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    Default Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    I was doing a trip to Budapest recently and spend a bit of time hanging out with one of the dancers in a strip club there. She gave me a phone number the first time I met her and after my second visit she messaged me and said "Maybe we can have sex". I said "No, I'm married". I visited her at the club one more time and then while I was at the airport getting ready to fly back home she messaged me again and said "Can I visit you?" I said "I don't think that's a good idea".

    This definitely seems very weird to me and I wonder what her agenda was, was she basically hoping she could get me to pay her for sex? Of course it's always possible she just genuinely finds me sexually desirable, but that seems like a bit of a stretch.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    I think she is hustling you for some more money.

    Weeks ago I was at a club and got some dances with a freelancer who works at other clubs in my area. As I was getting ready to leave, she told me where she was working the following night and asked me if I wanted to stop by and see her. I knew it was an attempt to get me to spend more money on her, and it didn't work because I have a set budget that I won't allow myself to go over.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    Fair enough then. Basically the idea would be that if I think she actually likes me then I'll probably end up spending more money on her at the club?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gizmo64 View Post
    Basically the idea would be that if I think she actually likes me then I'll probably end up spending more money on her at the club?
    This quote should pop up whenever a new blue signs up for this site. It would save so much time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbleHead View Post
    This quote should pop up whenever a new blue signs up for this site. It would save so much time.
    This is funny *and* true
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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    I think you answered your own question here. She's probably one of those strippers who also escorts and was hoping to make more $ off of you that way.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    There are some strippers that use the club to find clients that they can take outside and make more money off of. Seems like that is her game.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    Makes sense, seems to be the most logical explanation.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    Two things confuse me though one is that he clearly told her sex was not an issue or an option for him because he was married and two is he leaving the country does she really believe a guy that denied her when it was easy is going to fly her Halfway Around the World

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    I know no one claims of people were logical, and there probably is no better explanation, I would suspect though that she was trying to escape the situation more strongly than she was trying to get with him. It's like back in the 80s I was traveling with my family in China and Hong Kong and the tour guide in Hong Kong pretty much said to the entire bus if any westerners would marry me before China takes over I'll absolutely say yes

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinups4 View Post
    Two things confuse me though one is that he clearly told her sex was not an issue or an option for him because he was married and two is he leaving the country does she really believe a guy that denied her when it was easy is going to fly her Halfway Around the World
    Yes, that is a pretty good point really. I was flying to the Netherlands which was not too far. I visited her at the club about three times and she was obviously trying to tempt me to take her up on her offer of sex. She might have had some kind of totally crazy idea that I was just a little bit tempted.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    Whoa, IDK how "have sex with me" turned into trying to get a visa via marriage.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPopcorn View Post
    Whoa, IDK how "have sex with me" turned into trying to get a visa via marriage.
    I agree, I don't really think that's the angle, especially given that she already knows perfectly well I'm already married. I don't think my British passport is all that much good to her anyway, is it, she's already an EU citizen, she can move around freely within the Eurozone.

    No, what she said to me was that she wanted to suck my dick. But I do think it's at least possible that what she really wanted was my money.

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    Default Re: Dancer offers OTC very early, wondering what game she was playing

    Personally, I believe that she was trying to get you to agree to either becoming one of her escort clients or entering into a long term OTC relationship...this way she could keep milking your wallet every time you are in the area. I bet that she will keep doing this each and every time that she sees you too. She really wants that money.

    Quote Originally Posted by Gizmo64 View Post
    I agree, I don't really think that's the angle, especially given that she already knows perfectly well I'm already married. I don't think my British passport is all that much good to her anyway, is it, she's already an EU citizen, she can move around freely within the Eurozone.

    No, what she said to me was that she wanted to suck my dick. But I do think it's at least possible that what she really wanted was my money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Personally, I believe that she was trying to get you to agree to either becoming one of her escort clients or entering into a long term OTC relationship...this way she could keep milking your wallet every time you are in the area. I bet that she will keep doing this each and every time that she sees you too. She really wants that money.
    Well, a trip to Budapest before the end of the year is unlikely, but you're thinking if I end up in Budapest again maybe stay out of that club... ?

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    No, just do not spend as much time with her as you did before. She will get the message. Personally, I believe that she was so used to doing that hustle that she just does that to everyone.

    Quote Originally Posted by Gizmo64 View Post
    Well, a trip to Budapest before the end of the year is unlikely, but you're thinking if I end up in Budapest again maybe stay out of that club... ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gizmo64 View Post
    Well, a trip to Budapest before the end of the year is unlikely, but you're thinking if I end up in Budapest again maybe stay out of that club... ?
    If you enjoy the club go back. What is she going to do? Suck your dick right in the middle of the club? You're a grown man; if she tries to physically overwhelm you and take you against your will in the middle of the strip club because you are simply that irresistible to her then assuredly you could push her off or call security.

    I don't think she will even remember who you are, frankly. Even if you're Brad Pitt, she sees dozens of Brad Pitts a day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPopcorn View Post
    If you enjoy the club go back. What is she going to do? Suck your dick right in the middle of the club? You're a grown man; if she tries to physically overwhelm you and take you against your will in the middle of the strip club because you are simply that irresistible to her then assuredly you could push her off or call security.

    I don't think she will even remember who you are, frankly. Even if you're Brad Pitt, she sees dozens of Brad Pitts a day.
    With regard to the whole Brad Pitt thing, I remember when I was volunteering for Oxfam my gay male supervisor had heaps of Brad Pitt pictures stuck all over his office wall, so yeah, he's definitely into Brad Pitt. And I just recently asked my wife after reading your post "Is Brad Pitt good-looking?", and said "Yes, very", and then I said "Is he still good-looking now?", and she said "Yes, even more so than before". I guess I'd have to say this is something I've just never really got. Like, maybe you could help me out here, if Brad Pitt is definitely a 10, what score does George Clooney get? I mean, you can't really argue with an opinion that is almost universally held by the female population, I know, and you might also say that if I'm even spending time thinking about this question I might be struggling with some kind of issue with latent bisexuality. Shame for him about what happened with Angelina, anyway.

    It would certainly be widely agreed that I'm not Brad Pitt. One female stranger on Facebook made the unsolicited remark that I was beautiful withiin the last five years and one close female friend has been known to compliment me on my looks a few times, that's certainly enough positive feedback to make me happy. With my wife I don't really think my looks are what does it for her. She said that on our first date she was intrigued by my personality and thought of me as a puzzle she wanted to solve. She might have the idea that some of my personality characteristics are quite admirable.

    The dancer is still communicating with me electronically so she does remember who I am. As you say, a scenario where she actually succeeded in sexually violating me by force is unlikely. I just had the thought that if DonaDiabla thinks she is likely to keep pushing for OTC then maybe it's best just not to encourage it. Since I am unlikely to be in Budapest in the near future it doesn't really matter anyway.

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