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    Hi loves!


    so I am very seriously considering escorting. I have a few questions for some of you...

    does escorting allow for living freedom?
    could I be able to live in LA, SF or NYC for comfortably I mean? I understand it's a building process but I am currently stuck in a city I really dislike because the dancing is good but I hate being here, so I am hoping escorting could be away I could make more and be in the cities I want because dancing in those cities isn't viable.. IMO.
    I am Victoria Secret model pretty and very very personable when paid to be so I think I could do very well in this industry, the thing is is I don't do casual sex and am largely A-sexual so it's definitely going to be an acting job for me lol.

    also how realistic are high-end rates for consistent bookings?
    I would like to maybe work 4 days a week and I think I could do 1-2 clients those days but I don't want to bother if I can't charge at least 1k or a higher figure plus tip.


    any thoughts on that? I really just want to move sometime in the next year or two permanently and I feel this could be a good way to do that... so I'm researching a lot.
    thanks in advance! I plan to have a full professional website etc.

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    I think you're going to have trouble getting more than $1,000 for an hour of work. Some of the most beautiful women I've seen charge $700 an hour. Rates are typically from $400 to $800 an hour on the West Coast. Once you get some reviews up on TER you might be able to up your rates, assuming the reviews are favorable to you.

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    You don't do casual sex and you're largely asexual? Yeah, you might not last very long doing this kind of work. Sex isn't acting, you're going to be affected more than you like. I guess you can just "numb out" to it which is where the acting comes in, but the general rule of doing anything that you fundamentally don't like is that you won't 'fake it until you make it' or 'learn to love it'.
    It might work though if you're charging such a high rate, since then you won't get too much all the time and you can start slow and see if you really like it/can handle it.
    I don't have anything else to add, hopefully more chime in about the rest. Best of luck to you, this is a great way to make money.

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    To answer your question, yes escorting allows for freedom. There are many women who work as that and work and travel all over the globe. If you're not into casual sex and are asexual then sorry, but I think perhaps you should reconsider escorting. You can try phone sex or webcamming. At least then you don't have to have sex with anyone in person. Doing something that you don't enjoy will burn you out over time and could cause you to hate sex. I think charging $1k an hour is going to be tough to find work when your a newbie to escorting. I mean, you can charge whatever you want to but look at the rates that the other girls in your desired area are charging. Escorting is competitive. Some guys are cheap and will always go with the lowest rate that they can find, regardless of if the higher rate women look like supermodels while the lower ones are busted up looking. Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kace View Post
    You don't do casual sex and you're largely asexual? Yeah, you might not last very long doing this kind of work. Sex isn't acting, you're going to be affected more than you like. I guess you can just "numb out" to it which is where the acting comes in, but the general rule of doing anything that you fundamentally don't like is that you won't 'fake it until you make it' or 'learn to love it'.
    It might work though if you're charging such a high rate, since then you won't get too much all the time and you can start slow and see if you really like it/can handle it.
    I don't have anything else to add, hopefully more chime in about the rest. Best of luck to you, this is a great way to make money.

    Like logically and fundamentally I realize I need sex to be "healthy", but I never like ANYONE.. I tried the whole casual dating thing and the sex was never good and only ever happend one time before I was like "no thanks" to the guy, but guys all get obsessed with me because I am so "take or leave" sex. Most men have described sex with me like f*cking a porn star because of my body and looks so in my mind why would I engage in meaningless casual sex for free when I can charge people? The sex is going to be mediocre regardless. Sometimes it'll be bad and sometimes good I guess, but because I CAN monetize on it and I don't date or hardly ever like anyone, I might as well spend my time with men that pay me and value my time. That's where my brain goes. I can be very disconnected with sex as in not emotional and not connect, but I worry about the potential mental or emotional damage possible? I worry about if I ever DID want to get married or have kids how this could effect my future? And I worry about my safety as I view it as a high-risk occupation. Any insight would be amazing. And thank you!

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    It comes down to the money for me. It would definitely be more of a quality over quantity thing for me. I'm just not sure what is "normal" or average in that industry for girls and how often they are booked. I guess it is a largely personal thing? I don't want anything recordable or on video so webcamming is not an option. I like how discrete escorting can be and I need something that is not traceable as I finish my MD and go into a profession I need a good reputation. But I also don't ever see myself getting married or having kids, and I also don't date and don't sleep around and I frankly don't feel like spending my life as a monk. And dancing just frustrates that part of me. So it's like....... monk or escorting? Lol. I figure if I am going to put out I might as well charge I suppose. I can't be sexless forever.

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    Sounds like you've already made up your mind, since every response you got told you escorting prob wouldn't be a good fit for you since your Asexual -but your still kinda trying to rationalize. I frankly, agree with them & I've done all various forms of sex work. If your not into sex why not try full body sensual massage -it's still closer to escorting, but your still not literally fucking -plus some of those little old men are just so nice. Full body sensual massage would be a great way for you to get your toes wet without actually diving in headfirst
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    Quote Originally Posted by NYC.Bianca View Post
    Like logically and fundamentally I realize I need sex to be "healthy", but I never like ANYONE.. I tried the whole casual dating thing and the sex was never good and only ever happend one time before I was like "no thanks" to the guy, but guys all get obsessed with me because I am so "take or leave" sex. Most men have described sex with me like f*cking a porn star because of my body and looks so in my mind why would I engage in meaningless casual sex for free when I can charge people? The sex is going to be mediocre regardless. Sometimes it'll be bad and sometimes good I guess, but because I CAN monetize on it and I don't date or hardly ever like anyone, I might as well spend my time with men that pay me and value my time. That's where my brain goes. I can be very disconnected with sex as in not emotional and not connect, but I worry about the potential mental or emotional damage possible? I worry about if I ever DID want to get married or have kids how this could effect my future? And I worry about my safety as I view it as a high-risk occupation. Any insight would be amazing. And thank you!


    Truthfully I have found unpaid dating to be much more traumatic mentally and emotionally than paid dating.

    It's much easier to get over any minor upsets when you are well paid.

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    Default Re: Escorting questions!!

    You don't need sex to be healthy. Orgasms? Perhaps but you can get that without sex. Also you probably don't even need sexual orgasms. The same chemicals released in your brain by orgasms can also be had by exercising, breastfeeding, sexual/non sexual touch, being in love, meditating, amusement park rides, drugs (not recommending anything illegal but you know what I mean), etc.

    As far as escorting. All I know is if sex ain't your passion then you won't enjoy the work. Like suggested above try other avenues like dancing, camming, producing, etc.

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    The only girls I know that make that much and much more to fuck are girls that have private arrangements with their regulars that they met at the club but you don't like dancing so IDK.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    The only girls I know that make that much and much more to fuck are girls that have private arrangements with their regulars that they met at the club but you don't like dancing so IDK.
    Yah.. seems like the high-end girls I am learning from have an establishment. But I think it's kind of a matter of acquiring the right kind of client for what you want to do. I don't want like wham-bam thank you mam dudes that will pay $3-400 an hour for just whatever, I want guys that see it as a privilege to pay 1k even for my time. I know they exist, but it would probably be a year or so of super slow time and lots of discreet marketing in order to acquire the clients I desire..

    I do like dancing, but my patience and enthusiasm for the industry is going downhill... in addition to the fact most girls just put out for customers at the right price anyhow makes the industry start to become cheaper and cheaper and I dislike the volatility it can have. Any escorting I would do would be completely separate from dancing, I wouldn't intermingle them unless I suppose I met the right person, but most guys at strip clubs are just lonely looking for a girlfriend and don't want to pay a premium for that. Maybe in NYC tho because I know it is different there.

    I figure I mean.... I don't even like really talking to people, like at work, but I'll do it for money. lol. So I guess I just see sex the same way.. I definitely won't be wasting my time dating or putting out for free any longer thats for sure

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