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    Default Undercover cop or just a pushy customer?

    Hi ladies! It's been a minute since I've posted on here (I dance so sporadically at this point, I feel like I'm losing my touch). Maybe I'm just being paranoid since I'm a bit rusty, but I had a situation happen tonight and I can't figure out if it was an undercover cop or just a pushy customer. See situation below, I'll make it as short as I can;

    1. I come into my PM shift, do hair & makeup, get dressed, order myself a red bull and sit alone at the bar.
    2. 10 min later guy comes up to me, says his neck hurts and what am I gonna do about it/if I can help him. I tell him that'll cost him. He gives me a $20 - I tell him that's now the rate per song. Massage neck for 3min and done.
    3. Offers me a drink, buys me my drink, gives me another $20 (for being there, no massage).
    4. Guy starts convo about how beautiful I am, blah blah same capt save a hoe bs, tells me I'd make a great mistress, gives me another $20 and buys me another drink.
    5. Guy really starts getting pushy about mistress "offer" - tells me he'll pay me $5000 month to fuck him. I initially laugh around the conversation and say stuff like I don't know him, if he wants to get to know me he can always see me at work, etc. Never once do I agree to anything to verbalize an act.
    6. Guy gets more pushy on subject, i.e. Graphic (I've now made $60 in the span of 10min, barely any guys were in the club...only reason I was even tolerating this asshole). I change the subject to dances. Buys 1, barely touches me. Keeps asking if I'll suck/fuck (his words) and be his mistress, asking to describe "what I'd do to him", etc. I don't agree to his offer nor do I say no..I kept avoiding the question. I also didn't describe performing any act to myself or him. I thought maybe describing an orgasm would shut him up..it didn't. That was my dumb fault, and I know that now.
    7. Guy gets annoyed I won't get graphic back in regards to sex acts, say yes to his offer, or give him my number. Guy leaves the club.

    Im slightly paranoid because while I didn't agree to anything, I didn't outright say no either (granted I kept changing the subject and he kept bringing it up again) and IDK if that's something I can get in legal trouble for?... I also felt like he could've been a cop, but there were also pushy customer signs too so IDK what to think. Please help!

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    Default Re: Undercover cop or just a pushy customer?

    Sex for money whether he is a cop or not isn't a risk I'd take.

    Either way he wanted you to describe the kind of sex he expected for his money. How annoying. Never once during a table dance in 12 years of working in clubs did anyone ask me to describe how I would fuck them or them to me.

    I'd tell him straight up sex for money is illegal unless you go to a licensed brothel which neither one of you are currently are in. A man who can afford $5000 a month would spend a lot more than a hundred or so on drinks & dances. Trying to close the deal in such a short time is just creepy. He was hoping for your number & such so he could pester you non-stop if he wasn't a cop.

    Anyone that pushy is scary either way. He easily could tell you were not comfortable & kept pushing.

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    I really really don't think he was a cop, just some asshole trying to get his jollies off and be a pig.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    I think he was more likely just a bullshitter creepy customer. No man who can afford a $5k/month mistress is going to be in a club tipping that low. I guess there is a chance that he could've been a cop. Cops seem to want to get you to agree to money for sex, will throw a number out there, and try to get you to agree to it. I once had a guy who kept asking," So, all you do is dance? You don't do extra's?" I told him nope, all I do is dance. He asked me,"What if I offer you$300 for sex? What about $600?" I told him to fuck off with that kind of talk. He was a cop and ended up coming back a different day and busting somebody else. Either way, when a man is being pushy it's disrespectful, not cool, and is not the kind of customer you want to keep around you.

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    They are supposed to get you to say money for sex. Repeatedly asking you means it was a cop trying to bust you for prostitution. Calling it a mistress is way better term than hooker & a way to get you to let your guard down.

    Men who want a mistress spend more than 20 minutes with a woman before deciding if she is what he wants for that kind of situation.

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