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    Do you let your customer cum in their pants after a number of dances? When?
    I'm curious about those guys that don't go for VIP but keep buying you dances one after another. They may say they want to take a break but then you seduce them right into buying another and they cannot help it. Do you let these guys finish? I generally try to keep them on the edge but don't let them go over, so they have to keep paying. But when I have danced for a guy for an hour and I know he is almost broke, I usually just keep going and finish him off. How do you deal with it?

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    Where do you work?
    Why do you care?
    You are paid to dance.

    Do you work at a strip club or a brothel? Do you know the difference?

    Is what you are asking legal where you work?

    I danced at titty bars for 12 years, never once did I ask myself or anyone else that question. It never occurred to me to give a fuck. I was there to entertain not to make them cum.

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    I work at a reputable clean strip club in Germany. Everything is legal here, but that is not the question. I don't do any "extras" just for the record. The point is: even from just clean lap dancing, a guy will come in his pants if you know your moves. It's not your fault if they do - even in the strictest of jurisdictions you can always say you didn't know and didn't do anything you were not supposed to.

    Why I ask this question is of course because I want to maximize profit. How do you use that power that you have, to get the maximum cash out of it, also with regards to repeat customers?

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    I left them always wanting more. I didn't do hard rubbing or grinding.

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    Uh he shouldn't be finishing.... YOU need to tone your dances down or else go be an escort. Our job is to tease and dance, not actually get them off, legal or not.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

    "You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucelia View Post
    I work at a reputable clean strip club in Germany. Everything is legal here, but that is not the question. I don't do any "extras" just for the record. The point is: even from just clean lap dancing, a guy will come in his pants if you know your moves. It's not your fault if they do - even in the strictest of jurisdictions you can always say you didn't know and didn't do anything you were not supposed to.

    Why I ask this question is of course because I want to maximize profit. How do you use that power that you have, to get the maximum cash out of it, also with regards to repeat customers?

    In my 7 years of dancing, I can say I've never had a man cum in his pants. The fuck? 'A guy WILL cum?' Yeah, if you make him. I'm so sick of nonsensical dancers.

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    why would you want him to cum?? if he cums then he'll stop spending money and leave.. you want him to get a boner, sure, but definitely not "finish"

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    You guys seriously have never had a guy cum while doing a dance..? It's not like any girl wants it to happen! But if you actually know how to give good lap dances it happens sometimes and yes it's gross and a turn off and they don't even tell you it's happening . I guess what it really means is you're TOO good at dancing so I would tone it down a little and keep teasing them so they spend more money. That's what i've learned from those situations is when 'it' happens they're pretty much done spending money for the rest of the night. It's in your best interest for it not to happen but trust me girl you aren't alone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alyssanna View Post
    You guys seriously have never had a guy cum while doing a dance..? It's not like any girl wants it to happen! But if you actually know how to give good lap dances it happens sometimes
    OP certainly sounds like she wants it to happen, or at least doesn't mind.

    And stop tying "good dances" to "guys blowing a load". It's disgusting. You know how I know I give good dances? The guy moves from the floor to the VIP room & spends $$$ on me, that's how. Sheesh.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    OP certainly sounds like she wants it to happen, or at least doesn't mind.

    And stop tying "good dances" to "guys blowing a load". It's disgusting. You know how I know I give good dances? The guy moves from the floor to the VIP room & spends $$$ on me, that's how. Sheesh.
    right.. i've had guys cum during dances of course. but first of all it's gross, my entire ass is exposed and it can seep through their clothes, so unsanitary. but also like i said.. every time i've had a guy cum in his pants he immediately stops spending money and leaves. why would you want that? you're not going to get 10+ dances or keep guys in VIP for long periods of time by making them cum. it doesn't take that long to get your rocks off esp if you're so sex starved that a lap dance makes you jizz your pants.

    you're just gonna make like maaaybe $60 and possibly get random dude's gooey nastiness all over your bare ass.. why would you do that smh

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    Ugh! Gross! No no no no no no!!! WTF????

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    Sounds like you should probably change professions if making a guy cum in his pants is part of why you're getting paid.
    I don't dance that way at all; I don't heavily grind or almost ever grind period.That isn't a dance, it's girls being lazy af and not understanding men are VISUAL, you seriously don't even need to TOUCH a man to get him aroused; he can just watch and feel just as satisfied.

    I'm sure it's something that can occasionally or accidentally happen but you shouldn't be doing things that you actively know are going to facilitate that process.

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    It isn't sanitary. Men all walking out of a club with a wet spot would have gotten my attention & in 12 years of working in titty bars didn't see it.

    If you worked in a brothel & the guy didn't cum in the time that he paid for you wouldn't keep going till he did. Time's up buddy, get out or pay the girl more money.

    If men want sexual satisfaction or orgasm they would go to a brothel rather than a strip club. Brothels are legal in Germany are they not? Go work there if such events cause you so much concern.
    Strippers belong in strip clubs. I'm a cam girl, I cam. I'm a porn star, I make movies. When on cam, I don't tell men they can star in movies with me. I don't do fan shoots, because then every cam customer would skip paying for camshows & just want to hook up with me supposedly to shoot porn.

    There is a time & proper place for all of us to do our chosen trades in this industry. You are making it harder for other ladies who work there just to be a stripper. Which isn't fair to them at all.

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