone.





Who wants to go out on a date with a man who still lives with his parents. She is accessing if you are an adult who is responsible enough to get his own place & pay his own bills. Surprisingly enough there are men out there in their 40s who can't.
What, you think that means she is moving in? It is a normal question two people who might go out would be asking. Or is it the normal dating routine that has you thrown off?
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Legal problems for a dinner date? Two adults eating a meal & the guy paying for it at the end.
Stripping is a legal job.
Dates are legal.
If she wanted sex for money, then by now that would have come up. You are making the assumption that she is a prostitute & she may not be one. Maybe you shouldn't call her up since you are assuming all the worst things about her.
Now if she starts asking for the window measurements so that she can purchase the correct size curtains, you might want to worry then.





You visited a joint where you assume all the dancers are prostitutes & they all have pimps. OH my, how daring of you to go in there in the first place. How did you make it out without being robbed or in police cuffs?
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You joined this site in 2011, which is more than long enough to read countless threads by strippers wondering if he is really into me? Is this a real date? Will he only want sex from me?
I missed all the threads of how it is all a set up by a pimp to beat the guy up & steal his money. Or how to set him up in a sex ring police sting.
Call me a pessimist/skeptic then![]()





Lighten up. It is just a phone call & maybe a dinner date.
You can imagine all the worst case scenarios you want & never make that call. You can live with the regret of never trying too. And dreams of her will haunt you for a long time everytime you get a hard on.





You are a boy. She is a girl. Nothing all that scary to happen at this point. Now if 10 months later you are in a hospital room & she is pushing out a baby, pondering such deep thoughts is perfectly normal.
Condoms are a good thing.





Never did I ever think I'd read a thread where the guy is anything but thrilled a stripper gave him her number.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."





This whole thing is a GOOF, but thanks for the lol, Sam, you F'n kill me![]()
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt



I was actually going the other way on this one. Never did I think I'd read a thread where a guy thought a stripper might be willing to see him for some p4p and is being told that the girl might actually be into him lol
All due respect to Sam and her experience but dude, you just met this girl, she went straight to high mileage dances and she was perfectly fine with the idea of seeing you otc from the jump. It's a good bet she wants $$$ whether it is to hang out or hook up...she just hasn't hit you with it yet. If you would have phrased your op differently I'm sure the answers you got would have been the same as all the other "does she like me?" threads this board gets.
That said, as far as risk assessment goes there is no harm in a text or phone call to follow up. Just be ready for the "can you help me out" lines to start. Assuming she is pimped is a stretch as most of the girls that do otc aren't but you do need to think about risks. She asked if you have your own place. To me that's more of her finding out if you have somehehre to "do the deed" than sizing you up as relationship material. So you need to decide if you want this person you just met knowing where you live and in your home. You would be "at risk" having anyone you just met in your home so being a stripper or escort is irrelevant.
Risky? Depends.
What do you have to lose?
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”










LOL Exactly what I was doing.
He has watched "The Bachelor Party" or "The Hangover" way to many times. Only if it is me or one of my friends is all that craziness possible. LOL
If she wants to work him for money, he can just say 'no'. She could be playing games, He could be playing games. At the end of the day, this guy is chicken.
High Milage.... "Ten men waiting for me at the door? Send one of them home, I'm tired." OR "I've been in more laps than a napkin." Mae West
“He who hesitates is a damned fool.”
― Mae West
“What's the good of resisting temptation? There'll always be more.”
― Mae West
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How many strippers have pimps? Did you see any pimps in the club that night?
Pimps beating up paying customers is bad for business & will get the club raided.
More than likely, by now, she has assumed that you have no interest in her. Been way past the 3 day rule of if he calls or text me back then he does like me. If you liked her enough, then with in 3 days you would have called her or been back in.
You don't so move on. The window of opportunity is already gone.
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