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    Hey girliesI'm kinda new to the dancing thing and wanted to ask you for advice.Okay so what do you do when you have so called "potential custumer" they pay s of of money for your dances but the actually want a relationship.I understand that I have to be that fancy for those lonely man but how can I be in a relationship with them and keep them without giving my number I just don't want to be annoyed with horny guys when I get home from work.how can I play it off tease them and make them want to still come to me? Also one guy told me that if I don't call him he won't come to me and he is a rich old man so what should I do how can I tease him and make him come to me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anya19891962 View Post
    Hey girliesI'm kinda new to the dancing thing and wanted to ask you for advice.Okay so what do you do when you have so called "potential custumer" they pay s of of money for your dances but the actually want a relationship.I understand that I have to be that fancy for those lonely man but how can I be in a relationship with them and keep them without giving my number I just don't want to be annoyed with horny guys when I get home from work.how can I play it off tease them and make them want to still come to me? Also one guy told me that if I don't call him he won't come to me and he is a rich old man so what should I do how can I tease him and make him come to me?

    customers like that arent worth the hassle in my opinion

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    That shouldn't be the norm. I'm guessing they sense that you are new, and they're trying to take advantage. Some girls lead guys on, but I always preferred to shut them down immediately. Say you have a boyfriend, you don't give out your number, you could never date someone from the club. If they are still good customers after that, great. If not, move on... some guys will always try to play this game.

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    Damn those nosy costumes always asking for my digits!

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    $20 per digit

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    I make them tip me for my #. Also, I have a google voice # that I give out to customers; it's free with a google account and they have an app. That way they don't have my personal #, I can change it at any time, and I can block people. This number also comes in handy for random guys hitting on me in a bar or somewhere else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Legz541 View Post
    $20 per digit
    Yes and even then use an app like textfree, google voice or sideline to give away a fake number not your real one so you can delete that number anytime

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    Uh mostly I'd say it's a waste and not to bother. If you don't want to do it, you can make up an excuse "I don't have much time for a social life. Even my friends outside the club can barely reach me. THIS is the best place to find me." In my case this is actually true so it could be an easy way out. If he's still pushy, walk away. Don't let anyone dangle the carrot like that. It's disrespectful.
    Another version of that is where you have a dedicated work phone and say the line about being too busy tired etc and then follow up with "but you can have my number so you'll know when I'm here" I only recommend that if he has already spent money on you. Stick to when you're going to be at the club maybe what you have on if you switch up your look a lot, things like that. If he wants to talk about other things you've already established that you're busy/tired so you can keep going with that. "I'm out doing x right now but I hope to see you tonight, John!"

    Now I don't know how well this would convert in the club as nowadays I'm mostly camming and never tried itc, but if they want dirty talk or even regular conversation and you're comfortable maybe look into a PSO line and direct him to that? I believe there are paid text services too if he's looking for a text buddy or is into sexting. Most of these guys are lonely, horny, and most are both and want a hot girl for either or both purposes. I'm just not giving away any sensuality sexuality companionship to a man for free. Oh well.

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    I guess Im in a different school of thought here, many business place things like adversitesments on billboards or flash screens on apps or commercials on TV etc., it literally takes nothing and no effort for me to give as many customers that like me access to my "Sideline" app fake number, I have categories for each type of customers and what kind of mass texts to send to each and I treat it like a company would create an email blast...very wonderful marketing tool, 60% I include pictures, men are visual remember.
    Being available to ur clients creates repeat business , repeat business is good for me and my type of hustle. I'm not a dance and run kinda chick anymore (used to be) I'm more of a 3 hours in the champagne room becoming best ducking friends type of chick lol....

    Anway I give every custy my number (not my actually number, the sideline) if I feel they are texting too much or not paying enough $$$$ I block them for a period of time kinda like a internet company will shut off your service if you don't pay your bill lol.....

    Try to think of this more as a business and less personal ....


    Sephora gives free samples of their most expensive products, why? To entice you to buy and prove its worth the money
    Doesn't mean you value your product any less or you're giving freebies!!! Just a way to promote and hustle while you're not even at work




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    My trap line bumpin lol




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    My personal solution is to give out my snapchat information. I used to cam so my snapchat handle is my old cam name (similar to my dancer name) and not my real one. Snapchat is less personal but I can still contact customers directly, snap them a photo, ask how they're doing and keep in touch without them having the same kind of access to me having my actual phone number would give them.

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