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    ...If your boyfriend cropped you out of his default picture on Facebook/Instagram? and posted shirtless selfies of just himself? I don't have a boyfriend but I casually dated this guy a while back and he was a douche so I ended things with him. He got a new girlfriend right after we stopped talking and I dont care, good for them. But one day my friend was scrolling through IG and finds his pic in her feed and goes "hey isn't that the guy you hung out with a while ago?" and shows me the pics of him in her feed. All I saw was his default pic, and two pics of him but I didn't look at his page (and I dont want to). The one pic was him shirtless in front of a mirror and the other was him with another dude (maybe one his friends) at a concert, but none of her. I was like OMG if that were my boyfriend I'd be pissed!! But my friend was like oh I dont know...it got me wondering lol. How would you feel if that were your boyfriend? His girlfriend is a total idiot by the way haha.

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    Are you sure that she's in the picture that he cropped her out. That would piss everyone off. But if she's not in the picture begin with... doesn't his relationship status say...in relationship with...?
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    Yes it's definitely her in the pic. I saw the side of her hair next to his face and her hair is very distinct. She was cropped out so all you can see is his face (with her hair on the side). It's on his IG and it's not like FB where you can put your relationship status so it doesn't say if he's in a relationship or not. I don't follow him my friend does and I didn't ask her anymore questions about his page

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    He sounds like a tool.

    Anyone who uses bathroom half nude selfies as their profile pic is just screaming for attention. He probably had duck lips too.

    But to answer the question would I be pissed if my bf cropped me out of his profile pic - yes. That's rude af. He probably did it on purpose to test the boundaries of what he can get away with while dealing with her.

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    Oh yeah he definitely likes to test boundaries lol. And he is a major tool and bigger attention whore than most girls I know! I've wondered before if maybe he is gay and using her as his beard?...

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    Ha!

    Yeah, guys who take shirtless bathroom selfies are a red flag. Most likely is a douche. The kissy face too. Ugh.

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    Honestly, I've taken pictures with other people where I've wanted to use that picture of me as a profile pic because it was really good, but cropped out the other person. I don't think there's anything inherently shady about that. I figure, it's MY profile and profile pic - why do I need to include my boyfriend in it? It's not his profile. He's not the absolute center of my world to where I feel the need to have my profile pic include him equally. Why can't my main picture just be about me?

    However, the uncropped picture still ends up in a photo album somewhere, and there are certainly a ton of pics of me with him, so it's not like I'm cropping him out of everything. That would be shady.
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    She was cropped out of the original image too. And he usually hashtags his pictures lol.

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    Hmm aurora you have an interesting point.

    I do think there is a distinction between a clean crop - where you can't tell who the person cropped out is or that there was even a person there vs the messy IDGAF crop - where you know it's someone there being cropped out and some identifier of who the cropped out person is.

    Like say for example I peruse my significant others profile and I notice he has barely any or no pictures of me and the only one he has is me cropped out and I know it's me because I can see some something that identifies it like my shoulder is still there with fabric from a dress I own. That would enrage me. Lol.

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    I'm just wondering how we did all of our stalking before Facebook? And yes he sounds like a major league a-hole! Good riddance!

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    She was cropped out of the original image too. And he usually hashtags his pictures lol.
    Ok, then yes, that is absolutely shady and douchey. I was thinking he just used a cropped pic as his profile pic, which I don't see anything wrong with. But if the girl is cropped out of the picture elsewhere on instagram or facebook, that's really rude and there's no reason to do that to someone.
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    He sounds like a total asshat who crops his gf out of pictures so that he can appear to be single, flirt, and lure in more pussy. He also sounds young. That's a dumb, young guy tactic, post shirtless pictures of themselves and bask in the compliments. If she's not bothered by it, then okay.

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    I don't care what ex's do, they are ex's. I unfollow & move on with my life.

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    i wouldn't be pissed too much, I really dont give a fuck about stuff like that personally - I lucked out and that i was a very picky dater when i was younger and my standards lend me to the more layed back geeky sort who dont really do things like that because they dont have fragile enough egos hell one of my exes I was with all through HS and a year after is still a really close friend, and became a friend with my spouse, I got to know her spouse and all their kids and we just have the occasional go out as two families when one of us is in the others town.....so i really never had reason to bother with those things ( that and I was married before social media was a thing)


    but tldr; men can be childish douches....women too best to just walk away from those sorts and situations and be done with it
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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    He sounds like a total asshat who crops his gf out of pictures so that he can appear to be single, flirt, and lure in more pussy. He also sounds young. That's a dumb, young guy tactic, post shirtless pictures of themselves and bask in the compliments. If she's not bothered by it, then okay.
    LOL he's not young, get this, he is 36! its crazy how some people never grow up, but it does not surprise me one bit. I'm so over those types of guys, I want my next boyfriend to be laid back, secure, and classy.

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    Douchemeisters come in all ages. Some dudes be in their 40's, 50's and beyond acting like plum fools.

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