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    Hi everybody. I’ve got some trouble and I need help . I’m escorting and traveling around the states . I’ve got some message from the client and he asked me if I’m available. I said yes and he wanted to meet as soon as possible. I said about 30min and I’ll be there . He gave me address. I arrived and texted him asking about the apartment number, but no answer, I tried calling but no answer. I was so angry. I found his Facebook page and he is there with his wife. I made a screen and send to him not saying anything. I didn’t want to tell anything to his family I just wanted his to be know that he should do like this anybody. He texted me right back that he is gonna mail to police about what I’m doing .
    Next day I’ve got some weird text from another number with questions Hello Are you currently working in This ... area? So now I need some advice what to .

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    Hi everybody. I’ve got some trouble and I need help . I’m escorting and traveling around the states . I’ve got some message from the client and he asked me if I’m available. I said yes and he wanted to meet as soon as possible. I said about 30min and I’ll be there . He gave me address. I arrived and texted him asking about the apartment number, but no answer, I tried calling but no answer. I was so angry. I found his Facebook page and he is there with his wife. I made a screen and send to him not saying anything. I didn’t want to tell anything to his family I just wanted his to be know that he should do like this anybody. He texted me right back that he is gonna mail to police about what I’m doing .
    Next day I’ve got some weird text from another number with questions Hello Are you currently working in This ... area? So now I need some advice what to .
    He's not going to the police because then he'd have to explain to his wife that he hires escorts. So if you wanted to scare him, it sounds like you succeeded and hopefully are willing to move on.

    For the second thing, what does this have to do with the first thing? Is your phone number included in your ads? If so that could be anyone sending you a text checking your availability.

    And one last think I hope that Facebook is a routine part of your screening. Because it sounds as if you only found his FB after he stood you up.

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    Hi there , thanks for the quick answer. My phone number in my page . And I found him that he is from another state not from where I am now and that another number also from the state where this man living . Yes I just wanted to scare him and that’s it but I hope everything will be fine. It’s never happened with me before that’s why I was so confused. Usually I was lucky in clients.

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    Oh That asshole made my day, that another number still texting me and want hire me and talking about money , so I changed everywhere phone number and email , and turn off my ads . Maybe anybody has a good friend lawyer who can get me a consultation . I mean I need to work but I am scared now and don't know what to do .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neways View Post
    Oh That asshole made my day, that another number still texting me and want hire me and talking about money , so I changed everywhere phone number and email , and turn off my ads . Maybe anybody has a good friend lawyer who can get me a consultation . I mean I need to work but I am scared now and don't know what to do .
    How long have you been doing this?

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    I've been doing about a year but never had any problem like this .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neways View Post
    I've been doing about a year but never had any problem like this .
    Its not clear as to why you need a lawyer at this time. Lawyers and good bails bondsman are great ylto have on standby. But what is it in your situation that requires one? So far the inly thing Im reading is people are texting you? Do you think that one guy contacted the police? Whats going on here?

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    I have no idea who he had contact with, but it just scared me I'm just in a panic. I'm sorry.

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    I have no idea who he had contact with, but it just scared me I'm just in a panic. I'm sorry.
    No need to apologize the situation just isn't very clear. If you've changed everything up then you should be okay, for now. Take some time to read up on this board. Go through the other threads on screening and le.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neways View Post
    Oh That asshole made my day, that another number still texting me and want hire me and talking about money , so I changed everywhere phone number and email , and turn off my ads . Maybe anybody has a good friend lawyer who can get me a consultation . I mean I need to work but I am scared now and don't know what to do .
    If you are not familiar with this process, don't get tricked into discussing money or service details on the phone.
    I like being alone, I just don't like being lonely.




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    Unless we are missing something ( like he knows where you are and is threatening violence ) , you don't need a lawyer or police. Just move on. It sounds like you are trying to screen which is good . It's possible this person's wife came home early or something or that he is a flake but it doesn't matter as he has already wasted your time.

    I have had this happen in my body rub business where the wife has come home early ( I leave everything by the door in a clean " stack " of donation already in purse / phone / purse all stacked ) . Attach your keys with a clip to your purse . In my case , I was able to very quietly move out the front door as she was parking in the back. It was quite funny as this guy had family photos out but had this story of " just being here to work a week ".

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    Thank you girls , I'm glad that I founded this forum .

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    MrNumber.com has been good for me for cheap screening. It's far from perfect but if someone has a record of really bad behavior, they will almost surely ( eventually ) end up there. You can help others by putting this guys number there ( just give a detail about he booked / then wasted time ).

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    Also ( I'm sure you may know this ) , if you are using FB to screen, make sure to use a completely fake profile as people can see who has searched them recently ect. and FB will ALSO " pull " contacts off your google voice number to " suggest " to you. There are more threads about this on this site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    Also ( I'm sure you may know this ) , if you are using FB to screen, make sure to use a completely fake profile as people can see who has searched them recently ect. and FB will ALSO " pull " contacts off your google voice number to " suggest " to you. There are more threads about this on this site.
    Thank you , I didn't know that people can see who has searched them .

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    More than likely he chickened out because of his marital status. His threat to call the police on you was likely nothing more than an empty threat. If he were to call the police on you, he would be getting himself in trouble too. Since he's married and probably has kids he wouldn't risk that. Mr. Number is awesome for checking phone numbers. As a previous poster mentioned you should add his number on there with a warning for other ladies. Mr. Number can alert you to flakes/no shows/timewasters as well as violent guys, cheapies who short you, and LE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    More than likely he chickened out because of his marital status. His threat to call the police on you was likely nothing more than an empty threat. If he were to call the police on you, he would be getting himself in trouble too. Since he's married and probably has kids he wouldn't risk that. Mr. Number is awesome for checking phone numbers. As a previous poster mentioned you should add his number on there with a warning for other ladies. Mr. Number can alert you to flakes/no shows/timewasters as well as violent guys, cheapies who short you, and LE.
    Yeah I guess you are right and now I think I need to be more patient and more calm down and it was my mistake to sent him that screenshot. It’s a lesson for me .

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