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    One of my regulars has asked me to go on a cinema date with him. How much should I charge him? What would he be expecting when we are in the cinema (eg arm around me, hand on leg, hands in other places)? What would be some moves that I could use to keep him entertained.

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    I don't think it's a good idea to go to a cinema on a first date. It's too dark, too intimate, and ......

    But hey if you know the dude and have a high level of trust for him then do what you feel is right for you.

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    I don't know about charging him. He may assume that he asked you out for a regular date because he likes you.

    Now, I disagree with Miss.a/p1600 here. It's a room full of people. You don't have to carry on a conversation. You can meet him there & then leave afterwards. If he gets handsy, it is easy to handle & you can leave.

    An arm around you seems sweet, holding hands, a hand on your knee is date acceptable behavior. Unless you are really not attracted to him & don't want him touching you at all.

    Any & all movies would entertain him, it is why people go to the movies.

    Getting a sense you don't like this dude at all. Maybe best to turn him down.

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    I wouldn't feel comfortable, but If I did I would charge him how much I do in the club or enough to make it worth my while.
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    It is always good to be on guard, but not all men are monsters. Plenty of them are, but not all. Nor should everyone of them charged for every single thing if you kind of like them.

    Perfectly okay to have fun like a movie or a dinner or both with a man. Doesn't have to end up in sex, they might hope. In the end, that part is up to you.

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    Don't go anywhere ever for less than 300-500$. OTC is a crazy privilege even if all he gets is to hold your hand.

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    Just to clarify this is business

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post

    Any & all movies would entertain him, it is why people go to the movies.
    She said moves to entertain him. I am not sure I understand what you are asking here OP. Moves? Are you trying to give him a lap dance in the theater?
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    I meant romantic touchy feely things that would make him feel like I'm his gf

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    I do not feel like I have an accurate understanding of what is going on here but I am going to try to give you advice. If he is really a customer and you are trying to give him a GFE date (without sex, I presume?)

    Then, the theater is a bit tough because you can't really converse. Most men, IMHO (and my man manipulating skills go back to like 3 or 4 years old) like to have their egos stroked, so when you are talking to them, let them talk about themselves more than you talk about yourself; and act like whatever they are telling you about their jobs or hobbies or past times is #1, interesting to you #2. makes them seem smart or sexy or strong or manly.

    Act like he is funny and laugh when he makes jokes. Brush or touch his arms (especially the bicep area). Let him open the door. Act like you are cold and let him offer you his sweater or jacket. Let him make decisions about what movie you see and if they serve alcohol at the theater let him order your cocktail. You know all that old school, chivalrous bullshit that makes the real me and feminist me want to vomit.

    He's paying you to play a role so... play it the best you can.
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    I go to movies with men, all I did was watch the movie. Nor have I ever been molested in the theater either. Amazingly enough boring as I am those men still spend money on me & take me to the movies.

    Sitting & being quiet together while watching a great movie then having a subject to talk about afterwards about the details of the movie tells you a lot about the person in an indirect way.

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    Yes, GFE date without sex is what I meant

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I don't think it's a good idea to go to a cinema on a first date. It's too dark, too intimate, and ......

    But hey if you know the dude and have a high level of trust for him then do what you feel is right for you.
    I'd be wary of a movie date. It's dark and your alone with a stranger...

    I know I know there are other people but still.

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