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    Ok so I'm a baby stripper and have only worked like 3 shifts. First at some shitty dive then at a place a little more upscale. It's a mixed club but predominantly white. I'm black.
    Well I just came into work today and as soon as I got in, the manager came and told me that "my services are no longer needed". Wtf. I don't understand what I did wrong and he wouldn't give me an answer.
    They seem really strict at this club so maybe it's because I broke too many rules? We can only give air dances, no touching. The floorman came to me like twice to correct me over the span I've been working here. (2 days lol) once when I was sitting on a guys lap and once when I let a guy touch my ass while I was dancing.
    They also won't let you drive your own car home if you blow over .05 on the breathalyzer they give you at the end of the night. And I got kinda drunk on my first night and didn't know what the rules were and had to call my friend to pick me up. But it was my 21st birthday that night and everyone knew so I don't think it should have been a big deal that I was drinking... I drank the next night too lol. But I blew under a .08 and they still said I had to find a ride. i don't get belligerently drunk either or sloppy so I'm not sure what the big deal is.
    Maybe it's because I was short on my tip outs on my second day? I made over 500 on my first night but the second night I went home in the negatives. And ended up being like 6$ short on my tip outs. But the house mom said it was fine and that I could pay it next time. It was dead AF in there and all the girls were commenting about it. Do you think these are the reasons I got fired? I don't feel like what I did was THAT big of a deal tho..
    ive never danced before so it's gonna take me a little bit to get comfortable and figure out how everything works. I would have thought they could be a little more understanding. Maybe they are just extra harsh since I'm a black girl?

    Im just crying right now because I have sooo much shit going on in my life right now and really needed this job. That's why I chose stripping and this place in particular. It's the only club in Atlanta that you don't need a liscense for and can work under 21. I'm broke as shit rn and can't afford the 200-300$ fees for a permit.

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    Honestly, I think the drinking part did you in, maybe also if they're strict on contact & they felt you pushed that boundary too.
    Sorry to hear, maybe try another club, ask if they'd let you work til you have the license fee.
    Or go back to the dive.
    Good luck.


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    Default Re: Wtf. I just got fired.

    Being drunk in the club that has such strict rules about alcohol -was a big red flag. I am not sure about other stuff, but this only was enough to fire. You pretty much screw working in this club, so maybe try the other ones around.

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    You are 100% sure there is no other club in the area you can work at? Any girls in her area know other clubs she could try?

    If you get fired just go to another club is my advice on anyone getting fired ever....if you can't work at another club are you sure don't know anyone that could lend you $300 to get your license? Then get your license and have more options to be able to pay them back quickly.

    Some clubs don't care if you get wasted and some clubs do, I've noticed it is depending shit sometimes on the clubs liquor license, history with law related illegal alcohol consumption ,etc. My guess they died you cuz you were a liability to their operation running.

    I've been fired from tons of clubs lmao...for various reasons...I get sick of a club after like 3 months and start acting out lmao ...gypsy stripper syndrome
    Best thing about this industry is even if you get fire from somewhere doesn't mean you can't work there again, it's really politickin and schoomizng can sometimes get you back in the door...you make any friends on the way out? Ask them if they have clout with the boss to let you back in lol...tons of ways get creative

    I've prolly worked again and again at another time at a club that fired me more than one lol...I have lifetime bans only at two clubs but I don't even see it as lifetime ban cuz once those managers get fire or quit my ass will be shaking in that place when I feel like it lmao...

    You can get fire just cuz YOUR boss is an alcoholic and he's having a shitty day and is hungover and sees u at the wrong time ...always have money in case something like that happens baby girl




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    I'm about to start a "funniest/best story of getting fired" thread so girls out there don't feel so alone atleast lol




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    Default Re: Wtf. I just got fired.

    I just can't believe drinking could be that big of a deal tho. It's a fucking strip club. And it's not like I act crazy or anything when I drink. Plus it was my 21st.
    And if it was really that big of an issue they should have told me what they expected when I was first hired then gave me a warning first to at least correct my behavior. Smh.

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    How you should've known was the fact they give you breathalyzers. Hardly any clubs worldwide do that lol. Would've tipped me off to google the club and see if they had their liquor license revoked before. It's not personally baby it's business, they gave you a second chance your second shift and fucked it up again. They don't care that it's your 21st birthday they don't want their club shut down.
    Go tell the manager your sorry and please please please let u back that works sometimes lol




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    Like I said some clubs don't give a fuck if girls are ramming meth needles up their asshokes lol and some are super strict, you gotta find one that works with your personality




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    One club I worked in, 2 guys came in, tipped girls, went back out & smash into a tree..they were friends, the passenger died.
    After that, we (the club) we're watched for awhile.
    Also, I knew of a regular bar, but they had a bachelor party in there, Idk what went down but not only they got perm closed, but business stripped of liquor license, they have to sell the place for next to nothing
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    Default Re: Wtf. I just got fired.

    Personally I think the fact that you were on the managers radar that much in your first 2 days was why.

    1) you knew the rules but were corrected twice for breaking them, however slight... 2) you were short on tip out (yes I know it was dead, but it's still one more thing that puts your name in his brain for something negative)... 3) the alcohol issue, honestly a .05 is PLENTY for you to be obviously drunk even if you're not belligerent

    He probably added all that up and decided you were going to be a nuisance to him.
    It depends how tight a ship they run but I have seen girls get fired for less. My management would have canned you as well. The club may have strict ordinances they have to follow and they aren't going to risk trouble for some baby stripper.

    Unfortunately nobody owes anybody any understanding in this industry. Find a new club. Keep your head down, DON'T DRINK AT WORK, bring extra cash to pay tip out at first (until you have enough clout to tell them to piss off on dead nights), and be professional.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Also, some time ago, a dancer that got off work was driving high/drunk & took out like 3 people working on the side of the road.
    Yes, that bar got sued too.


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    Default Re: Wtf. I just got fired.

    Even the air dance rule is something, usually air dances are required by law in that certain district or whatever, if a club is being watched and you break a million laws in two days they aren't going to want you there regardless of how gorgeous and entertaining you are

    On the flip side some clubs are ran by mafias and worked with crooked cops lmao...

    Welcome to the industry boo

    Next time you make sure hustle your ass off during your next shift so you have cash to cover getting fired




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    [QUOTE=lioness11;3010492]It's a fucking strip club.
    I'd say with such attitude you'd better find another job. This is WORK with all the rights and responsibilities of the work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Personally I think the fact that you were on the managers radar that much in your first 2 days was why.

    1) you knew the rules but were corrected twice for breaking them, however slight... 2) you were short on tip out (yes I know it was dead, but it's still one more thing that puts your name in his brain for something negative)... 3) the alcohol issue, honestly a .05 is PLENTY for you to be obviously drunk even if you're not belligerent

    He probably added all that up and decided you were going to be a nuisance to him.
    It depends how tight a ship they run but I have seen girls get fired for less. My management would have canned you as well. The club may have strict ordinances they have to follow and they aren't going to risk trouble for some baby stripper.

    Unfortunately nobody owes anybody any understanding in this industry. Find a new club. Keep your head down, DON'T DRINK AT WORK, bring extra cash to pay tip out at first (until you have enough clout to tell them to piss off on dead nights), and be professional.
    The only reason I allowed the guy to touch me was because I saw a ton of other girls allowing contact so I thought it was cool. I was dancing with this other girl who had worked there longer than me sit on her guys lap and that's why I did it. The floorman didn't say shit to her but he did to me.

    And a .05 is not "obviously drunk". The legal driving limit is actually .08 and that's like having 1-2 drinks. Barely a buzz. If they didn't want me to drink period then they should have stated that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lioness11 View Post
    The only reason I allowed the guy to touch me was because I saw a ton of other girls allowing contact so I thought it was cool. I was dancing with this other girl who had worked there longer than me sit on her guys lap and that's why I did it. The floorman didn't say shit to her but he did to me.

    And a .05 is not "obviously drunk". The legal driving limit is actually .08 and that's like having 1-2 drinks. Barely a buzz. If they didn't want me to drink period then they should have stated that.
    The thing is, when you're the new girl, management is going to keep their eyes on you to make sure you are adhering to rules. Any time you start at a new club, you need to be on your best behavior, at least for the first few weeks.Just to gain their trust and to show them that you won't be a liability. Though it's always good to stick to rules so you won't have drama down the road too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lioness11 View Post
    The only reason I allowed the guy to touch me was because I saw a ton of other girls allowing contact so I thought it was cool. I was dancing with this other girl who had worked there longer than me sit on her guys lap and that's why I did it. The floorman didn't say shit to her but he did to me.

    And a .05 is not "obviously drunk". The legal driving limit is actually .08 and that's like having 1-2 drinks. Barely a buzz. If they didn't want me to drink period then they should have stated that.
    They didn't "state" it outright but tons of shit in his industry is unspoken.
    Learn nuances
    The breathalyzer is them telling you, they have issues with drunkeness if they breathalyze you point blank period.
    Learn to pick up on social ques , if they literally test how drunk you are at a club then it's a good idea to not drink at that club.
    If you cannot work without being buzzed go to a different club where they are more relaxed on alcohol, there are tons of them.
    What you're missing here is that the other girls have most likely even TIPPED the bouncers COLD HEARD CASH or even -gasp- sucked their dicks or became their best friends to look the other way lol...grease your wheels next time if you don't mind contact with customers, tip your bouncers
    Another unspoken nuance is the art of the tip lol




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    Default Re: Wtf. I just got fired.

    From the clubs point of view you broke the rules more than once so they fired you. Next time stick to the rules don't worry about other girls at least for a while. when you are new they will watch you. Maybe you will find a better club.
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    If you want you job back your attitude is all wrong honestly
    I never got re-hired at a place I was fired from for saying "well you guys should've told me" lol they don't care about shit like that....if you appeal to the manager say " I'm am really sorry I am very green to stripping and I don't want to stop now. This club was a great opportunity for me, I know what I did wrong and I've learned from it. Please give me a second chance."
    You'll have better odds




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    These people are fake as fuck btw don't feel like you owe them honesty, they don't care about your fight for what's right
    And the house mom who told you don't worry about paying and to pay next time could've been the one who told the manager that you didn't pay and you're a drunk mess and to let you go lol...even if she was nice to your face (that's pure speculation obviously I have no idea on that but house moms are not always pure angels they can be snakes too lol)




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    Ugh. I really needed this job and it's really my only option club wise right now..
    If I swallowed my pride and went back to talk to the manager and said I wouldn't make any more mistakes, they would take me back?

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    I'm not sure baby girl that's based on your ability to win people over
    Go there humble and wanting to do your best




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    But it's worked for me a bunch of times lol....I once ripped up a club promo flyer and spit on it then threw it at a managers face before and after I apologized he let me work again lmao...he was kinda in love me tho so I was always pushing limits to see what I could get away with ahaha, anyway my point it is it is always circumstantial just don't apologize with a chip on your shoulder or an attitude cuz it can go one of two ways




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    Quote Originally Posted by Nadia_ View Post
    But it's worked for me a bunch of times lol....I once ripped up a club promo flyer and spit on it then threw it at a managers face before and after I apologized he let me work again lmao...he was kinda in love me tho so I was always pushing limits to see what I could get away with ahaha, anyway my point it is it is always circumstantial just don't apologize with a chip on your shoulder or an attitude cuz it can go one of two ways
    Should I go back tonight? It's late over here but I'm already out..

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    Go when he will be the LEAST busy or annoyed , a slow time. Best is early/right when club opens and they've settled in, imagine "after his coffee" timing lol. You want them in a good mood. Potentially go during the times the club auditions cuz that's usually slowest time

    In this mentally remember you have nothing to lose you are fired already, so give it your all and communicate to him you are worth having around




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    And if he says no , be very classy and just say "all right I understand"; then in 2-3 months go back again, this particular manager might not even work there anymore




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