As clubs (and strippers) significantly differ, it is difficult to gauge what is permissible.
Is it assumed that one can touch or should one first ask? What else is generally acceptable?
Thanks for your time!
As clubs (and strippers) significantly differ, it is difficult to gauge what is permissible.
Is it assumed that one can touch or should one first ask? What else is generally acceptable?
Thanks for your time!
Last edited by Just a Guy; 09-18-2017 at 09:28 AM.




Lol what?!
The answer to all your questions is no. And please never go to a strip club again.
Long night. You're right, weird. Sorry about that. I'm actually quite normal! Just confused as to what the VIP limits are, as there are so many seemingly stretched stories. Just wanted to know what the protocol is. Assuming to simply ask and be reasonable with one's requests. . . . Thanks!




Just ask what her rules are.
Like ime if a girl is willing to offer extras beyond the club rules, she'll tell you without you pushing because she wants to make as money as possible.
And obviously whatever her rules are don't whine about them or bug her for more when she's already stated what tjey are. Just enjoy the dance and move along.
some girls provide "extra" like you're asking i'm just saying i wouldn't delude myself into thinking you're "pleasuring" them if i were you, but to each their own. i know lots of guys don't care if the girl enjoys it but it sounded like you think you'd genuinely be doing strippers a favor by diddling them in the club.. lol
Yeah, I guess I'm one of the few that takes more pleasure in a happy woman than just a happy me. Selfish, self-centered men!
Thanks, got it, no 'pleasuring.' I'm finally figuring it out. . . . it's business. Money for a service. Where it seems men get lost on
all this is the fantasy element. They often run with the illusion in the wrong direction! I guess not much different than going to
a good movie. Hell, they even make us cry from time to time and it's on a bloody screen! Appreciate you!
have you thought of seeing an escort? many of them enjoy what they do and you wouldn't risk offending someone or getting thrown out of a club. usually girls who give extras in the club are doing so out of desperation anyways, just saying. a stripper isn't going to risk her job just because she's horny.. she's doing it because she needs money. not all sex workers are like that though. generally speaking a lot of escorts get into it because that's their comfort zone. strippers choose to work at clubs because that's what they're comfortable with- dancing. sadly some let guys push their boundaries for the right price.




If you really want to pleasure a stripper it's gonna have nothing to do with sexual stuff. She's danced all night. She wants a back and foot rub and lots of money.
Guys say that all the time "i just want to pleasure you" and then i'm like okay so gimme a back massage then and they dont... Like lmao so you just want to paw at my vagina basically. Nice try.
Great advice, SuperJa! Messages! I'll do that next time. . . . Thanks!
Last edited by Just a Guy; 09-18-2017 at 01:51 PM.
Ha, terrible us guys. . . . words of wisdom, mind-block. Thanks! Will remember this.
Last edited by Just a Guy; 09-18-2017 at 01:51 PM.





You are coming from the mindset that it is what you would want, but it may not be what she wants. Having strangers all night pawing at you isn't as fun & horny making but just the opposite. Nor can you assume she is actually attracted to you. Hence why every man in there has to PAY for a table dance & conversations. Women aren't working there to get off nightly with strange men, they are there to make money. You really aren't making their night but putting them in an awkward situation that almost all of us dread.
How do we know you are not a cop setting us up?
We are there to entertain you not have you supply us with orgasms or orgasms for you. Although some gals will for extra money, you & they can end up getting arrested for it too. Then you are going beyond just entertainment & into prostitution. Is prostitution legal in your area?
Are you ready to be arrested & that charge be public information for your boss, wife & all future jobs to see if they run a background check on you?





Plus they don't know where your hands have been or if they are clean.
FYI, 67% of men don't wash their hands after using the restroom. It's gross to watch. . . . I run a maid service, I know.
Certainly don't want an escort or prostitute. The thought of sleeping with one is a major turnoff for many reasons. I respect strippers, not prostitutes.
I enjoy the dynamics of a strip club. Just asking you all for advice plays into this. The line between reality and a virtual movie set are seemingly blurred!
Strip clubs are so unique. It's tougher work than I realized. I certainly respect it more now and find more value in it. Strippers deserve the money they
earn. I see many are true professionals. Too bad a few bad seeds, both strippers and goers, seem to screw it up for the rest of us. I'll make sure to change
my mindset the next time, thinking in the manner as though I was taking a woman on a date.
Brinking....


Why the hell don't you respect prostitutes? It's one of the noblest professions out there, second only to janitors IMO.
As to your original question, ask them straight up. Get a single lap dance and see if they let you do what you want and then take them to the VIP. See them multiple times if that is what it takes to get what you want. Just try not to act like a creep or a cop.
Last edited by Liwet; 09-18-2017 at 11:30 PM.







The video you linked is an advertisement for the law firm.
It's still legal (in Nevada) for a customer to consensually touch a dancer's breasts. She's covered under the first amendment as her dancing is part of her freedom of expression; if she wants to include her spectator(s) in her sexual expression, the law can't stop her. If anything, she's more protected by accepting money for dancing than if she let's a customer touch for free.
Despite all this, Vegas is one of the cleanest cities in the United States. TUSCL members will admit that it's a rip-off to go to Vegas clubs.
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